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  1. Question: Trapped in my career

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    Trapped in my career

    I'm a medical graduate who currently works in the corporate setting, not in the usual hospital that most medical graduates end up in. Medicine was not my choice career from the very start and it's...
  2. No, I never wanted to spread stuff about my ex's...

    No, I never wanted to spread stuff about my ex's behavior. I had been initially emotional about this whole mess but ultimately my goal for having confided in a concerned sister is to get opinion...
  3. It is initially out of vengeance but as I started...

    It is initially out of vengeance but as I started to calm down and see all sides to this issue, I guess Im thinking and rethinking and weighing things objectively. To tell u honestly, reporting him...
  4. Please don't let my words speak for the entire...

    Please don't let my words speak for the entire congregation. Im new at my faith and I could be wrong with the things I said. Im glad that I saw the other side of the coin from your end and Id like to...
  5. Thank you. You know it helps that someone else is...

    Thank you. You know it helps that someone else is validating my ex's thoughts and actions. Gosh, Im wondering if this just a cultural gap that makes us misunderstand each other from the very start....
  6. Please don't take it against our faith. I don't...

    Please don't take it against our faith. I don't want to argue on that note and on this site. Maybe Im new at my faith but I know our God is forgiving but he's also God of perfect justice. It was a...
  7. Its NOT allowed. The difference is he is baptized...

    Its NOT allowed. The difference is he is baptized and vowed to be committed to his faith and he knows the Scriptures so well. I didn't know what fornication was until we already had sex and he told...
  8. Is this you my ex talking?

    Is this you my ex talking?
  9. Good question. We are not allowed to have sex and...

    Good question. We are not allowed to have sex and we committed that error at the outset. You see, I am not yet baptized and didn't even know what fornication is until he taught me about it. He had...
  10. I saw a girl sleep on his bed with my very own...

    I saw a girl sleep on his bed with my very own eyes and at another time a hairstrands from a girl most likely in his bed. How else could a man and woman interact in bed when they're alone?
  11. Thank you for explaining this. This is true and...

    Thank you for explaining this. This is true and based on the Bible. You a witness?
  12. I didn't do this out of malice, I thought about...

    I didn't do this out of malice, I thought about it a lot. Please read my recent posts.
  13. Well, he lied to me that he wanted us apart...

    Well, he lied to me that he wanted us apart because he thought I was tempting him into fornication. But guess what, he is sleeping with other women and I saw it with my own eyes. I forgot most of my...
  14. You are right in here that it is between God and...

    You are right in here that it is between God and him. But the teachings in our congregation encourage that we get rid of the rotten ones to maintain the integrity of the congregation. Ive already...
  15. I just love you supporting your post with...

    I just love you supporting your post with Biblical verses.
  16. Yeah I probably shouldn't judge him because Im an...

    Yeah I probably shouldn't judge him because Im an imperfect being just like him and anyone else. Seeing a woman on his bed at one point and hair strands of the same or probably another woman on his...
  17. Yes Im studying with JWs. He just got baptized as...

    Yes Im studying with JWs. He just got baptized as JW and a sister advised me to report him. I talked to the sister and told her it might not be a good idea to pursue reporting my ex's behavior but...
  18. You might have pure thoughts, but I think you...

    You might have pure thoughts, but I think you just want to get him in trouble.

    I thought I wanted to have my revenge initially but after much thought, I feel that he should be spiritually...
  19. Should I report his behavior to his religious congregation?

    My ex has recently been baptized in his new faith but has been acting in violation of Biblical principles being taught in his congregation. He is committing fornication by sleeping with women he is...
  20. Want my revenge on my unfaithful ex but he makes me feel sorry when I do

    It was hard accepting the breakup with my ex and finally (hopefully) moving on. He had made it easy for us to break up by lying that he wants us apart because he couldn't resist making love to me and...
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    Do previously divorced guys have the flair to break up with their girlfriends?

    I was wondering if its easier for divorced man to just quit on a relationship when they feel its no longer working, all things being equal. My boyfriend (divorced with a kid of 8 years) told me his...
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    Moving on but concerned of what family/friends will say

    I am currently in the process of letting go and moving on. While I suppress any feelings of hope for my last relationship, it always breaks my heart to hear other people (especially my family) talk...
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    This is really very supportive to hear. Thanks...

    This is really very supportive to hear. Thanks amicon! Although Im still hurting so bad, I find comfort in the comments you guys are giving. I had my last talk and hug with him (at some point I...
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    This is harsh as it is very helpful. Hey, this...

    This is harsh as it is very helpful. Hey, this site is really saving a life now. Couldn't have started moving on without you guys.. talaniman, you are simply awesome!
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    I was crushed when we broke up; now that I tell him I am moving on, he seems angry

    Threads merged

    My boyfriend recently broke up with me. He told me that lately he has just been trying to make things work for us but after a recent argument, he decided that we should part ways...
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    Maybe nothing happened, but they were setting...

    Maybe nothing happened, but they were setting themselves up for something to happen. Not only that, but he's caused distrust in the relationship, and it doesn't look good for him. If he had AVOIDED...
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    [QUOTE=AmericanGirl01;2280441]I If your...

    [QUOTE=AmericanGirl01;2280441]I
    If your boyfriend is going to cheat, he will find a way to do it. You can't police a partner 100% of the time and it would be exhausting to try!

    Does it follow...
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    This is really very helpful. I try to sit him...

    This is really very helpful. I try to sit him down so many times but he evades me. Now we have cooled off and he says we can't be normal couples until 28 days of cool off. I thought it was his gentle...
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    Unsure if he's cheating

    Multiple threads merged, please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread

    Hi,


    I was nearly sure that I have found my Mr. Right. I met this guy online and even if we are...
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    Mum who wants all of her daughter's salary

    Hi, Im a 29 year old physician currently working a well-paying job. Everything seems to be going along fine but my Mum has always been interfering with my financial independence. She keeps track of...
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    Affair with a colleague who's got a girlfriend

    Hi, Im a 28 year old girl who recently met a male colleague 5 years older. He wasn't really my type until my other colleagues began teasing us at work because we seem to be getting really close to...
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    Online relationship with an egyptian guy

    Hi, I recently met an Egyptian guy through a christian dating site. Although he is egyptian by descent, he told me he has migrated to australia with his parents since he was a child.
    Things...
  33. Question: Suicidal lover

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    He gave me a white rose

    This day of hearts, he gave me a white rose. He wrote the sweetest poem about the white rose breathing of love. I was just speechless. Speechless because I was too happy to receive flowers from a...
  34. Question: Suicidal lover

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    "Are we talking about this guy?i guess you didn't...

    "Are we talking about this guy?i guess you didn't learn anything? Or take our advice seriously? What gives?" This is a different guy. New guy entirely.
  35. Question: Suicidal lover

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    Suicidal lover

    Lately I'm bothered that I'm entertaining courtship from a guy (my officemate) that I don't really see having a long-term relationship with. I learned from our common friend that this guy has a...
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    These lines are empowering: Yes, it is weird...

    These lines are empowering: Yes, it is weird that he texts you in the middle of the night. Don't answer.. . Don't let him take your power. Take control of YOUR life, you heart, your emotions, and...
  37. Ophthalmology is a medical specialty with...

    Ophthalmology is a medical specialty with numerous subspecialties, including neuro-opthalmology, oculoplastics, refractive surgery, and pediatric ophthalmology. If I'm not mistaken, some...
  38. You can verify your anemia by having your...

    You can verify your anemia by having your hemoglobin/hematocrit count checked. Meanwhile, you should be on the watch for alarming symptoms such as pallor, shortness of breath, easy fatigability,...
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    I guess acne can really undermine one's self...

    I guess acne can really undermine one's self esteem. If you don't look good. You're likewise bound not to feel good. It hurts a little on the pocket to get medical help but it will pay off in the...
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    Scared of practicing medicine

    Being a doctor wasn't really my dream but a choice that I had to make to fulfill my parents' dreams. As I waded through large volumes of medical books and survived the ordeals of each sleepless duty,...
  41. Question: My Married Friend

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    I think your friend is simply flirting online but...

    I think your friend is simply flirting online but still keeps reality in check when she meets you. It's her way of having fun, so to speak, knowing you are just having as much fun. While both of you...
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    My married old friend haunts me again

    I just need some enlightenment regarding an old flame who still texts me that he needs my company when he's already married with a kid. He had been married for only two weeks with an eight-month old...
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    "You don't really seem to want him, just someone...

    "You don't really seem to want him, just someone who wants you." That really cut right through:) :)
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    Residency training in singapore

    Hi, I'm interested in pursuing residency training in Singapore. In my research through the Net, however, I found out that the University of the Philippines is not one of the accredited medical...
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    Falling for an old friend who's married

    Hi! I'm a 27 year old female in near desperation for finding Mr. Right. Just recently, I tried to surf the name of an old friend in grade school. He used to be a die hard admirer of mine and back...
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