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I was coming to that conclusion too about not even being much of a friend. Appreciative to hear it from a totally unbiased source, an outside perspective. People can be weird from different life...

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What really sucks is this guy has a psychology background. You'd think he'd know better than to play with people's emotions...

Known this fella for about 17 months, dated casually 4 months, had made actual plans 2 weeks in advance for dinner etc, to which he cancelled day of and never rescheduled. He had told me one week...

Stop texting him. Read the books, he's just not that into you and why men love bi***es. You will learn a lot. Don't seem needy. This planet is so big and there are way too many people out there to...

I agree with the others, I think being honest with her will help all parties move forward on what this was. Honesty is the best policy.

I got the total opposite impression. I thought maybe he was interested. I would hold out though on having sex with him, especially if you are still a virgin. Let your first time be with someone to...

Female who is all new to this dating thing, come from a past of being in relationships and never really done the dating thing. Question- when you start dating, how often should you be going out,...

Go to a clinic and get medical opinion. Don't leave something like this.

Sounds like HE'S got issues not you. Move forward, that's why you were given eyes in the front of your head, not they back. Run forest run!

My first thought on this post, is why a 30 yo has never had a girlfriend before. There's more to this than wshat's posted. I agree, you can't meet people at bus stops, etc.

Follow up with your doctor if you are concerned.

Is he masturbating? Low sex drive? Seems to me he's making excuses about your lack of experience. That's just my opinion. I think when someone wants to be with you, they want to be with you, that...

Veggies.. eat your veggies..

I agree, why is this guy still with her. Sounds like he may not leave her, if he loves you so much than he would do anything to be with you, even leaving her. He's having his cake and eating it too.

Yes, the posts were about the same guy.

I agree, if you tell her that she hasn't been moving her hips right than she will be focused on that. Not good. Maybe show her - be the teacher of what you want. I was with someone for many years,...

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Yes I am the same person from December, I'm actually glad you noticed...
I wonder what the real story is too. I just got out of a long term relationship with a guy of 10 yrs, this guy friend with...

3. Casual sex business and friends with benefits?

Um, too fraught with emotional danger. Nope, I would avoid it.

I can tell you from very recent personal experience this can be very...

What does this mean? When you are having intimacy with someone and they tell you they are a sexual person?

Review the no contact rules. No text/email, delete contact. Kudos to him for being honest enough to tell you what's on his mind and where he's at. Heartbreaking, I know, when things are not going as...

Yeah, I thought about this before I read it. I should have set better ground rules, I broke my own rules by sleeping with him so soon after dating but had just split from a long term relationship, he...

Guys generally have a rule they don't go after their friends ex's. Girls should have one too. It depends on how good a friend she is. If they broke up because of lack of time together, then...

I think you are absolutely right, wrong pages & end the intamacy, should have posed the question sooner, but life is full of many lessons. Some harder than others. We'll see where friendship goes....

I've known him for number of years. I didn't set boundaries but neither did he. I don't blame him. He pursued me for months before anything happened. He's a player, simple as that. I'm all the wiser...

Not just someone, someTWO

Its good you had the talk though so that you could figure this out.

Personally, If I was seeing a guy and I found myself in your shoes (i.e. he is also sleeping with...

Been having an intimate relationship with this guy who initially the first month was aggressive with taking me out on dates, then it faded out to text messaging and having intimacy monthly, been 5...

When I get back I will call him and see if we can set up a dinner date. :)

He is away for the holidays and I will be going away right around new years, so we won't see each other for over 2 weeks I am text messaging, I'm initiating to show interest. He is responding to...

Hate is a very strong word. I think that as children we feel that way sometimes when our parents do things that we don't understand. Being a parent is not easy and sometimes we don't always come...

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Been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. Initially we were going out on dates-dinner, theatre, movies. Led to hanging out at his place, watching movies, chatting, hanging out....