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If you have read my post on "what can I do he is losing his sex drive because of my mother please disregard all information you have read. Since a young age I have had a vendetta...

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Have you tried talking to a counsellor / sex therapist? This is quite a common problem one that my current partner had when we first tried to make love. If you don't want to approach a therapist...

Thanks everyone! I've already got some romantic ideas like a nice dinner and a bath with musice candles and rose petals. I particularly focus on sex as I've noticed when I initiate I just mix up old...

Hmm we have role played before. This is the thing we've been highly experimental which is wh I've been struggling to think but we haven't acted out pornography yet... hmmmm... that could be an idea...

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Thanks for all your advice so far it's been excellent. My partner and I are going to be house sitting for a friend for two weeks whilst they're on holiday it should give us a break....

Hiya Unknown008 I wasn't suggesting you were wrong hun I understood your point exactly and agree with you! I just added my experience in to back you up :) You made a good point I don't know what...

This is going to sound odd but here goes:
1 By going onto his computer and looking through all his stuff you may have damaged his trust in you
2 Therefore his ability to communicate openly with you...

There are never set limits and don't think that ethnic origin will really count for setting one. Each person is different and therefore will react differently to every individual they meet. There is...

Did she not use protection? If she did and it failed why doesn't she track down the dad he has a legal requirement to pay child support for those kids. He should face the music and be a dad to his...

Stay with your guy if you truly love him and he loves you it will take you years to find that again if you lose it. Even worse you may NEVER find it again. Like they've said there are loads of people...

I agree you MUST talk to your girl. Find out how she feels about this. Most of all you must let her know you SUPPORT her if she needs to deal with this "friend" of hers. If your girlfriend is a loose...

I am bisexual and I did not choose to be this way I promise you. The day I became interested in physical and emotional relationships I realised I desired a physical relationship with either a man or...

Like the others said only you know how long is long enough. I personally have not set myself a minimum level but have decided to judge it on how comfortable I am with my partner. It has kept me happy...

When I had intercourse for the first time it was absolutely excruciating. And there was a lot of bleeding when my hymen broke. This happened for about four times after. When I went to my doctor he...

They may not have driven if they did it was a very foolish thing to do and very dangerous. They may have gotten a bus. I think though that miss chelsea has got to be careful the biggest mistakes of...

You need to forgive yourself and move on. You're resolution needs to be to be honest with your parnter whether what needs to be said is soething they want to hear or not. Look back on the new...

You need to give yourself a break try and distance yourself emotionally from this woman. She may be hesitating but it shouldn't be up to you to chase her. If she wants to be with you she will let you...

You say the drinking is under control? That's the first step sorted.
The next is to leave her alone.
Then think about your behaviour towards her did it show trust?
Get some counselling.
Get on...

It sounds like he is trying to reverse the roles of his mistress and his wife. He's living with her whilst keeping you dangeling on a string. I never like seeing a marriage end but as you had a 3...

Ok first thing first have you confronted him about his feelings for you?

If so and he hasn't reciprocated there are a few things you can do:

1. Accept that he doesn't feel the same way and...

P.s. there is a post called what to expect when you break up it's brilliant and I think it would really help you through.

I think that she may have lost her feelings for you before when you two split up. She clearly is no friend if she is only ever in sight when there is benefit for her. It sounds like she is enticed by...

Hi I'm sorry to tell you this probably won't work out for you if you two have been seeing each other for more than a few weeks its likely she isn't going to leave her guy for you. Like bj88 said be...

That is the best description of break ups ever completely inspiring and full of truthful hope. Well done!

This guy is not telling you the whole truth if he is:



Then how would he have the time to be waiting for you online and constantly messaging you. I had an ex that was in the forces when he went...

I had forgotten it's not something I ever do myself so I read it and never gave it a second thought. In that case I'm sorry you are just enforcing the rules.

I am sorry if I upset anyone that wasn't my intention I had forgotten the site was international. I have changed my original statement to allow for this.

Also side thought! How long is long ? Don't be embaressed! I'm 19 and I'm just thinking it might be your perception of a long time.

Thanks but it's not so simple his parents live 2 hours away and his job has a fixed term. We're only here for three months so there doesn't seem to be much to be gained from moving again. I am...

I'm sorry if you found her chat speak offensive but I believe she just gave me some very sound advice and I think the quality of her advice is far more important than the quality of her english...

Hi there chick don't worry you are not alone. Have you tried getting a lot of foreplay? This tends to help. If you feel that you are being selfish in sex try 69r this will allow you to both receive...

Thanks hun its not just chores he likes housework!

She insists she needs to help him organise his finances and he must get a job during his summer holidays. Now he's got a full time job and she's...

Although it was your first time you really need to know how to keep yourself safe. There are many websites that you can use to find more sex education advice and also you can ask us. If you need...

Hi everyone
Firstly thank you for your responses on my initiating sex. I have been able to talk to him and it's because we are at in my home town my mother has been demanding he does a lots of jobs...

Glad to hear it's all working for you now hun x

Also have you tried different positions? I find that certain positions cause me to be sos sore it feels like I'm being ripped apart. Also try some tantric it will help you to connect on an emotional...

Same as the others said if his penis went into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.
You do need to get on some contraception but know that the pill will stop pregnancy but only condoms stop STIs...

You two need to talk and do it NOW. She obviously doesn't realise this is upsetting and frustrating you otherwise she'd be bringing it up herself.There could be many reasons she's suddenly cooled off...

Yeah also you can talk to him about it I confessed a while back to my partner that I'd never had an orgasm through sex even with him. At first he looked dissapointed and down but then later that...

Hi I don't think you're selfish nor is it wrong if you are happy and enjoying your life then who are we to judge you? Are you practising safe sex? Are you harming anyone in anyway or providing a...

Ok I think we got the point on the text style talking... everyone went of on a bit of a tangent there...
Anyway as for your situation hun I would say that this guy is not going to get the point...

ED is a difficult problem to deal with but the others are right get him to his doctors also if he is insecure a counselor / therapist might help x

Hi hun
Try to take a breather first of all are there major stamina issues? If there are try durex performa condoms put the condom on and give him light oral for a little while (helps pass the time...

It sounds like he has been unfaithful but when did this happen? Before or during the marriage? If it's during then he may well have cheated on his wife on more than one occasion. If it's before then...

Ok first thing talk You have no idea how many of these situations are resolved by talking. Have you told him of your experience? It may help him:
1. Sit him down and openly confront him.
2. If he...

You poor girl hun! If he really did that to you then he did you a favour by leaving (trust me it only gets worse) But as you seem quite distracted by the point of virginity I will clarify that you...

I completely agree with you hun my partner is very romantic and we both want to get married and have a family together he waited until he was ready and with the one he loved and even lost his...

I've tried some different ones with my partner between us our favourite was the durex play ultra as it stimulated more. The smaller rings tended to part stimulate me but do nothing for him unless...

Hmm how about a candle lit massage with oils? It can get very sensual and erotic but doesn't involve any direct sexual contact. If you are trying to court said friend this does make you seem very...

Yes right now I am in love my man is caring and such a beautiful man I cannot ever imagine being apart from him. He always does the small things like write me a note or kiss me in the mornings to...