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OK thank you both. Yea, I don't want to appear to desperate, but at the same time want to let him know I am interested (which I think I have done already). Ill just see how it goes :)

OK thanks a lot that really put things in perspective. I know some people going so I will just go with the flow... if he is interested will he talk to me? Or should I talk to him?

I'm a teenager, and the party is just a chilled, house party with friends (maybe 40 people?)

Hi,

I met this guy recently at a party through a mutual friend. We talked for maybe an hour at the party, then afterwards we started talking on chat most nights for long periods (more than a few...

OK thanks... I think I will end it next time I see him.

OK thanks. Its just cause we are at high school news about couples spreads really fast, so all my peers know we are 'going out' even though its not a serious reationship.

Well I have twice already this week, but that's what my question was about. How do I avoid seeing him for a few days?

Cause he goes to my school if I did it over the phone it would be awkward when I next saw him, so I want to do it in person. And I just thought if I waited it wouldn't seem like such a pathetic...

Argh he keeps on wanting to catch up!! How do I nicely blow him off... cause I don't want him to get too attached... and I don't want to be mean... but I have to see him so I can break up with him....

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Don't come on too strong and just take it slow. There's no rush.

Hey darl
I know how you feel, but trust me it will happen. Im 16 and had no boyrfiends or anything until this year, and now I've had the interest of 7 guys. (But I only dated 2) Do you like anyone?...

Ok thanks I will ask him first. :)

Also, don't have your expectations too high. It won't be like it is in the movies, but it can still be really good.

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I know how you feel, first kisses are scary. I think it's a good idea to be alone but not really alone. Like, don't have it in front of lots of people cause its another thing to worry about,...

Hey thanks. I already have a job but its at an organic café and everyone who works there is really down to earth and hippy so I don't think it would be a problem. Thanks :)

Hey,
For my 15th I got my belly button pierced and now I'm just about to turn 16. My parents said I can get my nose pierced. I only want a tiny little plain stud. I also have one hole in each ear. I...

Tamsin, you don't need to have sex even if you DO feel strongly about a person. If it hurts it means your not physically ready or you are too nervous. Do other things instead which are more enjoyable...

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We went on another date and he was really sweet... he gave me flowers and didn't eve try to kiss me! I don't think he has STDs, he's only been with girls he has dated and I think he has always...

Hey thanks for the advice. We kissed and stuff at his party and it was fine... he didn't try anything. I just don't know if I'm strong enough to say no if the time comes, it would be so hard! But...

Ok everybody, thanks for the help :)
Ill give it a try and see how it goes without doing anything I don't want to do. And I'll talk to him about his friend. Thank you.

* brains not grains. My bad.

OK... I have been trying to give him the messge that I don't want him to control my life by still doing things with my friends. Its his party tomoro... so I will try stick with my friends rather than...

Thanks. How serious is serious?

OK thank you. Ill be careful, and I guess I can always break it off it it doesn't work. Thanks heaps.

Thanks so much. I needed to hear that from someone!

Hey,
I'm a teenage girl and recently started dating a guy who is not my usual type. He is pretty hardcore and very sexually experienced while I am innocent and not conservative, but cautious. He's...