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The counselor I went to suggested we read "Getting the love you want" by Harville Hendrix. It is a very interesting book! Has changed my view on a lot of things. I have been reading out loud at night...

We went out for dinner last night. We had a nice dinner - I heard everything he had to say I actually sat in silence and listened without rebuttals he said that I have been very nasty to him like a...

Thank you. I wish I would've known all of this before I got into this huge mess. I spoke to him face to face today. He told me he loved me, I was his best friend, that he missed me and wanted to be...

Thank you DoulaLC, he told me today that he is worried and scared that this is going to happen while were married that he feels like he walks on egg shells because I get easily mad at him and am rude...

Thank you. I'm just hoping he doesn't change his mind about marriage. I have been giving him his space just that it's been 3-4 days already!

So he hasn't sleep home in two days he has stayed with his sister. (I know for a fact he has because he was seen by a friend) I don't understand? I guess he is that upset that he doesn't want to see...

Smearcase I don't want to sound rude but if you would've read the thread you would've understood what "is all in my head" -- I said l in my head because of the comparison and insecurities I have/ had...

CravenMorhead
Your advice hit right on the nail. Your absolutely right it's all in my head. And, I have pushed him away not only sexually but physically and mentally. I have been laying low. I woke...

Thank you andrew1101 I appreciate it. I have to stop and I will. I am hopeful that everything will be okay. And that he will open up to me once I stop the pressure and nagging.

That's how I feel. He says he only want me and that he loves me and that's it. But I've said to him it hurts me that you don't want to watch porn w me you don't want to have sex w me I just don't...

Then about 4 months ago I came home he had the TV on loud I walked into the bedroom and he was watching porn jerking off (I had my period and I was fine w it) he got so nervous and embarrassed and I...

Our first year of dating we would watch porn together... And, Yes I have complained in the past about 2 years ago because he told me that he was sorry he couldn't ejaculate because he had watched...

No I would never do that because I know it would ruin us. We kept the hotness between us. Last year he stopped watching porn for lent and it was the best sex we've ever had it was hot and amazing....

I kind of believe him but then it bothers me that he couldn't watch w me but he is hiding the fact that he is watching it??

From gather everyone's advice- I think it's because I make him feel like less of a man when I ask him when well have sex. And the way I say it and when I say it is bad. I have also brought it up many...

I guess you never know. But I don't think so. We spend a lot of time together when were not working. And when were not together he wants me to meet him wherever he is, usually w his family.

Thank you Talaniman. Your advice is very good. He has told me several times that I seem to demand sex from him and the way I say it is very harsh. He also has said that he has felt very tired and...

Thank you Craven Morhead. I appreciate you taking your time to help me. To answer your questions: we have been together for 4.5 years now. Just about 2-3 days we were cuddling in bed and he said "I...

Thank you so much for your advice. I appreciate it. I'm just wondering what I should do? Keep myself busy so I don't "pressure" him. I don't ask him to do much around the house. I bought a dresser 2...

My fiancé 35 and I 33 have sex once a month if I'm lucky it's twice. This has been going on for 6 months now. We are saving for our wedding in 6 months. I spoke to him three times already telling him...

Joe and I spoke and he said he in no way tried to disrespect me or degrade me. I was pissed off when I posted that blog. He called at 11pm last night to break the ice. He was just trying to reach out...

I agree... today he has confused me even more and I even think he may be reading these blogs. He vented via text how I hurt him, how I left him-- pretty much how he is faulting me for leaving him a...

The relationship was great up until a month and a half ago when he told me he didn't know what he wanted that he was scared of getting married because he wasn't financially ready he wasn't where he...

On Sunday the 29th it was Joes birthday I dropped off two broadway play tickets which I had got him and a gift card from my parents. He seemed happy that I did that. We spoke for a bit and he told me...

Tonight I went to Barnes and Nobles and picked out some self help books and was reading them... one of Joe's friends came in and saw me he said hi and then he was like how you hanging in there I was...

No I have not. I am currently reading a book on how to communicate--- 'Communication- What works and why'. I had planned on heading to Barnes and Nobles tomorrow in search for self help book. I will...

I have come to the realization that I am a temperamental time bomb. If the wrong look, or thing is said I can go from 0-100 in a second. I can flip out on people who I love the most and then I just...

Hey... I did the same thing to my boyfriend after 2 years together. I realized things were very very serious but there were some things that I felt he took me for granted- I would talk to him about...

Thank you for your advice... I am trying to keep my distance. I did text him an I love you and my friend had this idiotic idea of inviting him to a Cancer fund dinner and idiot me listened to her I...

My boyfriend (26)and I (27) have been together for three years. I love him so much. I have never felt the love I feel for him for anyone else. Last year we took a one month break because I felt that...