I understand that you are very much in love with this guy and don't want to give up what took you 7 years to build but if he doesn't see your worth, he is not worth it. You pay all the bills but...
You just need to believe in yourself. If you managed to impress him while hiding behind a fake identity, as awesomagic pointed out, it might just be that you are intimidated by him. You have what it...