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I screwed up. She txted me and told me that it was over. I was a completely different person there. She said that I'm two different people. And she tells me this 2 days before my birthday. I feel...

I just came back from vacation. And I miss her so damn much. I got to know a lot about her and her family. I spent times with the family for them to learn a lot about me. I was very shy and nervous....

Thanks Tal. Im like having goosebumps just thinking about it lol

She is comfortable saying it. I just feel that I'm always the one to say it first. Sometimes I like it when a girl just tells me out of a random moment. Or if she misses me out of random. Not hearing...

No plans really. I had told her at first I was coming and she was delighted and thrilled. It was that because of how much I was trying to get my friends to come that she also wanted to see I held...

Hey guys I'm taking this stuff one day at a time. Slowly but surely I'm start to relax more and not work so much. Spending time just enjoying the phone conversations with my girl. She's currently...

That is all it really comes down to. Living my life working and doing these things in the hopes that my dad will retire happy and live everyday, and to be with someone that you really could see...

I really get what your saying. Sometimes its like one day we could be having some laughs and stuff on the fone and then the next minute its not really all that because she has her little mood swings....

I just got off the fone with her. She wasn't talking too much. Like she just felt blah. I asked her what's wrong she just said nothing. Tried making conversation with her but when we stop its like...

I'm trying to. Like today me and 2 of my friends who know her are trying to come up to visit her. She was telling me to not worry about it and that its OK. Truth is I want to come up for her birthday...

Great advice. I also tend to get upset when she jokes around at me too much. I know she's playing around but I ono I guess it just comes down to me overanalyzing so much. I feel like a wuss honestly...

Hi I just got back with my girlfriend about a month ago. It's a long distance relationship. We broke up due to my insecurities about myself and my bad judgement. In all honesty I wasn't confident in...

Tomorrow were hanging out... ughhh I'm so nervous... ne ideas on how to handle this?

Perhaps... Any other advice?

As a follow up to my previous entries I need to know right now is perhaps maybe no contact good for this situation:

After getting back on track of talking and stuff I feel strong feelings for this...

Im starting to think more about this girl. She doesn't treat me like I'm lower class or anything. She's always upfront about things like not being able to hang out because she has to study and get...

I think I used the wrong words on that one. I meant to say how can you just enjoy something without having the urge to ask her to be your girl at the wrong time? However you have provided very strong...

I asked her last night if there is a chance that we can be something more than close friends, and she said yes definitely. These past two nights speaking with her, its fun and I really am liking her....

Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about a year now. And when we started talking, we both liked each other. However she went out with this guy that she was talking to more while she was talking...

I try doing sum extra activities, maybe volunteering/joining up a club at school. Maybe spend more time with family. Do things to keep yourself occupied and at the same time productive and fun....

A person who holds you back to fulfill his own pleasures is a man not worth of waiting for. A girl like yourself who has class deserves a whole lot more. Enjoy this moment of freedom from that waste...

hey man, I'm sort of having the same problem you are. But honestly really it just comes down to how comfortable you are with that significant other. Me right now I'm talking to this girl whom I've...

I actually went on a date with her today, just out to get some lunch. It was great, enjoyed it a lot. Like you guys said I shouldn't overthink so much, however I was reading through other threads on...

I think that the greatest relationships are just without thinking so much, but just letting the dates and conversations build for itself. And trust me, at times we do over think stuff because we just...

Eh, we been kind of on and off the talking thing because were both busy with school, work, etc. Used to talk a lot. But yeah just enjoying the friend stuff and seeing where it goes.

If a girl is stubborn to come off the phone with you, lets say if you called her, and woke her up, and told her go back to sleep, but refusing, and then changing the subject to make you talk, does...

Man, its ironic you said that tal, because last night I spoke with my brother and he pretty much told me the same thing. It is true, instead of me kicking back and dating others I just put so much...

Update: last night I called her and I told her how I felt and stuff. It left her a bit stunned in a way, didn't even know what to say. But she told me she needs time to think about it and stuff and...

Its normal dude, I remember when I had my last relationship it was indeed hard to get over her. But if you want some real insight, summers almost here, schools almost done, relax, chill, have fun,...

Hey I got a question, sort of off topic. But why do people, well in my case I guess a girl will talk to you, but meanwhile is talking to somebody else for a longer time and pretty much has his sights...

Your right though. Don't really have nothing to lose here. And besides, in the end at least I know I tried, than sat down and wonder. Thanks.

Well last night I asked if she's seeing anybody, her response was "nobody exclusive". I take it that's a no.

Oo no no should a mention this was around January she told me that.

I spoke to her last night. First time in a while we had a long conversation because we were so busy with things. However as I was trying to lead onto that point where I let her know she had to finish...

There's this girl whom I've known for a couple of months. Talked a lot and stuff, we liked each other however she told me sometime in January that she had a boyfriend, pretty much just losing all my...

Lol natural to be nervous, don't want to leave a bad impression on the brother. But the main thing is doing what u been doing so far. Enjoy, relax, have fun n most of all dig in lol

happy to see your enjoying yourself. Keep at it. U never know what will happen. But the main thing is to just have fun. =]

Take care

Understood. Thanks.

I hear you. Ne other advice? Please feel free to comment.

Well I gave her a call last night. Unfournately I kind of woke her up. I said I was sorry and she said what's wrong and I said nothing at all I just wanted to talk to you and stuff. And she said is...

dear ashlyn,

a very merry xmas to you and your family. I hope everything is going good for you. You know I'm always here to help you out. Take care =] ilu

Bobby

good people like you. Sad to see getting hurt by those type of dudes. For the record. True beauty lies in the mind. Not by the body. If that makes sense lol look it's a rough time for u as tomorrow...

Hey I'm back here with an update. So been 3 days and we been talking and stuff. Just taking it ez. She finished her finals yesterday as well. But every night or other night, we would always be on the...

Just don't do it in a sense of winning her back. Do it because its what's best for you. Because I'm sure you don't want to go and make the same mistake again. By showing her as well as others that...

Always remember something. Whether it be a little white lie or a big lie. A lie is a lie. And no trust equals no relationship. Take what you learned from all of this and apply it. And I hope...

Personally in my opinion when someone cheats on me, even so if you do forgive them. They also have to realise the situation as well. If the person is going to not take it serious. What makes you...

Hey if you want another example to give you another word of thought. Take me. I been in a long distance relationship for 5 months. In the beginning. Was all cool. We fell in love because we knew each...

If you want some insight look at this. See I'm a dude who isn't the best looking. Or has the best body in the world. And at times ill have my insecure moments too because I take so much in from what...

Last time I checked people are supposed to love them for the person that they are not by what they look like. Your a good person. That type of behavior from him is unacceptable. Not to sound hostile...

Lol I'm not in need. But from the way it sounded in my message it sounded like that. Me I'm that dude who takes his time off to help out another who's going through a lot. Espically if its someone...