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Thanks guys. I realise now that this is definitely false hope.

I just don't understand why he won't just come out and tell me what he is thinking. I am not used to this sort of behavoiur with...

Why is it so hard to do NC? I know it is the right thing to do but then I get these moments of what I think are clarity (but in reality insanity) where I think talking to him can make it all better....

She is reaching out to you but it sounds like she is also hesitant. I would take things slow with her and try not to push her or be too demanding.

By taking things slow maybe you could try to...

This is not about him trying to trust you, this is about someone who is trying to control every facet of your life. If you step away from the situation and take a look at your relationship as we can...

Thank you for the responses. It has really helped me be calm and accept the situation more.

However, I am struggling with trying to understand men's motives. Tonight I was on the phone with a...

I wish there was a magic pill that we could take to get over someone. But as the others are saying as well - time is on your side here. Little by little she will stop entering your thoughts as much...

I wouldn't take his coldness as a reflection on you at all and not take it personally. Some people just close up, put their walls up and distance themselves from situations emotionally. I don't think...

I didn't delete my ex and all it did was cause problems because anytime I saw a post from him my heart would sink.

It also opened up my temptation to contact him by IM, which I did and ended up...

I think you are looking for signals in everything she does - and most likely they aren't there.

By focusing all of your energy on this one and only girl you may be missing out on girls who are...

Thanks guys. I guess I saw his true colours through all of this.

I can understand avoiding me if he needed some space which I tried to give him by not contacting him.

But when someone asks you...

Being attracted to someone physically is very subjective. You might poll everyone on this site and get everything from ugly to hottest guy on the planet.

I think only you will be able to answer...

Thanks amicon. I have binned all of his belongings he left behind.

I just can't help beating myself up that I got caught up playing a game myself. By not answering his call on Monday I entered...

Ok. I will try (cant say I can promise) to keep this short. I met this guy about 3 months ago and we started hanging out as friends then after about a month he kissed me and then from that point on...