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Have you told him your feelings since you did three years ago?

There are two scenarios here:
1) He likes you, but as he's never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl he doesn't know how to approach...

Like you said before, you've both grown up a lot and you have to remember that you're not going out with that same 16 year old boy anymore, so you can't compare him to how he used to be....

I'm going to have to say that I disagree with you slightly.
Things don't happen for a reason in my opinion, stuff happens in your life because you make it happen, and for this boy, he didn't feel...

Unless you have already been through the heartache of getting over someone, you just feel like the hurt will never end.
I'm talking from experience that getting over someone you loved, no matter how...

Depression is something that I have some experience in, and this must have been a very difficult time for both of you.
Depression affects not ust the person suffering, but also the people around...

No!
Don't break up with her!
In this post, you didn't highlight any problems you have whatsoever with your girlfriend, so I'm assuming all is good with her.
Why end a perfectly good relationship...

You obviously haven't moved on now else you wouldn't have been bragging about your girlfriend and still trying to make contact with this woman.

It was silly for you both to flirt with each other...

Well in my opinion he's showing all the signs that he likes you, but I don't think being subtle is the right answer here.

He let you know exactly how he felt before, and you turned him down, which...

Same signs as if she was cheating with another guy:
-Being secretive/lying about what she's doing/where she is/who she's with
-Being defensive when you ask her questions about her friend and what...

You are absolutely not being unreasonably strict.
Whilst he is not a child and is not your son, he needs to remember that he is living virtually rent free in YOUR home, and he needs to treat it with...

Keep "accidentally" bumping into him at the gym! You're lucky to fancy a lad who you already have the potential to see everyday. Keep trying to chat to him and perhaps a bit of flirting, and see if...

If you read back your own question you'd probably have your answer.
You said that you don't want to break up with her because:
- She makes you food
- She doesn't make you pay for anything
- She...

I'm not sure whether it's a conscious or unconscious action, but if you know he likes you and the only reason you're not together is because of work, does it matter?

However much you love someone, it's difficult to spend every waking moment together. Even you're oldest, best friend who you love the most would eventually get irritating after a certain amount of...

This isn't you're problem you need to solve, this is his issue with trust. You have been and always intend to be faithful to this guy, and have never given any indication that you want to cheat on...

Sit her down and have a proper talk with her in a place where you can both be alone.
You need to know the following things:
1) When she asked for a break, did she mean that she needed to think a...

I think you need to accept his decision, as you can't force someone into loving you. However, if you still love him then trying to be friends straight away isn't going to work, as you'll still have...

Just because your marriage and the first couple of dates after your divorce didn't work out, doesn't mean you should settle for someone who isn't making you happy.
You said that he was an old flame...

You kind of answered your own question here.
You said that while you're a doting kind of person, she's more independent, but while you were together she liked being doted on because she liked the...

I have had this exact problem before.
My boyfriend used to chat to girls on dating websites and it would annoy me, but at the end of the day I knew it was innocent and that he would never physically...

Maybe it's not that you're getting bored of the guy, but that you're bored with aspects of your own life and are blaming it on the guy you're with because it's easier than facing up to the problems...

The most important thing you need to do is stop worrying about everything!
You like her, and that's a great feeling to have, she likes you too else she wouldn't have said yes to the date. And it was...

I don't think meeting him would give you closure, as you're relationship was entirely digital and you never met whilst you were together. Meeting him would open up an entirely new aspect of the...

Ok there's a really good website that I use all the time when I'm stuck for presents to buy my dad or boyfriend for Christmas and stuff, and it's called www.firebox.com. It's full of amazing little...

I think you're reading into everything he does far too much.
So he doesn't buy you presents or take you out all the time, so what? That's not what love is. If anything, you should be pleased that...

You obviously said something that really hit a sore spot with her, and she probably isn't answering your calls or calling you back straight away because you've hurt her more seriously than you ever...

You can't force someone into liking you, and you should never change how you are or how you act to trick someone you like into liking you back. If he doesn't already like you for who you are, then...

If by saying when you "go to bed" with him you mean sleeping with him, you need to remember that at your age what you're doing is against the law, and for a good reason. Laws aren't put in place to...

A relationship is built on trust and if he can't trust you when you're not with him all the time then maybe you need to rethink a few things.
Sure, you're moving in with him, which will probably...

I think that you should try a but harder with the dating websites.
Although there has been quite a bit of bad press about them in the past, they really have come on in the past couple of years and...

Two things I can't think of:
1) She might just be trying to make innocent conversation with you, and doesn't realise that her constant prying is upsetting you, or
2) She wants to set you up with...

She text you straight away saying she had a good time which is a good sign, but I wouldn't read too much into the first date kissing thing. Some people do it and some people don't. It's not...

I'm not surprised you're irritated by him and dislike him, this man made you completely change who you are for him to be with you, and that's not fair. If you're a different person to how you were...

To be honest, I don't really agree with you having to change the person you are to keep your boyfriend interested. If he's too busy noticing other girls to realise what a fantastic girl he already...

You need to give her space.
You weren't very specific on what 'sort her life out' entailed, and whether that's because she wasn't specific with you either I don't know, but if she's asked for a...

From the sounds of it, I think she may have been using the wrong word when she said she still loves you, and perhaps she meant it in the sense of she still cares for you. Perhaps she has lost the...

While for you it may seem that making love to you is his way of showing he loves you, a lot for the time it isn't. We're made to believe that all men want and think about is sex, so then when a man...

You don't want to be contemplating love with someone who isn't willing to tell you how they really feel.

This is a story with a lot of detail so I'll try be as specific as I can.
First of all, you say that you're in you're forties and were looking for someone to settle down with, and I can understand...

You can both like and love someone at the same time, but if you're talking about moving on in a relationship from ust liking the person to loving them, then I don't think there's anything to think...