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The tattoo, must go. In my mind it reminds me of a time when she was out running around and being very selfish with her acations. The tatttoo if it had true meaning, she would not have done what...

The wife is back home. Got home yesterday evening around 3:00 and for the most part it went well. I tried not to dig into it, but Idid a little. It was wonderful to see the kids as we played...

Not sure what you are saying either---It's great that you are buying her nice things, it's time to worry when she starts buying nice things and starts going out with other people and traveling...

I was told through a P.I. (private investigator) that if you can get her cell phone that someone can pretty much trace down everything that the phone has done. But it might depend on the type of...

Oh and by the way.
I shared to my wife that I was chatting on this board and initially she thought this was not going to fix our marriage, but she was able to find this chat board and she's been...

Everyone,
Thanks for listening and being there. This support forum is very good and very helpful.
Today is the day my wife will be back with our two children. They'll probably show up around 3:00...

Synnen,
My wife did everything you said except the lingerie. My wife tried to talk to me about it, but it just didn't compute or translate. I'm a physical guy and if only if she would have just...

Well,
It's the one week anniversary when I caught the phone bills and knew something was up.
At least I'm sleeping somewhat and I ate lunch a few minutes ago. I had a really hard night last...

So much I have learned or not necessarily learned, but it's how to come to my senses. Even with so much anger and hurt, I'm being convinced that some of this is my fault. I just didn't know how to...

Married guy,
What's the title of your book and where can I buy it? I believe you are right on and agree with you 100%. Wives cheat because husbands stop paying attention and they get it somewhere...

Over 11 thousand posts?? Wow-- I think you probably have all my answers. I agree, the cheating hurts and it's wrong and I will always probably come back in my mind remember what events took...

Another night has went by, it's not any easier to understand or accept and I think I keep asking myself for some justification for what she did. We've conversed on many different topics of our years...

Great post, thank you. I was really searching for a success story and you gave me one. I was wondering how many marriages really make it after this type of an incident? If anyone knows that...

Wow---what 3 days can do to you. Monday was the 2nd worse day of my life (brother-n-law death) and here we are 3 days on Wednesday. I can breathe better, still can't eat, but sure thinking about...

I do own my own business, since 1993 and I have always fired an employee who has done me or the company wrong. This is different--way different, she says she wants to work it out, go to counseling,...

The answer is I do own my own business and ever time an employee did me or my company wrong I fired them. I always enjoyed firing people for some reason. But this is way different house, several of...

Wife is with family and counselor suggested it because of my concern on how I could handle the truth. I grew up with two very violent parents and I have never and will never be a parent that...

Thanks, I will consider all your views.
The counselor has suggested she leave and go home with the kids for 3 days and that's what she's going to do. We'll see, but I really don't think I can live...

Thanks for the response. It gets deeper again.
She suggestec counseling--I just got back and she told me there was more than texting. They had oral sex 3 different times and also tells me she was...

Hey everyone.
I'm the tough guy who doesn't cry, at all and I've been hurt really really bad. I caught my wife having sex via texting for over 30 days every day with a social friend of ours. She...