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    Dontknownuthin. What if dad never intends on...

    Dontknownuthin.
    What if dad never intends on marrying again? What if after his wife cheated & left, that piece of paper means nothing to him. We live as a married couple. As much a non married...
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    dontknownuthin- the name fits! my animosity comes...

    dontknownuthin- the name fits! my animosity comes from how she has treated each one of us individually. I have tried and tried to be friendly with her, I always made sure that either I or W's dad...
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    Is there anything I can do? - Step mom issues

    Hello all,
    I am having a dilemma, mostly in my heart.
    As you may already know my boyfriend has a 12 year old son, whom his mom is unrightfully keeping from his dad. We're supposed to have him every...
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    aliseaodo- I am sorry, I do not know what they...

    aliseaodo-
    I am sorry, I do not know what they are, implants or otherwise, I was young when I got them and paid no attention to what they were. But it sounds similar, the dentist matched them to my...
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    Teeth Whitening - w/fake teeth

    Hello,
    I haven't been to a dentist recently to ask them, so I am asking you.
    My front teeth are fake, the roots are mine but the majority of each tooth is fake.
    My wicked aunt told me that I could...
  6. Cdad, the court documents state that she has 51%...

    Cdad, the court documents state that she has 51% custody and he has 49%. The papers he filed in October (which we haven't heard anything back on yet) were to make her follow to custody agreement. She...
  7. I agree with both of you completely. To...

    I agree with both of you completely.

    To Jake2008, I wish wish wish we could all be on the same page as the parents in this child's life. My boyfriend has talked to her time and time again, and...
  8. 12 yr old boy stuff - split households - suggestions please

    Hello. My boyfriend has a 12 year old son. Lately we have been racking our brains trying to figure out the best way to handle the situation we
    are currently in.

    Here's the deal: His son, W, lives...
  9. What should we do for a bedroom for our boy?

    We had too move recently, from a seventeen hundred some square foot house with 4 bedrooms & 3 bathrooms to a nine hundred some square foot house with a makeshift bedroom (one wall is just curtains) &...
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    How to Lease to Buy-Home

    I am hoping to find more options than Craigslist. My family is wanting to find a home to lease to buy. Our credit isn't pretty so we are hindered. Is there other places to look besides Craigslist?...
  11. I believe my bf's ex wife is trying to turn his son against us.

    We get his son, W, every other week. This week we're supposed to have him but we are not getting him, here's why.

    Sunday night I texted his ex-wife, R, to have W call me. I didn't say why in my...
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    I find that most of these answers have parts that...

    I find that most of these answers have parts that are right. He could get charged with rape, go to jail and be on the sex offenders list forever. If that at all confuses you, or you think that's not...
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    Summer vacation is nearing, kid vs work?

    Summer vacation is getting close! The year has flown by, my little fifth grader is going to middle school next year!
    I am new to working full time while we have him. I used to be able to be very...
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    Father's Day Ideas

    I am looking for some father's day ideas. I've already come up with one that I would like some input on; any other ideas are welcome too, just in case mine doesn't pan out.
    My idea: I'd like to send...
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    Yes. I learned that lesson quite quickly :)

    Yes. I learned that lesson quite quickly :)
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    Good point about the step sibs. I'll ask him...

    Good point about the step sibs. I'll ask him about that. As far as bringing work home- no I am responsible for answering phones, greeting customers, cleaning up & more. I've got to be there
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    Just let go of him this week. Plus sometimes...

    Just let go of him this week. Plus sometimes don't have enough work to pay another employee


    There is 1 club that I have left him at before but the kids there are all younger so he doesn't enjoy...
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    11 Year Old Boy new phase & schedule

    This is a 2 part question
    First part, my 11 year old step son has had this attitude lately that is a real downer. He's been this way for about 2 months now.
    It's like he doesn't care, his answer...
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    Writing a book for your child

    Hello,
    I need to find a book that has questions and things that you fill out about you, then you give it to your child. Something that they can have as a keepsake and learn things about you that...
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    Finding my old classmates. Is it possible?

    I was wondering if there were any way that I could find my old classmates? I remember first names, but not last. I'm thinking grade school... Is it possible?
    Thanks
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    I do not know the extent of these spankings, but...

    I do not know the extent of these spankings, but if it wasn't really abusive you should try to let it go. Spanking was a very normal way to punish a child, it is frowned upon now, but I bet if I had...
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    Child Support (Oregon)

    I would like to know how child support works. My boyfriend pays child support, and I was wondering how these things were decided and if he still should be paying. Here's our situation

    Mom and Dad...
  23. No I don't think it's right that he strokes the...

    No I don't think it's right that he strokes the child's body or sits right next to him.. But the showers are fine.. I think your letting it get the best if u

    You think it's OK for a dad and his 8...
  24. My relationship is suffering because I was abused as a child

    This is a very personal subject for me, so please refrain from being too judgemental or accusing.
    When I was in 3rd grade I started living with my aunt and uncle. My aunt has always been bad with...
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    You sound so much like I did. I have been with my...

    You sound so much like I did. I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 4 years now. He has a son from his previous marriage.
    I don't know how things work there for you exactly but I'll just let...
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    Momma's boy at 11 years of age?

    I am worried about my son. His mom and I divorced about 5 years ago. I have a girlfriend who he loves and considers to be his step mom.
    His mom just married 2 months ago, to a man she dated less...
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    Super great idea, but we live in a crappy small...

    Super great idea, but we live in a crappy small town (don't tell anyone I said that :) no we don't have anything like that, and the closest thing to that is a 30-50 min drive away and most people...
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    Shouldn't you wait for puberty to do its thing a...

    Shouldn't you wait for puberty to do its thing a bit more first? My son is your age and he is perfectly fine just worrying about himself right now. He knows that there will be plenty of time to find...
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    Son's Birthday Party- Ideas Needed Please

    This year I am throwing my boyfriend's son's birthday party. The theme is going to be pirates as per his request. He's turning 11, and all the ideas that I have seen on the iternet, either by reading...
  30. Need legal help I think- how do I get my inheritance?

    I lived with my aunt and uncle from third grade till I was 17
    He sexually abused me for four years, and she basically mentally abused me the whole time I lived with them
    So as you can imagine I...
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    No offense but your breeding? If you don't know...

    No offense but your breeding? If you don't know how to properly take care of yourself why are you having kids?
    Like the other person said, starving yourself is just going to make you gain even more...
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    Your too youn... kidding :) Honey, your in...

    Your too youn... kidding :)
    Honey, your in middle school, your going to be stuck in school for at least 5 more years (I don't know what grade your in but high school is 4). Your focus right now...
  33. I don't have the answers your looking for...

    I don't have the answers your looking for exactly, but I can tell you this; from what I've read here, you sound mature enough to me. Actually it seems like your too hard on yourself. Many people your...
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    My thought on this is that he needs his eyes...

    My thought on this is that he needs his eyes opened a bit; for example
    When he lies about having brushed his teeth, set him down and have a TALK, no argument no O MY YOUR IN TROUBLE, but a talk....
  35. I agree with most people here, saying that its...

    I agree with most people here, saying that its natural. I remember doing it from a young age; but I would tell her that that's something that she needs to do in private, that its her own special...
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    What's up with my man?

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now.
    We both are after the same thing- a serious relationship.
    It was real hard at first, I came in when his son was about 7. His son hated me:
    He...
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    Our boy can't play if he's alone

    We just moved.
    We have 17 acres in the woods now.
    My boyfriend has a 10 year old son. He'll be 11 in September.
    His son, W, has always been this way: he doesn't enjoy being alone. We sent him...
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    My boyfriend's son's mom

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, he has a son that is 10 years old. I love his son as if he were my own and I want to do what's right by him. My boyfriend's ex wife, we'll call...
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