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Bj I don't think you can do that over a text I'm going to meet her and tell her that

I want her back and that's all that matters to me right now I'll continue this misery until that happens or I am told she has moved on... I believe in my heart of hearts that true love never gives up...

And after a month if I still want her back? Then what?

I don't care if its wimpy whatever works

Should I tell her I need an answer in a week?

How should I handle this then?

Yes we are still in contact... we talk everyday... I just want to get up the courage to say you either want to be with me or you don't just decide? But I don't think that would be a good idea either

Do you not think it will work out?

Thanks but my ex isn't out meeting new guys and she says she wants to work on the relationship which makes things even harder... I was her life to so we are both struggling

I live with my family... I don't know how to make a plan to get out?

I never really had very many friends to begin with and now the few I was friends with have moved away

That's the thing I don't have a group of people I put everyhting into the relationship

I just want her to want to come back :(

Isn't it funny that once your feeling really good you all of a sudden have a break down :( I had mine last night after the post guess I got to confident

Just an update guys... still doing good probably the best I've been in 2months... the days haven't been a bear to get through... I know that I still have tough times ahead but just wanted to say...

What do you mean heartbreak after heartbreak?

Thanks guys I have accepted that we have broken up but we are also working on our relationship... its not just me that wants to work on the relationship she has s said that wants too as well and her...

Thanks amicon... im starting to get to a point where I still want her to come back but I'm starting the be able to handle the thought that she might not without becoming an emotional rollercoaster

Thanks for the help guys I'm feeling a little better today

But how do you get to the point of being together

How do you know if that's what they both want?

Are you guys saying nobody ever gets back together?

It will be hard to be better then the last one she was amazing

The hard part is I don't think ill ever find another woman :(

The holidays are going to be so hard

I believe that she does feel the same way and is willing to put in the effort

We were nc for about a month then she contacted me and wanted to get together to talk

Does nobody on here think that love is worth fighting for?

I know its my choice... its just hard because I want things to work out between us and truly believe that she wants to work things out she has told me that she does... even told me that she loves...

I need a pick me up guys I'm feeling a little down today :(

Seeing some progress I think... thanks for the support guys

She isn't the type that would be out flirting or hooking up with guys that's not who she was before we started dating and its not who she is now so that's not what I'm worried about I know her well...

I've got to go for now but I'll check back in later

I really only plan to hold on for about another month... I'm setting a hard date of the first of the year and then giving up for good... she's told me that she won't keep me waiting past this point...

What happened three weeks ago that made u realize this?

Yea.. im not ready for no contact yet.. ill keep suffering for awhile:(

That's the thing I don't have a lot of friends to hang out with we pretty much spent all of our time together and most of my old friends have moved away

I don't think I can do no contact right now... for some reason I just feel like we are close to getting back together... I know it sounds crazy

I don't think I'll be able to move on completely for a long time :(

I know I sound pitiful maybe that is at least a start

Does it make a difference that I was her first boyfriend?

Sorry I'm such a wreck guys I know I should like a pittfull puppy dog being dragged along

She is the one that does all the contacting to I rarely contact her its all just so confusing

When we met to talk about things she told me that she still loved me :( and after 3.5 years I know when she is sincere

I'm not so sure that she doesn't know if she wants to be with me. She tells me that she can't see herself with anyone else but that we had just become to dependent on each other and she needed some...

Hello all!. I'll try to keep this as short as I can.. any feedback would be much appreciated. So my girlfriend.. well I guess now she's my ex girlfriend decided about a month ago that she needed to...

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I'm hoping that we will get back together but it has been a couple of weeks and it doesn't look to good I don't know what to do at this point she hasn't...