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Thanks talaniman that was very helpful. One thing I should have picked up early on is that she has no friends. She only has a guy friend from high school that she has kept close with all...

Thank you I appreciate it. This was my second major relationship. If you look back at my first post last fall, I was a pathetic hopeless romantic getting over my ex who cheated on me. I came along...

I was not surprised either homegirl50, and yes I am just acting and thinking we are no longer together.

Because I got a 50/50 help on what to do- I went with my gut. I texted her today and simply asked her if she was still planning on going to the event tomorrow and that I was just curious where she...

She made contact today and simply emailed me a link of something she found on Amazon that I would love to get... I took it as she obviously was thinking of me- but still I am not getting...

I agree, I am thinking for the worse that she will not call and just trying to enjoy life as if I was single, since technically we are still together.

Well she called me and feels that her whole heart is not into the relationship anymore and that it would be unfair for me. She felt smothered and overwhelmed and basically did not have time for...

Have been with a girl for 5 months now. This past month it seems that I have been the one working too hard by planning dates, initiating text messaging,calling, etc. I knowI am more than...

Yes I am a student- why do u ask?

I am in No contact... she typed in my name in google- I used this for other account over the years... The more I read the more I am pissed at myself for screwing up this relationship. I pushed her...

No no no -sorry you misunderstood me about the good news. And she isn't the sole reason I want this deleted. I want it because I am sick of looking for that hope still. I want this to be in the past...

Well the request to have this deleted was in fact to help me out... instead of running on here seeking advice I want this obstacle removed so I can stop being so desperate waiting to hear good news...

I do not want to give the impression I am waiting... cause I am not- I am just saying if she came back running to me- then I would not be against trying it again after we talk things out.

Sometimes you can't forget the past- yes to me the baggage will always be there- but the bigger question is how you will let that baggage affect your life. I mean is it still wrong to care about an...

My problem is that I am weak- mentally weak because I don't think about her- but then when a song is on the radio and it was one we use to sing together or liked that destroys me for the rest of the...

It will be a month this Sunday she broke up with me and these past 3 days have felt worse then the initial days after the break up. I don't know why I have good days and then a stretch of bad ones....

Well Philly- Ill say this- everyone around me ( friends and family) said that while dating my ex- she brought the best out of me and that I was just completely 100% happy with life and I was less...

I completely agree with you regarding the mom and family thing- but what about the Facebook thing? I have up to this point eliminated everything connected with her the best I could ( obviously...

OK - and I did read through all of Van's story you sent me - I hope to be like him and can count down the months of No Contact-
On Facebook I blocked a lot of stuff so I can't notice her much but...

I agree- right now I want nothing to do with women- its sad- like no I didn't turn gay- but right now I am just not attracted to anyone- every time I see a couple walking holding hands or showing...

Well I hope your right- cause she was a huge part of my life- I talked to her more than anyone else over these last 14 months- things may be gone- but they will never fade

And I really don't want...

Well I am in graduate school- so in two weeks I will be very busy again- these next couple of days I have no plans cause I want to relax before my busy semester - but I am still trying to keep myself...

"talaniman" I assure you it was indeed spur of the moment- and no I am not in denial- I know for a fact it was. She even said that she discovered she had a strong connection hanging out with him and...

Well I am trying to move one- but the worst is at night when I lay in bed- that is when my mind is most vulnerable and I just have thoughts- and especially the bed that my girlfriend use to sleep...

OK vanheart answer me this- how the hell am I to forget about her sexually? I can't get her out of my mind - plus knowing she is having crazy sex like we used to have with this new guy- I don't know...

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I am embarrassed typing this- I am 22 years old- just got dumped by my ex girlfriend of 14 months- I was talking with her since the beginning of December...

OK your right vanheart

Vanheart- I get that - but how will I know if she is ever interested again and wants to try things out again? Doesn't time heal all? That's what everyone says- give it time

Yeah I know you guys are right- but I am moving on now- living my life- and if she contacts me again in some point she does... if not then she doesn't. It doesn't hurt to be optimistic cause you...

Look- I am not standing up for her- but seriously she never had any interest in this guy during our 14 months at all I can promise you that- she told me she screwed him because she was trying to...

Well when you say " my chance" I did absolutely nothing wrong those 3 hangouts and things seemed to be fine- I think she is just caught up in the idea someone else likes her right now and went for...

I am only "caught" up cause I know there is a small window for an ex to still have feelings for you and if by dropping out of her life- will help her realize what she is losing then that is what I am...

My girlfriend of 14 months broke up with me over 2 weeks ago. I am not getting into the reason why- but she was very confused and regretted doing it. The weekend after she broke up with me she had...