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  1. Walk out of the house tomorrow like a mover and...

    Walk out of the house tomorrow like a mover and shaker. I understand the want to help idea and the pain but sometimes when you read these threads well... should I block or unblock on FB? What could...
  2. Question: Sex and porn

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    The latest report of the experts who are members...

    The latest report of the experts who are members of the Italian Society of Andrology and Sexual Medicine stated, many men who have accessed pornography from an early age (around age 14) experiencing...
  3. Make an appointment with a counselor... really....

    Make an appointment with a counselor... really. They will help you work this thing through. Bottom line will be can you honestly forgive her? Will you be able to trust her again? If the answer is no...
  4. Question: Sex and porn

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    Actually they have started to do a lot of studies...

    Actually they have started to do a lot of studies on porn addiction now and how it has effected libido in males and couples sex life. They even have self help groups on the net for it like this site....
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    You need to take care of yourself. I agree with...

    You need to take care of yourself. I agree with Tal... you have to move on as this is over. Having false hope slows up recovery more than any other issue. You are in for a world of hurt if you keep...
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    Send him an email and let him know you would like...

    Send him an email and let him know you would like to see him and talk to him. You must accept that he may not answer your email or respond the way you expect. If that happens you have your answer. I...
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    You are allowing it to happen. Tell him to stop...

    You are allowing it to happen. Tell him to stop or you can no longer be his friend and will tell your husband about it. Believe me when I say that if this gets out of hand and somehow people get the...
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    Step away from the situation and look at it from...

    Step away from the situation and look at it from the outside. Say a buddy of yours asked for your advice (ill be frank to drive home a point), he tells you he likes this woman but she is "sexing"...
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    Mr. 21 year old is going to end up in jail soon...

    Mr. 21 year old is going to end up in jail soon mom. Many professionals are required by law to report that type (you know what I mean) relationship to law enforcement. And they will also be asking...
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    Please move on. If she was really interested you...

    Please move on. If she was really interested you wouldn't have to ask that question in the first place. Make like a ghost and disappear from her life and find someone who will leave no doubt in your...
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    Honey, Your gone and I don't whether to smile or...

    Honey,
    Your gone and I don't whether to smile or ****. Yes, you dumped me, but as I flush this chapter of my life down the toilet. Is it possible that you may afford me some closure on my journey?
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  12. Question: Been dumped.

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    Think of a couple things you would like to do or...

    Think of a couple things you would like to do or need to do other than the men in your life. Take a break from relationships for awhile. Try to clear your head and I bet it won't take long and you...
  13. Your not putting yourself in a good light. If he...

    Your not putting yourself in a good light. If he does want to get back with you his break the ice question is going to be "So what have you been up to?" Please have a better answer than "thinking,...
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    How old are you? Does he have a good job? He's...

    How old are you? Does he have a good job? He's going to need one to be able to take you out and pay child support for the next 18 years. And as his wages improve so will the support payments. Beans n...
  15. Let her go date and split now while your ahead....

    Let her go date and split now while your ahead. In the meantime while your out cruising here is a dirty but harmless "her ya go honey" trick. Memorize her number and as time goes by when you get the...
  16. Question: Can't move on.

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    This relationship has issues, do you believe that...

    This relationship has issues, do you believe that you can work on overcoming them? Better yet do you think she wants to put the effort forward as well? I would go NC and do what I could to improve my...
  17. She has moved on from this relationship. It's...

    She has moved on from this relationship. It's time you did as well. Every minute you waste thinking about would a, could a with her you could be doing something more productive for you.
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    Your not asking for a lot, her refusal stings...

    Your not asking for a lot, her refusal stings with lack of respect for you and her priorities. I would think that she would be more concerned about how you feel than defend a relationship that ended...
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    One way to help with no contact is to stop and...

    One way to help with no contact is to stop and think why you broke up. It will be a big reason, don't be fooled into thinking it was that last silly fight you had that caused it. People leave serious...
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    Are you involved with anyone now? If yes don't...

    Are you involved with anyone now? If yes don't even think about it. She has not contacted you in 2 years so I believe she really doesn't care what you are doing. If you contact her you will probably...
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    Think long and hard about the fact she left you...

    Think long and hard about the fact she left you once, she may have made a mistake and for your sake I hope that's the case. Your story had a lot to say about what she wanted but little about what...
  22. In my opionion there are basically two ways one...

    In my opionion there are basically two ways one would consider friendship with ex. 1. You share children with the ex, effort should be made to be civil for the kids sake. 2. Your alone and have...
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