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I has been a year and 3 months now. Thought of an update for some people who is in the same / similar situation. I have had terrible 6 months after the break-up. Devastated. Then, I went on crazy/...

Just stay strong and go hang out with friends. At times, do something out of your normal routine. It works for me.

I think is better for you to get down and discuss about this. And if this really bothers you and the relationship then think twice. Love is not only just sex.

I've been traveling a lot and doing different sports as well as meeting new people. The problem it's when I meet my mutual friend. I really do care of myself not hers.

Is a peace of mind that I...

Thanks Talaniman, it is sucky again when a mutual friend told us that the Ex has sold the car I and her chosed together. Telling me now that she and her BF is so much happier and better.

Happier...

Yes, Vanheart. I did too have a nightmare of my ex today. It is still sucky and still keep moving on. Ex said want to keep us as a friend. Should I?

Dude, many of us here were the heartbroken ones and we WILL grow better. Regardless, I am still on NC for 4 months now but I am breaking it in a week or so to call my ex to get my stuff back and...

This is not a game. Don't play on with his feelings. So unfair!

Thanks Shadowburn. It's over long ago. Time and time only can able to help me. Just deeply hurt inside for 3 months now.

Guys, I didn't know how to say it but it does still hurt. I felt I am a loser for not going out where I still have no initiative or intentions to just hang OUT.

Yesterday, my friend told me she...

You got to try to go for No Contact. It will work if u let yourself.

Try going no contact for real and it will work slowly. School just started and try to meet new friends. Enjoy life, is only 4 months! Don't sober and drag too long.

It will be pathetic and yes, after 4 years of having someone and now all has gone it will take quite some time. Just try to hang on and move on to something new. Friends can help filling the...

Yes, vent here! It works for me at least.

Yes, we CAN do it! Love is all about both ends... love is never easy and there is no meant to be... only hard earn love with supreme trust.

Bill, be strong and really try to go on NC. I beg to get back with my ex and I too caught her texting with her colleague at wee hours and she said nothing is going to happen.

A few days after she...

Have a very bad day, car got stolen. Need transport badly and brought back memories that my ex could and would willingly send or fetch me from work.

God, I miss her and still can't believe she...

Be strong! And good luck... gosh, I was hoping my ex would come back to me and I too, will give her chance as I am suffering on and off.

I dearly missed her and thinking about the good memories...

I can't agree more to work on NC as fast as possible and meet with friends. I too, myself in a relationship for years when she dropped the BOMB without any chances and no concrete reason.

She...

I do been sticking to NC for now. Got to admit I misses her a lot and I am willing to make amends but unfortunately she got new guy over me. So, if you think there is still chance after you have...

I am glad that to stick on hard NC. Thanks bunch! It is fading, I can feel it.

Yea shocked! Agreed!

Just finished your writing and I MUST TELL YOU THAT SHE is playing YOU. U love her so much that she got to keep you around. You just have to stop contacting her and move on with your friends.
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Well, we do not know how strong is your love towards each other before. Get yourself clear and go meet and talk to him. It seems that he is a guy who is willing to talk things through.

However,...

Yes, exactly. In fact, I've made her a list. But she didn't honor it. It's up to 2 months now and it still sober =P

Oh come on, please don't do this. It is their relationship and not yours. Let them handle it. Just think of it as if she can breaks with him to be with you this fast.

God knows, she will then...

Dear vanheart, yes those are important documents that I had put at her place for my convenience.

Check on the ingenuity first because accusing him. If is the truth then it will hurt him so so bad. He just want to be comfortable among the people and live like normal instead of feeling weird.
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Went through the boxes. Oh hell, she didn't return all my stuff. She just dumped in whatever in her way. Even her things are in the box. She is so blind now. =p

So, I did got my friend to help and thank god only her dad was in and dad was very kind and understand the situation. Made me feel comfortable going in to get as many as my little car space allow.
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If you still can't get over your ex. You are not ready for a relationship. It will hurt the new partner. Taking leverage is no good. Casual dating should be around to meet people which is what I am...

Dude, if you are not serious please end this early. You will hurt her so much that she! Come on'. Please go through some threads and try to feel those who got hurt from sh*tty excuses from their...

Dear flow87, I am in this position now where my ex told me we have been together too long and now that we have known each other too long! Can't you believe on this sh*t? We're supposed to be long...

I am going through NC as now I am trying to clear my stuffs from her place. It is very difficult and if is not then is not LOVE. FYI, I just went for a trip with my ex and came back and she's with...

Yes, is urgent and you are so right vanheart! I called her mom yesterday to inform the possibility that I am coming over and her mom is like, "there are things you have here? Ohh, okaaay"

She is...

Just spoken to few friends at the bar last night. They were disagree due to reason as "disrespect". I was like s***, do I need to hire a person to do that? So frusfrating.

Yes, these are great examples. You can never go wrong with his interest.

Yes, I got to agree on this one. I am just over with my 4 yo relationship with my girl and to a new guy and I kept asking for a sensible reason which my ex didn't give me. Asking God since and it...

To be honest, a grown up relationship you should face is to tell her is over. To be fair for her as well. Otherwise, it will hurt more.

Thanks guys, I am still sad and of course devastated by I am glad I am moving on. Although, occasionally I would send virtual emails to my other email account. I found it help. Anyway, I am...

To be fair for her, a grown up relationship should be truthful. If you don't love her then end it while is still not hurting that much. Otherwise, it will drag and both gets hurt.

God, how long has it been? Really it is suffering here. I am still not going anywhere yet. Just work, home and TV.

monney = morning *

It's so freaking hard! Woke up this morning at wee hours again. Dang! I kept thinking about her waking up at the wrong place. Got to write it out in AMHD otherwise I will write to her. Thanks AMHD.

Gosh, another call but it's my friend. I thought it was her and I answered and said, I want to sleep only to realised it was my friend.

My ex-gf just called me and I didn't answer. What should I do?

Vinnai Thaandi Varuvaayaa (2010) excellent movie!

I think this could be a good example of NC. Please watch this.

Yes after 1 day of really no FB and don't picking the friend's call, I feel better and I really felt that I don't deserve this. It's her choice and I have no regrets for my action and my love towards...

You guys were spot-on! Yesterday, I finally managed not to check on her FB it was such a hard work! God. I almost lost my job too. My superior were asking why aren't you focus. Dang, the power of...

Thanks guys, you guys rock! I am trying really hard to NC. Those stuff I don't even wanted care to collect until she asked.

Why do I need to be so sad when she is the one that did wrong. I treated...