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If I were you I'd take Tal's advice.

This was really helpful advice. Its funny the way I feel giving advice is always easier than taking it, I really struggle with applying things to my own life. We are still together. We've both been...

I mean absolutely. If you are interested and she's interested... you have to find it within you to make a move if you really want to. As far as partying.. if that isn't your style and you really...

So I've been seeing this girl now for about 8-9 months. When we met she had just been getting out of a relationship with a some-what friend of mine (we were both in the same circle of friends). She...

We talked tonight for 5 minutes, just about our lives, nothing bad. Then all of a sudden out of nowhere she goes... " so how are all your girls" and I'm like, emily what are you doing, and she starts...

Yea, I might date a bit, I think its been long enough.

Hey guys, I'm sure a lot of you remember me. Ive thrown a few posts here and there, started with my first ex girlfriend, got through that. Continued with my last ex. Almost through that. Im having a...

Dude she doesn't think you hate her, she's just trying to get you back under her control. By making you care she is getting what she wants. Its not a game, but it sounds like she wants to play you...

Oh yea, it's a weird feeling. Its been 4 months for me, still feels strange. What happens is, you just realize that they weren't as big of a part of your life as you thought. Go out do your own...

Dude, exactly, please believe I'm going to be partying tomorrow night... hard... ive been doing it about every weekend and I haven't hooked up with a girl yet, or tried. Actually a girl tried to have...

Seriously, it takes a lot longer than you may think to get completely over someone. I broke up with my ex October 12th, and I still have to control where I allow my mind to wander. If you're not...

And just to make another point. If it makes you any happier, which it probably will even though it probably shouldn't = ). I have a feeling she's like my ex in some ways. She's just making one...

I removed my ex from Facebook on the first day. I knew that would be a problem in the future, and I can't tell you how much it helps not to know what your ex is doing. You might think you need to...

Haha, yea. I like knowing that I haven't really done anything to screw this relationship up. I plan on keeping it that way. Only one more day and I'm home free. We will both be very busy too, so, the...

Im starting to feel better about this whole thing I think. The other day she was still acting very distanced, basically polar opposite of the way she was no longer than 2 weeks ago. However, today...

Dude, we've been telling you all along that the relationship ended for a reason, and regardless of what is going on in your mind right now, that reason probably isn't going to just change over night....

It sounds to me like you're a little confused on what "dumbing yourself down" might be considered to be. I, personally, do not feel that you flirting or being "flirtatious" in some way is necessarily...

That's a possibility actually. I don't like to think that's how it is, but something tells me that it is quite possible she was initially just attracted to me and the idea of meeting someone new who...

The relationship was pretty casual, yes. However, she was VERY flirtatious. I mean, I was once laying on her bed watching a move with another guy in the room and she was sitting in the opposite...

Yea I especially agree about not pushing, but attracting. I mean, I feel like I will have a better grip on this whole thing after I have some time to go through break. For some reason right now I...

Yea, I wouldn't consider it two break ups, but I definitely think the friends thing is kind of inevitable. Its just hard after all of that for me to just look at her and not see someone that I feel...

OK, so little update. She replied with her e-mail and was surprisingly objective about it actually. She cleared up everything and more for me I think. Basically she said that she felt like it was all...

Well damn, hopefully I didn't ruin things by sending her that e-mail. For some reason I just really felt like we needed to confront all this rather than keeping it inside...

I mean, it's a possibility. She really doesn't seem like the type of girl to really do that. Like I said, no boyfriends, no action really with guys period. She does seem a little flirtatious, but...

They don't know each other at all... they aren't friends. Im confused by what you're suggesting.

Let me revise a bit. When we first met, she came on to me very strongly. She was more than aware of the situation between me and my ex. She had seen me a lot just from living on the same floor....

Well, first I'd like to say that I would not tell her that I'm not ready to be in a relationship, I don't think either of us would ever even bring it up to be honest. As for being healed, no, I'm not...

I mean, believe me, I did step up to end it. The drama started when I did actually. I heard people talking about it and I confronted them, only to have them lie in return and get mad at the fact that...

Talk to her about it. Maybe there were reasons that can be explained. Maybe you can forgiver her, maybe you can't. It depends on the situation, her sincerity, and how the relationship has been for...

Hey guys,

I thought I'd ask some people's opinions on a new situation that has been going on in my life. There is this girl on my floor that I have talked to casually off and on through this...

Dude, you aren't dumb. You're calling a lot of these shots, the only issue right now is that your heart is keeping you from really being able to think clearly. That's completely understandable as I...

Answer= waste of time. Half of your relationship was false. If you choose to get back together with him now then you are only hurting yourself in the future. I recommend you spend some time trying to...

Nah, its only awkward if you make it awkward. Go for it and good luck!

I mean, to a certain degree you could call it your business. However, when you begin a relationship with someone, I believe certain things should be exposed if there is a real sense of shared truth...

I mean, it isn't bound to fail if you are planning to relocate. However, I wouldn't pursue this relationship any longer if this relocation isn't a guarantee in the near future.

Yea, I mean, if you can recognize that he likes you and you think he may be interested, then say something to him. Next chance you get, if he looks at you, if you're alone, smile or wave or something...

Sorry if I'm missing something. I really don't feel like this is complicated at all. You guys are close friends, you felt something for him, he doesn't feel the same way about you. Therefore, you...

Ehhhh, I don't know about what altenweg says about everyone masterbating. Neither of my girlfriends did, I know that for a fact (believe me they would've told me, I thought that was like... "sexy"......

Well do what you got to do, but remember, she broke up with you originally for a reason. If I were you id try to figure out what that reason is and see if you can remedy it, whether it be with your...

Well that conversation sounded pretty good. Its nice to see you putting everything on the table. However, I don't think you were being over-analytical at all, and I don't think you should feel that...

Haha, little update today. While coming back from the store I ran into my ex on my hall in my dorm building. I immediately come out of the elevator, see her, and just look the other way trying to...

Well dude, its up to you to decide whether you're OK with that. I doubt you'd be mentioning it if you fully were. You really need to talk to her about it if it bothers you, you have that right. A lot...

Dude, it sounds like you have dealt with this situation pretty well so far. You've kept your dignity and managed to cause her some bother, which she deserves every ounce of. It sounds to me like you...

Dude... thats weird. Its possible it was a test, then again, it could be the truth and she wanted to be honest to see your reaction but then call it a joke so that she could still be in the safe...

Yea Jake, just please make sure you are looking at this whole thing objectively. I am also 20, and I've been through 2 back-to-back 2 year relationships. Both of which have brought me to this site to...

I would definitely say its based on each situation. In this situation it could've gone a lot of different ways. I just needed to realize that I didn't want to communicate with her anymore because I...

Whoa whoa. Im not saying you should end it man, just be honest with yourself. You know what feelings you have. Make sure you aren't justifying staying together or working on something simply out of...

Ill tell you what you're doing right now, the same thing a lot of people do on this site. You're asking advice then not really taking it. You already know what you want and that is this relationship...

Well then, good luck with everything, sounds like you've got it worked out to your liking.

Dude, you should definitely tell her how you feel. If you aren't comfortable with her drinking, remind her how she reacts, remind her of the consequences should she drink too much and make mistakes,...