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Wouldn't help me holding back points I believe were relevant from this anonymous group. At the same time in the interest of brevity I could have missed a few points.

My wife has had a chance to...

Appreciate the thoughts QLP. You are correct in your assessment of our sex drive past and present. One would think that age would have brought mine down but it hasn't. And I am looking at medical...

Not yet. The full realization is very recent. What area of medical specialization should I be looking for?

I have been married to my wife for 13 years and we have had our fair share of relationship problems in the past. What has surfaced recently (but been there all along) is my sex (over) drive. When I...

You start with: On your marks, march time, march... left, right...

And when you are ready to move forward you command: Forwaard (said is a drawn out fashion) march... left, right

Hope that...

As you had said, the first time he did this was when you had briefly "separated". He was lonely then and looking for female companionship. Donno if he found any then but he's probably feeling...

You have been very perceptive on a number of points. To add, in some ways she's behaving (or wants to be) inconsiderate, like I did several years ago when dealing with domestic issues. And, while...

I did learn about the "trigger" only at the end. Her boss said something rude to her that reminder her of something I had said ten years ago. She couldn't confide that issue in me and probably went...

A year ago my wife and I lived "apart" (in the same house) for a while. She couldn't stand my overbearing and impatient nature, and lack of attention to her problems over the years that had left her...

Hey Roshell, You seem be worried more than you should be. My wife of 11 years is pretty much the same. She just can't have an orgasm through penetration alone... but she enjoys a clitorial orgasm...

Hi Guys! Would like to share with you that I've made it through. We have reconciled and are back together much stronger as a couple than we have ever been.

The last five months have been a...

To all my well wishers out there I wanted to share with you that life is looking up... finally.

Counseling has really helped me bring perspective to the situation and build up my patience. I've...

Since your issue is that of bringing up kids you have to consider two things:
1. Do you intend to bring up the kids in two faiths, or are you expecting your husband to do it for the Hindu faith? ...

Since your issue is that of bringing up kids you have to consider two things:
1. Do you intend to bring up the kids in two faiths, or are you expecting your husband to do it for the Hindu faith? ...

Some restaurants (and especially with large parties) levy a service charge on your bill. This ranges from 10-15% of the pre-tax bill amount. Is it fair to assume that is the tip or is one expected...

Not really. Take a manufacturing example where fixed costs are the cost of plant and machinery; they depreciate / lose efficiency and need to be replaced over time. Same is true for other...

In your problem, the per widget contribution margin is $3. If your fixed cost / widget is greater than that then, yes, they are loss making.

However, not clear on what is really your question?

If the uncertainty is killing you you can always find out what he is really doing on these sites by installing a sniffer software (would be glad to point you to some of them). There are some decent...

Have you tried "telling" him that you think of him even when you aren't together? Like buying him something personal or that he really likes. Things that he would like/want but won't express;...

Hey Guys! Have started counseling sessions. Got a whole new perspective on things, past and present, and am able to take the ups and downs of this process a lot better. Irrespective of the outcome...

That's quite an intuitive point of view. The difference is important and you should assess the cause of his behavior before proceeding.

Is he religious... or the rare kind who doesn't feel comfortable having sex outside of marriage?

If he's got his plate full at work (and travels a lot) you are probably a small part of this life and mind share. This makes it harder for him to find time to resolve issues and expects perfection...

Thanks for the support guys! I'm already at greater peace with myself and less hurried to get anywhere. I guess as long as I know that we're headed in the correct direction it's good enough for...

We have been married 11 years (and dated for 4 before that) and have 2 kids. The first 10 years I was really busy with work and she had a tough time coping with the loneliness bought on by a few...

Hey Holly! A bit similar to the problem I have. My wife moved out of our bedroom 2 months ago (and into the guest room), on my birthday, bitter and hateful of me. The only reason she didn't move...