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Oh I don't doubt there is an element of self pity in my posts. I don't blame him/them for MY actions because I haven't really done anything, other than fall in love with someone who I thought felt...

Hmmmm, not so sure you've hit the nail on the head there Talaniman but thanks for trying to 'pep' me up. I had been on a couple of dates with a couple of guys before him, but felt nothing so stopped...

I am glad I have read this.

Having gone from one relationship to the next, and recently getting heart broken twice in under a year, I am starting to think I am trying too hard.

I have only just...

HAving come out of a messy relationship where I was essentially used for sex by my ex whilst he was seeing someone else, I met another man almost two months later.

He seemed like everything I...

Thank you Enigma. His break up was not as messy and drawn out as mine, in fact it was an amicable break up. He is therefore a bit further along the 'moving on' process than perhaps I am. But, I am...

It's when I spend too much time on my own that my mind starts wandering and I think about what I let him do to me. The rest of the time I am happy! I am totally aware it must seem far too soon to...

Three months ago I finally discovered the truth about my ex. Although we had technically split up (his decision), we continued to see each other on an almost weekly basis, and would sleep together...

My ex first suggested we 'date' again (for me the spark didn't seem to have disappeared... I later found out there was a whole other reason behind his logic). I wasn't really happy with this, so he...

I keep thinking I am weak and in some bizarre way, a bit of a sadomasochist, but it would appear I am reacting in a normal way.
Because of the way he cheated on me for so long, and abused my...

Some men are just very good at lying. My recent ex had been using me as his bit on the side for, well I have no real idea, maybe 4 months, maybe 10 months. I just don't know any more. But until all...

She sounds rather confused in my opinion, saying it's over one minute then texting the next. But to laugh at your heartfelt letter? That is rather mean. But then again, you only have her friend's...

This website is really helping quite a lot. I feel I have exhausted my close friends' patience by sounding like a broken record (although known of them have actually said this, and in fact have been...

It is so bizarre how very similar we both reacted to our situation and how we both knew contacting the innocent party was perhaps wrong, but needed to be done.
I certainly didn't want to upset her,...

I am currently very aware of not letting myself get into a rebound relationship for most of the reasons stated above.
I have had a few guys show an interest, and they are lovely men, but something...

Silverlining - it is almost like speaking to myself! That is virtually the same as my situation. Why are there some men out there that think it is OK to keep two women on the go, knowing full well...

Thank you for reading my 'story' and advising. Oh, he knows I am aware of his new girlfriend. I went a bit loopy when I found out he was going on holiday with her just a week after staying over with...

I split up with my boyfriend over half a year ago. For the first 5 months following the split we continued to see each other, and it was almost as though our relationship was continuing. In fact, it...