I am wondering the same thing. I've been gone for a month and half working out of town. And came back and it's really been about 4 months since we have done anything and we went to make love and of course he made me very happy I start coughing really bad and had to sit up and then he was soft he said when I started choking and he went limp. I have noticed it before but know I don't know what to do. I asked him if it was me or me having gained weight he said no it wasn't me. I want to make him happy but I can't do a blow job, I gag and throw up, I have tried to make myself and all but I just can't and he totally understands, something bad happened to me when I was young. So please help me, I know marriages bust up because of this kind of stuff, he told me one day he just don't think about it no more. And before he always pinched my butt or my boobie or something, but I can't get nothing out of him anymore. He says he loves me very much.
Here's my email, cause I don't know how I ended up here. I just need answers. I really think I am losing him, I have never been able to have a orgasm justby making love. He's always took care of me in that dept, I feel like I am failing him. I love him so much. I will do what I got to.
Thank you for the help if your able to.
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Sheri