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Okay, but I'm definitely not going to call after my last text. And Tal, I'm generally a little silly... like 95 percent of the time men do fall head over heals for me... I'm not saying I'm a hot...

I agree with you, and I would never write that in any other circumstance, but the reason why I thought it wouldn't be a big deal was because prior to our date he would send messages like "I'm excited...

Hey! Thanks for the response!

So, I take it that you're also unclear as to whether he's interested or not? Everyone I've talked to has said it's damn confusing. And all my guy friends say they...

Long story short: he is literally the best looking man on earth. He's a 28 year-old gentleman and veryyy smart. My friends even said he's the best looking guy they've possibly ever seen. Words...

Take satisfaction in being a lot wiser than her and being aware of these patterns. Don't let her be the one to break them and move on at the drop of a hat, at your expense.

"You" choose to...

Sorry, but are you saying that those women who were killed during the witch burnings, for questioning the logic that was used through the bible to kill them dude to their moles or sour milk, was...

Something's off with the argument here. So you're saying that the non-believer that does good in his life, can't have eternal salvation from God because he doesn't believe in eternal salvation? So...

The urge is perfectly normal. I mean, he's human right. But what's not normal is to act on it and then have a plan to come back to you. What makes him think that you won't have any personal growth,...

Don't be too kind to him, because it will get him annoyed, as you mentioned above. But, in the process of you gaining confidence and becoming super woman, don't be mean to him either. You know why?...

Even worse! Then he definitely should have more respect for you or be a better friend. He might love you, but he does not know how to love you. You deserve an honest love with mutual respect.
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He's continuing these actions because he knows that no matter how much of a nobody he treats you like, you will be sure to stick around.

So... why should he change? You're always going to stick...

Don't wish him a happy birthday. You can do better. I'll tell you why:

No... I don't think you actually love someone who asks you for sex while he is calling another girl his girlfriend. I think...

You might as well have flipped a coin and taken your answer from that.

Please, elaborate... otherwise consult an eight ball.

She's not evil... the thing is, she can feel lonely too.

She confessed that she feels horrible for leading you on... so just like you're lonely, she's lonely too, right? You're both doing the...

If you spend this time apart worrying over when he will call and when the break will be over, and so on, the break is going to develop a mess out of you.

You're going to become increasingly...

Thanks to everyone who posted their advice. I feel better not only after posting the question, but after gaining more insight through all the responses.

I love how the two first posts tell me to...

You're convinced he's coming back and you will hold on to any signs that may seem like he will, because after a break up, your body and soul need those delusions for survival. The shock of somewhat...

This is your goal: a monogamous and trusting relationship.


(1) This girl cheated on her boyfriend.

(2) You suspect she's a cheater and your friends have seen her standing between another...

She probably doesn't even know what she's doing. She's doesn't have bad intentions, but what Tal was telling you is right. She feels less for you than you do for her. She also needs to make sure...

His texts will get far worse because he wants to provoke a response from you. He's desperate for you to communicate to him, even if it means for him to be cruel or monstrous. Whatever you do, DO NOT...

I had posted about this a long time ago.

Me and my ex were best friends. We broke up quite some time ago and I've dated others since (so has he). He's moved away too. When he comes to town to...

He's using you because he knows you're the type that will provide sexual favors to a man who is already in a relationship. It's that simple. And it's a blessing for him, to have a woman like you...

Whoah. If you have a feeling he could physically hurt you, then that is a HUGE RED FLAG right there.

No woman should feel as though her man could possibly hit her. So the fact that you're getting...

You're focusing on the things you can't control. Why not focus on the things you can control, like making sure you do go and try that awesome opportunity to study abroad.

Study hard and continue...

Hold on a second. Has he even met 0.0001 percent of the men on this planet? No!

Have you? No!

So how could you possibly know, or let him make you question, that this dog sh&t is the best you...

Sad Soul agrees: ! :) GOOD! And we'll support you all the way! Show him that you're worth so much more than this type of situation!



I wrote something that didn't really make sense when I rated...

Whoah. Okay, this guy is not worth you or her. If he can't take his actual girlfriend that seriously, what makes you think you're being taken seriously?

Do you understand what I'm saying? If she's...

I understand.

I'm sorry you're going through this. It's mentally/emotionally draining when it comes to questioning life, passion, and so on. Obviously though, we question these things when life...

I wish I could give you another greenie for this one. You're totally right. This man should be discussing all his problems with his girlfriend!

Also, he's not falling in love with you for being...

I would say to still be guarded, and don't be too available for him. He's probably seeing that this new girl isn't working out, and is checking to see how secure he is in getting you back, at his...

Enjoy this second chance together, but also, be vocal about what you want (that is, remember to state that you both have to have open communication from now on, and you won't stand for it if he won't...

Many times, we're not in love with the person, but we're in love with potential that we see in that person.

You're in love with potential you see in this man. You're not in love with the...

In all fairness, you did break up with her and she probably felt the way you feel at the moment. Now, you never did this to hurt her did you? So you better believe that her being with someone new...

Sorry you're going through this. That's horrible that she calls him right after you tell her what she's doing isn't fair...
Remember that the last impression is key. Be very strong and leave her....

She's not seeing clearly because she's not mature yet. The best way that you can give her a real lesson, and for her to be a big girl, is for you to step out of her life. Stop spoon feeding her your...

It's an analogy. Look back at my post, and you will discover that the central theme has not changed at all. You need to look more critically at the argument.

I was giving an example that giving...

Wait, was the person posting talking about animal chipping? Because you're talking about humans now?? I'm not sure what you're talking about... but it sounds frightening.

Fr_Chuck, some priests...

I think being friends is a way to hold on. Although, this could cause confusion for the ex who is still in love.

Don't be embarrassed. Although you may still think of your ex after 2 years, you probably think of him differenly than you did 1.5 years ago.

I bet, for example, that the first six months of the...

It's one thing to tell her when you are a mature woman who tries to fix the wrong.

But it's a whole other thing to want to tell her just because you did not get your way, and you are "so...

I'm sorry but GregQuin is correct. Darkcrow, you are not being logical here, but only giving an illusion of logic by purposely misinterpreting what GregQuin has said.

That "black people" can be...

No, you're getting slowly pissed off because people have not given the same responses as you have. You've actually abused many people with you being "pissed off".



Right. You send her...

This is starting to get a little fishy on your part. You come on here and give a lot of people who do not support this man cheating, your anger... and then you monitor this new member's post...

First, you're posting on here because you are not happy. This is not your ideal scenario. So think about who is helping put you in this situation. Who holds the ball here? Is it you? No. Is it the...

Yep.

She's usuing you to make herself feel SAFE somewhere. But this is the catch: she will never make you feel safe.

I'm proud of you because you have shown that you can protect yourself. All...

Yeah. I need to hear a progress report from the gym, or something new.

Maybe some poor people hate being poor too?

I don't believe in sending food to poor nations, or using resources in the wrong way, like just handing food out food in shelters. That is only a...

You were 10 and she was 9? I think that's a bit natural, even though, yes it is gross and sounds wrong.

When I was 7 and my brother was 9, we actually kissed with open mouthes because we saw...

See now you are thinking like we have all thought when suffering from a breakup. You are expressing that you don't hate the girl, and that's why a birthday wish is to be expected. NO! Stop thinking...

Maybe you should tell her you need some space now TOO. Do this in a nice way though.

And the truth is - you do need space. This is because she is now in a zone where she is playing games and...