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    damnsebum Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 19, 2011, 01:33 PM
    Age gaps?
    Okay so I've known this girl for a long time. When I was only eight years old I started madly crushing on her. But she was too old for me, she was eleven. And she thought I was just a kid (I guess I was, whatever). So she was pretty much like my babysitter then. I've liked her more and more over the years. I'm actually 15 now and she's nineteen. She doesn't look at me as a kid anymore. In fact, there are a lot of times where I think she's flirting with me. I feel downed by my chances thought, she's absolutely gorgeous! I know it's illegal... but that's only if I sleep with her right? What are my chances, be brutally honest because everyone I ask already is
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    Mar 19, 2011, 01:39 PM
    There's no way of telling if she likes you as I don't know either of you, its not illegal to date but it is to sleep together.

    Although the age gap isn't that big in reality your still very much a young teenager, whereas she is now an adult and the maturity levels at this stage would be very very different. If on the other hand, you where both in your 20s or 30s it wouldn't be so bad.
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    Mar 19, 2011, 01:44 PM
    She may flirt without it meaning anything. I really doubt that someone who is out of high school would be willing to date someone who has just started it. Enjoy the flirting and the crush but don't read anything into it.
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    Mar 19, 2011, 01:53 PM

    Since you two have know each other forever, she probably thinks of you like a little brother. What you consider flirting may actually be her gently teasing you.

    I would bet my second child that she is not interested in you romantically.
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    Mar 20, 2011, 10:53 AM

    Chance for what? Romance? I doubt it. You are to old to need a baby sitter, and to young for an adult.

    In other words, FORGET IT!!

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