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I can't even respond. They are moderating my posts. So, what I said to kit after her post won't be posted until all her friends come to stand beside her. Especially when I AM a victim... and yes, I...

I just wanted to add that even if she seems not to care, it doesn't mean she doesn't care.

Just because someone can't react on the same level you do, does not mean that they don't care. She may...

Again, there was no outburst.

I did not realize you are friends in real life. Followers (follow certain posters to forums, I am an IT professional. That is a typical term)... friends, both come...

My daughter just went through this same scenario.

They were online friends, he was in the Army and he got limited privileges, however he was able to get leave a couple times to see her. When he...

I have been where you are and I know that nothing can take the pain away, and that there are no comforting words.

You will never get over it. It will always be with you and sometimes you may...

Jake, JudyKayTree, everone else who responded; thank you for your honest words. I did indeed appreciate the honesty, just as I appreciated Kit's up to a point.

You are entitled to your opinions. ...

You didn't, Kit, you didn't. She CHOOSES to be offended - and it's a conscious choice. Another "good-bye forever" person who still is signed on.


Wow. Okay. I'll sign off. I won't read any...

I am not passive-aggressive and I did not attack KitKat, who has nicely turned this into her post.

I came here to seek an honest response to an honest issue. I am truly on the last leg without...

See, Kitkat, I view your cold, ill-understood advice as mean.

You aren't trapped in my condition or my health issues and you have no idea how the Medi-Cal system in California works (or as it...

Kitkat22, you know, I've gone over that same question over and over, because I have suffered the accusations of it.

When I drank, it was every 3 or 4 months, I'd get really tipsy, over about a 2...

What can I say. This is all very true and very real.

Clarity - drinking. Off and on a couple years. Every couple nights for about 2 months. Stopped entirely after that 2 month run when I made a stupid mistake.

You can't get honest answers when you ask them with dishonesty. I can't see getting real help if I lie about anything.

I pasted it from notepad after I re-read it. This forum has a very small window. It's only posted here. Nowhere else.

I never had a drinking problem. She accuses me of that. For about a 2...

My two daughters are now, 19 and 26. The eldest and I have major issues. I was a child when she was born. A teenage mother who had no idea or finances to care for her. I had to take welfare. A...