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Here's my issue, I'm a Caucasian/Asian female (raised as Caucasian more or less) and dating a man from Jordan. He's the first guy I've dated that isn't white. I am 22, he is 25. Although my half...

Where to begin... well she's my best friend and really one of my only few friends, would be there for me whenever I needed her. She is however, a very high maintenance friend. For instance, wants...

For instance, elevators terrify me. I avoid them, but if I absolutely MUST be in one my routine goes like this: walk straight back to the corner, don't look at the door close (I will panic much more...

Quite frankly, I'm tired of it. I know I baby it, so to speak, by avoiding situations I know will trigger panic and it's been steadily worsening. Just thinking about being in a situation that will...

Yesterday I saw him at work while I was showing a woman where a department was and he ended up walking with me, talking to her and me. When I got to the destination he asked me to walk with him, he...

I really like this guy and was "talking" to him and became intimate under the impression that we would be pursuing more. Well he backed away claiming it scared him how much he liked me, that his...

Thanks for your advice so far!

If you push yourself on him he will continue to know that you're not going anywhere and that he's not losing anything. The best thing you can do if he's questioning things is to give him space. If he...

If you love someone, you don't have to question it, you just know. In your case I think you like him a lot and it is something that could blossom into love the more you get to know each other.

I know it's hard wanting someone that just doesn't seem to want you back. Naturally, you push yourself on that person in hopes they will do the same. But I've learned that doing that only has the...

I know being shy is tough, I am very shy and the thought of introducing yourself to anyone can be so intimidating. But in this case, he's not going to make the first move. Just try starting a random...

There's always a chance. The only way to tell for sure is to get a pregnancy test around the time of your next period.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I went through something similar. I lost three best friends in the same week, one was about an ex but under different circumstances. It absolutely hurts to be...

I'm 21, and I've had a boyfriend since I was 13, nonstop besides maybe a couple months over time or so. I've had long relationships, a couple short ones, but generally I've been with someone nonstop....

Thank you for your answers.. I'm not that serious with him, there's no title involved but it doesn't mean I don't care for him. I feel like he was just looking for a different answer and may have...

A guy I am "talking" to, and have known for two years, today told me he finds that drinking is the only way he can deal with his problems. I noticed before today, he'd tell me about different drinks...

We've been together for 4 years now. He's currently deployed to Kuwait and has been since May 2010, and is due back around April. We are 21 and 20.

Basically, he has always been insecure with...

It's not wrong, I see it as a "following your head" situation. The problem is, you may be content, but if you do not love him, you won't be happy.

I tried the same thing. My boyfriend and I...

I'm at about 110-115lb. I currently half board a 14.2 hh Quarter Horse/Arab mix (def more Quarter Horse build) and she's great and can ride with me just fine for hours, but I'd like a horse just a...

So I may be looking into this too much, well I probably am but I want to get second opinions. The past few days I've been having stomach pains on and off, both what feel like gas pains and also...

Very true, fingers are crossed!

My cycle is normally about every 60 days (every other month), but it varies, sometimes less sometimes more. However, my last cycle was 40 days, my last period ending October 16.

My boyfriend...

So here's a huge update to this, please help!

I've since spoken to her family, nothing was done. Her behavior just got worse. During paycheck day, the 30th, she came in to work in the morning...

I'm going to try to make it short.

They meet and immediately start dating, a month later he proposes before he goes to prison. She would be at my house every day, happy, bubbly, etc, since they'd...

Love forms over time. You can't possibly love someone you know nothing about. However, attraction and lust are instant.

I was just in a similar situation, my relationship was only one year but it was the same feeling. There was no love from me anymore. Although I cared about him, I didn't love him. It was hard, but...

As beachloverjohn said, you definitely need to confront this with your fiancée. It will only become more difficult in time. Together you two need to find a way for you to accept ALL of him, including...

Facebook does not determine a real friendship.

Doesn't sound like he's being sincere at all. You were only with him for 7 months, which meant you saw the side of him he wanted you to see. You know, the "I'm such a nice guy" side.

If he broke...

I'm 20, he's 21.

The first guy is 19, the second 23.

My boyfriend and I were together for two years, broke up for a year, and are now trying to work things out (not to mention he is deployed...

x3 is supposed to be a heart haha, sorry I'm not creepy :)

but yea I see what you mean, it's just hard because my boyfriend is jealous by nature. He's gotten so much better with everything but...

I have 3 best guy friends, 2 cause my boyfriend to be jealous.

1. There are two things that bother my boyfriend about him. He says he loves me, as far as I know in a platonic manner. Also, he...

Not a problem, it's all been very great advice, I didn't mind hearing it a couple times haha

Everyone has a valid point and it is generally the same point. She is only keeping you around as an option. You cannot be just another option, you deserve to be the only option.

He may miss what he had when he had two girls, but he does not miss you.

If he missed you he would have never went for the other girl or left you in the first place. You are probably a great...

If she is not willing to try, and you have shown every attempt to fix things, then you cannot live your life in someone else's depression. You can help her, but I wouldn't stay with her at least for...

I talked to him last night, I told him how I was feeling. We didn't technically break up yet, he wrote me a love letter to wake up to. I'm so angry I can't feel the way I want to about him. He's...

You are not required to "meet his needs." if you are treating him with respect, kindness, etc (basically the way you'd want to be treated) and he doesn't respect you for it, then he is not meeting...

Do you use latex condoms? I found the pain I was experiencing (sounds very similiar) was because I was allergic to latex, at least in that area. They sell latex-free, try that.

But why would you cheat on them in the first place if they were respected by you? "Slip-ups" do happen, but they don't just happen as far as I've seen. For that to happen you've had to have lost...

If you value yourself, and this guy, you need to walk away from the relationship. I know, it doesn't sound right but it is. He doesn't respect you and is losing interest. Guys don't chase girls...

Do you mean ex-boyfriend or ex-friend?

Either way, if you are uncomfortable with the situation all you can do is talk to her about it. Let her know what's causing you to feel the way you do and...

If your intentions were harmless, tell the guy you like that you were afraid he might be angry. If he doesn't believe you, there's really nothing you can do.

However, lying wasn't the best choice....

All you can do is give him space, when someone tells you what they need it is usually a good idea to listen to it ;-)

I agree; I feel as though when someone cannot assess responsibility of shameful actions it is more so in fear of their reputation than the other person. As you said, if they respected them in the...

We have been together for almost a year now, and he is currently living with me. He's a great person and I love him, but as the cliché goes I'm just not in love with him.

I've tried for a month...

I wasn't in the most logical frame of mind at the time, those were some of the hardest months mentally of my life. I found the strength to leave him and that in itself was a milestone.

As for the...

Thank you Aurora, that's pretty much the story. The only thing is Jane and Bob never "dated". Jane started trying to get to Bob once she found out I was getting involved with Fred. She also tried...

This happened about 6 months ago, but I'm not at the point where I can look back on the relationship to start to break things down to get rid of the pain, but anyway here's my question..

I was in...

Thank you everyone so much for your help. I'm definitely cutting off all ties.. for good. I'll never be able to start healing if I keep reopening the wounds. Thank you again and a million times...