my 52 year old daughter show no respect recently had to ask he to come help because

Fr_Chuck · May 8, 2012, 05:59 PM

This is not really too uncommon, many children don't feel they have the time or are too busy with their work and life. Does she have a job, would she need to take time off from work, is she having money issue and would taking off work be hard on her.

pattystrunk · May 8, 2012, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by LadySam

Hi Patty,
As a former geriatric nurse, I really don't like to hear that when seniors are in need they have a difficult time getting the help that they need from those around them.
As far as your daughter goes, I don't have an answer for you, I wish I did.
I've seen really great family members, and some mediocre, and some I wish I'd never met.

You are going through a lot, and to have recently lost your son, my heart goes out to you.
My thought here was this. Do you attend church?
And if so are there members there who could possibly assist you with some of your transportation needs?

I wish you and your husband the best and I truly hope you find the resources you need to help you with these issues.
Again, my thoughts are with you.

Thank You for the well wishes I will be ready next time and won't ask for her help again still in shock over her bad behavior

JudyKayTee · May 9, 2012, 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by LadySam

Hi Patty,
As a former geriatric nurse, I really don't like to hear that when seniors are in need they have a difficult time getting the help that they need from those around them.
As far as your daughter goes, I don't have an answer for you, I wish I did.
I've seen really great family members, and some mediocre, and some I wish I'd never met.

You are going through a lot, and to have recently lost your son, my heart goes out to you.
My thought here was this. Do you attend church?
And if so are there members there who could possibly assist you with some of your transportation needs?

I wish you and your husband the best and I truly hope you find the resources you need to help you with these issues.
Again, my thoughts are with you.

Wow - again, too "good" for just a "like." Very, very true.

My late husband was in and out of the hospital for years. I saw family members of other patients who fit into every category - downright abusive, neglectful, concerned, not concerned, neutral. Very often the family support (or lack thereof) was shocking.

In my area the Red Cross provides transportation as do specialized Associations - Heart Association, Cancer, etc.

pattystrunk · May 9, 2012, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Wow - again, too "good" for just a "like." Very, very true.

My late husband was in and out of the hospital for years. I saw family members of other patients who fit into every category - downright abusive, neglectful, concerned, not concerned, neutral. Very often the family support (or lack thereof) was shocking.

In my area the Red Cross provides transportation as do specialized Associations - Heart Association, Cancer, etc.

Thank You yes very shocked at our daugters response I always took care of my parents and so did my husband she was raised in loving home and that family came 1st so I don't know

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