[SoulMate05]

About a year ago, I met this guy that was involved with another woman. We were just close friends, that hung out with one another. I always had a crush on him, and he knew that I did, he told me that he felt the same way, but he loved his girlfriend very much. After a while his girlfriend, thought that me and him were spending too much time together, and asked "us" if we would stop seeing each other. Unless she was around. We told her she was crazy, but we both agreed because we didn't want any problems. We weren't doing anything wrong. Well about a week later, he decided to tell me that he thought it was ridiculous, that we couldn't hang out. So we started hanging out again. She got very angry with us, and started fighting with me. I decided to leave, and I never talked to them until 6 months later, after that day. Well not her anyway, I have talked to him, and seen him. They are still together, and she hates me. He has seen me 3 times since that all happened, and each time he doesn't tell her he is going to see me. I know she will freak out, and I mean she does have a reason to freak out, because I do like him, and he does say those feelings are recipricated, but that doesn't mean we are doing anything together. And she doesn't know that we do like each other, she just has a jealousy issue I think. What I want to know here is that why do you think after all this time, even though he likes me still, that he is with her? I mean I know he loves her, but she is really possesive of him. I just don't understand...

[glavine]

He Is Still With Her Because It Is Easier To Do That Than To Hurt Her. Hes Probably Been With Her So Long Its More Of A Habit

[talaniman]

She is absolutely correct to be suspiciuos of you, and her b/f as she senses the attraction, and sees it as a threat to her, and her relationship with him. And yes it is. For whatever reason you both are out of bounds, as just because nothing has happened, it may in her eyes, and I have no doubt this is her worry. Get from between these two.