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Okay lets try this again... he's made clear that not only does he find me more attractive and more of his "serious relationship" type... he's also made it clear that I also have a better personality....

What would make you go for a girl that is the polar opposite of your ex when it comes to appearance and religion, when you said, you'd never date someone outside your religion. And its not a matter...

I'm in a bit of a bind and I think its best to get a perspective from someone who is not involved in the situation. A night out with a close friend ended up being a night with my ex's closest friends...

Not sure, to be honest. We've never lost touch, even though we've both dated around. Its come up in the past about how, for whatever reason, we can talk to each other about things that we can't with...

I'd believe a mix of the two. I didn't mean to offend a general population of men, as I've met some really good ones over the years. It took breaking up for him to even confide any of that in me to...

An old boyfriend has recently come back into my life, which happens from time to time. We're on acquaintance terms, but something has been nagging me for awhile and I figured its safer to post to a...

"i'm sorry, _____, i do care...but you're right, we shouldn't hook up, its not right...but you do mean more than that, so i just want you to know that"


My ex and I fell into a pattern of hooking...

What does it mean to be "going through the motions" though?

What does it mean for someone to be going through the motions in a relationship? Especially one that's been going on for a little over a year? My friend has been dating a girl for over a year and I...

Anyone know what the song "My Doorbell" by the White Stripes is about?

"I've been thinkin' about my doorbell...when you gonna ring it, when you gonna ring it?"

Yep, turns out both of you were right... my only question is how do you keep it from becoming all about the sex so that you still have a friendship? Its not just him, I have a fairly healthy sexual...

My friend (recently turned friends with benefits), texted me the other morning to say:

"I heard you can tell its big if it scrapes against your back molars...is that true? LOL"

I feel...

Exactly Ash... it was a safe encounter, but its also like... am I going to hear from him again?. Been there, done that, Clan...

Keep your guard up...

Yeah, but its just a little TOO close for comfort I guess you could say. I think part of me is trying to figure out if he still has feelings for her and is trying to convince himself otherwise, while...

I'm sorry you had to go through that. It seems as though that's what he's doing, because he looks like his current gfs ex as well and its just entirely too odd to understand! Its like finding all of...

My friend is a psychology major and was telling me about it. My friends ex boyfriend is dating someone who is very similar to her... not in a creepy way, but its like he found someone so much like...

What is the psychological name/or psychology for when an individual attempts to recreate a past relationship (mannerisms/nicknames) with a new partner? Ie: Dating someone entirely too similar to...

LOL Yes, I'm sure. That was one of my fears in talking to him about it, since I'm a girl and he tends to get an inflated ego about girls liking him, he'll assume I do.

I don't think it's that he's all that into her, because he'll complain about her constantly. He's going to school to pursue his career following college and he had to wake up at 4 am, but she'd want...

People don't change because you want them to, they only change when THEY want to. In your case... he didn't change his behaviors and doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong with the way he acts....

This is bugging the hell out of me. My friends girlfriend is 19, I'm 21, he's 23. We all worked together, until he quit to pursue his career. Nevertheless, he'll come in and hang out, talk to...

I did as you said and it turned into a huge fight. He goes, "So what now you're telling me what I can & can't have in my own room?" and I said that it wouldn't matter if it wasn't from her but that...

Oh boy... I've been there... I guess the only wisdom I can really lend is what I learned over time and that is: NEVER let ANYONE be your EVERYTHING. Sounds easy, right? Sometimes, we lose sight of...

He didn't really cheat on me because we weren't bf/gf yet... more like he cheated on her because he was stringing her along the whole time

I hope so... but I should mention he didn't want to stop talking to her. She enforced the no-contact while with someone thing, he wanted to keep talking to her and he hooked up with her once when we...

I don't know.. I don't bring it up because he'll say I'm overreacting or say I'm wrong for thinking anything of it... he def knows it's there... its one of his most memorable possessions... and she's...

My boyfriend of 6 months was given a star from one of those star registries from a significant ex girlfriend... I'm secure with him having past relationships, as I have as well but I'm 19... he's...

Am I just a hookup to him though? Or does he genuinely still have feelings for me?

I don't believe in playing games and doing things to make someone else jealous. If I start dating, its because I...

I understand why he doesn't want to be in a relationship... even when we were together, he said he felt like he never knew what he was doing, no one ever gave him enough of a chance they just dropped...

since you guys understand what this is like... PLEASE read/reply to mine... we're all in the same f'in boat =( "In love/hooking up..."

Here goes...

I dated my ex for almost a year, he was my first serious relationship and I was his longest relationship, his first serious one as well. He's 2 years older, and after 10 1/2 months,...