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Chuck

She hold all the cards. I did not set any condition. You are looking at one scared dude who's afraid of losing the woman he loves. Stalemate is better than checkmate.

Jake

Thanks again. Many of the things you've said have crossed my mind. I was hoping for a magic bullet but sadly there's none. But thanks anyway & to all the others who's posted answers. It's...

Jake
Thanks for you insight and advice. Find them most helpful. Yes, stalemate is not the answer. Guess I'm also in a denial phase. Having her in the house, even noncommunicative, means there's...

Thanks Jake

The mutual friend is female. We know her for over 30 years. And I'm thankful for her supporting my wife. She has made it clear to my wife that she is only helping her with...

Hi Jake

Yes, I do know where she was the 3 months of separation. She was living with the mutual friend. And during these 3 months she would return to the home to do the housechores including...

Sorry I should have said "Ï'm not saying I'm a great guy and this is all her fault

Thx joypulv. You are perceptive. She may be scared of the idea of life on her own after 25 years or that she's making the wrong decision re: separation. And yes, she has mentioned her fear of...

Sorry, I should have said I was unaware that she felt this way.

After 25 years of marriage and with 3 kids living with us, my wife asked for a separation and moved out. She said I have not supported her emotionally and she feels obsolete and unloved. I love her...