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Your 'pain' as you put it is of your own doing.



Your putting your friends above what you feel without allowing yourself or giving yourself the opportunity to find out.

Reality is, if they...

You're a two faced, lying, deceitful and cowardly little man.

All you're doing is looking for an escape out of a marriage you're not man enough to own up too. So rather than facing the truth at...

Hell no! The first night he would have put me in the spare room with the baby and not offering me the bed and the main bedroom - even if he has work - would have been the last night. Like having a...

You weren't able to give your ex everything either. If you did you more than likely would have worked harder to keep the relationship going rather than giving up after 3 months of proposing.
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My question is.. what did his ex do to create this animosity he has to you handing over a business card - even for legit purposes?

If his reaction is based on something his ex done.. and he is...

If he's not attached to anyone.. crush or not.. it was harmless. Your choice to leave it be now or continue the flirting. Knowing your friend has a crush on him.. I'd walk away and just put it down...

"this kid ..."

He's not someone you want to be involved in. 'This Kid' is someone who took the time to hang out with you that you didn't reciprocate nor did you appreciate, want or need. And when...

Tell him if you had to judge him on the way he stands.. he wouldn't be standing next to you now.

But being the person you are.. you didn't judge his book by his cover :)

He's using you...

How would you feel if you knew there was another woman in the same situation as yourself.. waiting for him to sort himself out and asking herself what she'd done wrong and why...

You DON'T respect yourself, why the hell should he respect you? He's playing you for a fool.

He won't protect you, won't make you feel wanted, use you for his own needs, will continue doing...

Time flies when you're having fun!

My reply:

If your pen!s wasn't attached to your body, I'd love you no matter what too.

I'd poke you back in jest if you were local.

I'm happy to see you're slowly coming around this very long (& painful) corner.

<distant hugs>

Well really the question you should ask yourself is, do you see yourself feeling like this in another 3 years time?

For whatever his reasons are, it maybe underlying issues within his family, not...

The joys of finding a wee young thing to fall in love with him... so he has someone able to take care of him in his dotage.

Free slave labour.

You really can't base an online character looking similar as 'soul determining' - given that there's millions that play online games and there really isn't that much to choose from character wise.
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OP doesn't agree with anything we say now because no one is pacifying his needs to be right on the matter.

No you don't.

You are so completely narrow minded in your own opinion and thought process you haven't even read what posters are writing.



I, cannot speak for anyone else, am not here to...

One of my closest friends is male to whom I converse with daily and is indeed my 'babe', 'hunny', 'sweetie' and any other form of endearement. My dearest friends of the female gender are also 'babe'...

Perhaps his pursuing you without 'issue' was a lot more simple.

Having to deal with something serious just wasn't in his book of 'wanting to deal with'. It mean't having to commit himself to...

Bit of a late comer here but.. you're investing far too much of yourself, mentally, into something that doesn't appear to have much of a positive outcome.

Although she appears to 'choose' you over...

What does it matter what anyone else thinks? It's your business. It's your time to heal and move on.

Let them dwell and linger.. they're the ones not healing and not dealing with it.

How does one gain more respect for oneself.. lets see.

Having a sense of dignity and pride in yourself. By not allowing her to treat you like crap. She's using you. And you allow it. There's no...

wow Tal! And I was told I was harsh! :)

@ kadennguyen10

She doesn't love you. She dosen't respect you or value you any more than a used welcome mat.

She's keeping you on the hook so when...

Well she sounds like she'd be one heck of an emotional rollercoaster ride.

My thoughts would be she needs time to sort her own head/life out before she sees.. anyone.

You have two choices.
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Nice post.. but this was originally posted in 07'.

Hoping the OP has moved on somewhat from here.

I would like to say that even though some of us mums are 30 plus (cough) we are still very much young at heart and very outgoing!

I like a wide range of music.. activities from reading a book to...

Take your daughter to the park to play with other children and start conversations with other mum's.

If you have any hobbies you like.. see if they have any groups going in your area, school...

How about backing off from any form of relationship until you've sorted yourself out first?

Your sound extremely confused about your sexuality.

You're more than happy to be aggressive towards...

One day at a time... :)

Proud of you... fantastic!

I hope your health issues now start getting better and you'll continue at a later date what Wondergirl had suggested about seeing a counsellor.

Take care and keep...

Maybe you cant.. but wondergirl is going exactly where I would go.. just in a nicer way :)

Keep strong.. make notes around the place why you're staying this strong.. he will hit a chord one day...

I remember you.

Why do you still 'choose' to communicate with him?

You do realise it will be only a matter of time while talking with him that he'll suddenly come across as caring and concerned...

You obviously don't trust him otherwise you would have accepted his response and left it.

The fact you kept nagging and carrying on, that was probably easier to deal with than the continual...

Huh?

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I agree with the gun being dangerous, as is any weapon you may defend yourself with.

My dad once told me, if...

I have lived in both UK and US. It was certainly an eye opener to see how easy it is to purchase weapons in the US.

Not that I went out and got one... I'd end up doing myself more harm than anyone...

Split it all 50/50 whether you like it or not.

No comeback for any time, place or situation then.

And if you don't know if you 'want' this.. then 'don't do it'.

Kind of simple but it works.

It maybe "Another night at the club" by Zorro.

Song is called Believe by Triptii

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriage/married-2-man-575256.html

Might be a little bit more to this than meets the eye. Um like bigamy?

Then rather than over analysing the situation just go with the flow.

Date casually with no commitments or expectations and see what happens.



It's been only 3 weeks...

Well I can't say that your comments or want/need to be with this man irrespective of situation is endearing any respect either.

Fact: He's Married
Fact: He hasn't left her
Fact: He won't move on...

Well, lets see. You could continue this relationship for another 3 months and continue to excerise your means of transportation for visitation rights...

Or

You tell him when he's ready to make...

@ Pattygrown40

I just thought it would be worthwhile mentioning guns are illegal in the UK.. and extremely difficult to obtain a license to keep one. I tried as I was offered an antique.. and even...

Well you're not alike as I think you'd like to think you are. If anything you're both worlds apart.



Tough, you're going to have too. She doesn't apparently want to be with you.


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Wayyyyy to many people involved.. I got lost after "Curtis".

Focus on one person and one person only. Learn to priortise your time and go from there.

You can come live with me!. Not overly keen on foot massages.. but back rubs and someone who cooks and cleans... dude you win!

All she'd have to do is pay you and you'd be her slave.

You're...

Tell him to get stuffed.

Change your number, cut all ties and move on.

Seriously how many more times in your life are you going to be dragged back by the two faced lying s.o.b?