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    Mar 16, 2007, 08:13 PM
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    K so I dated this guy for 4 months and I fell absoulety in love with him. However we broke up but still hooked up for a week after but then one night I ended up smashing his truck with a shovel. I paid for all the damage and didn't talk to him forever. I was finally completely over him for the most part but now he's bak in my life and we keep sleeping together and I realize I still love him. Only problem is he is a complete jerk when he's around any of his friends but with me he's such a sweetie. How can I get him to date me again? Or should I?
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    Mar 17, 2007, 04:12 AM
    FIRST - You do not really love him. Loving somebody takes time and patience. What you describe is not love.

    SECOND - All of a sudden now that you continue to sleep with him you realize you still love him. Wrong, sleeping with somebody does not mean all of a sudden you still love him. You may love the sex, but that is as far as that goes.

    THIRD - You're a very violent person, I do not care if you paid for everything or not. He is crazy to even be around YOU and if he pushes you're buttons so much that you need to take it out physically. Do you really think this is a good idea.

    FOURTH - STOP SLEEPING WITH THE JERK.

    FIFTH - DO NOT DATE HIM.

    SIXTH - DO NOT SEE HIM.

    SEVENTH - STAY AWAY FROM ALL RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL YOU MATURE A LOT A LOT MORE.

    JOE
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    Mar 17, 2007, 05:01 AM
    You should leave him alone as I think you are confused with love and sex. If he was that interested in you, he would be doing more than taking advantage of your feelings for him, and you would be more than just a booty call. I hope you have those anger issues under control or at least working on them.
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    Mar 17, 2007, 05:10 AM
    No is a very interesting world, and one not used far enough.
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    Aug 26, 2007, 11:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kickass828
    K so i dated this guy for 4 months nd i fell absoulety in love with him. However we broke up but still hooked up for a week after but then one nite i ended up smashing his truck with a shovel. I payed for all the damage nd didnt talk to him forever. I was finally completly over him for the most part but now hes bak in my life nd we keep sleeping together and i realize i still love him. Only problem is he is a complete jerk when hes around any of his friends but with me hes such a sweetie. How can i get him to date me again? or should i?
    NOPE!

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