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Here's what I can tell you. I have a best friend of over ten years.. which is like half my life at this point. He's a great friend. I don't think there is anything he wouldn't do for me. And vice...

How's this person's life going? Are they in a particularly bad place right now? Maybe he or she could use some encouragement in their own life right now. Friends (especially guys) measure themselves...

So, about two months ago I met the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, while traveling internationally for work. Approached her on a dare, and hit it off immediately. Given the nature of my visit,...

Lol, thanks. One yes is about all I needed. Also, sorry about the age thing. Guess I hadn't read the rules.

Okay, fine. Is it common? I'll settle for just one single instance of someone recalling that they or someone they knew had an experience like this.

So, it's pretty simple. I just want to know if it's at all normal for a guy to have a wet dream about jacking off. That is, in the dream itself, you find yourself rubbing one out (instead of having...

Okay, I need you guys to just trust me on this one. I've left out some details in my previous post, so I can't blame you for drawing some of your conclusions, but for now you'll just have to cut me...

Thanks for everything guys (and gals). Without getting into any details, I'm pretty good (pretty awesome actually) after breaking a few rules and risking a loss of sanity, a loss of peace of mind. ...

Thanks tal...

Frak I'm stupid. Hopefully I can handle this. I'll try not to dig myself too deep a hole.

So, I just broke NC a few seconds ago...

She sent me a txt about a hoodie of mine that she'd found and wondered if I wanted back. I told her to keep it and she responded with a big fat apology...

I'm not really sure how you can trust ANYONE with an ex. It's just too easy, too comfortable. Anytime something goes bad in your relationship, this guy will be all over it. You two really don't...

Just chill. Make a conscious effort not to fixate on him. To be honest, what you feel NOW is irrelevant. It's a natural phenomenon to have very strong feelings for someone you've just broken up...

This isn't easy, and isn't going to get much easier any time soon. You need to let her go. Period. Don't do it for her, don't do it in the hopes of getting back together. Do it for YOU. Whatever...

Suffocate her. Don't give her anything. No contact, no attention, no piss for fire. Let her drown in her own toxicity.

Dude, you got to let it go... What you had was nice while it lasted, but it's over, so let it be over. There was a thread here that talked a lot about letting go and moving on....

Leave him alone.

Actually, I did read the post. I refereed to her in the same sense that you did. It was pretty obvious you thought of her as a "child". And quite honestly, she's behaved that way.

And NO, I...

Your boyfriend is playing head games with you... which really isn't the worst thing ever. In reality the head games are merely a symptom of the real problem. It could be a number of things, but you...

This isn't a "men and women are different" thing, it's a "human beings are different" thing. It's partly the kind of person he is and the kind of person you are that makes the situation what it is,...

Is it possible you still feel guilt after all this time because you still have feelings for the guy?

First of all, in the future at least, you might want to lighten up a bit. Silly comments and Facebook fiascos should never be treated or handled in the same way we approach them in reality. ...

I think the biggest problem here is that you compromised and contradicted YOURSELF in order to be in a relationship with this girl. You went against your instincts and better nature...

Yea, we do. It's funny too, because I totally get what you're saying. I just don't feel that way, especially not about a phone. It would be different if I specifically told a s/o "I don't want you...

Trust is NOT CARING if your girlfriend goes through your phone. You didn't violate ANYTHING. Yet, that being said, it isn't healthy (the behavior AND the current state of the relationship). You...

Seriously, my heart nearly jumps out of my chest anytime I mistake the car in front of me or just on the same road as me to be my ex's. Uncontrollable breathing, shaky hands... even at times when I...

In general, if you have to ask, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with that person.

There really isn't anything else to say beside STOP IT. Put a sock in the guilt trip and focus on moving on. You can do it. You've done it before, just keep trying to stay on the right track.

This whole invasion of privacy issue is garbage. If you're honest and up front with your partner, why the heck would you care if he/she went through your stuff. If you have nothing to hide, then...

It doesn't sound like her parents know you well enough to give or withhold any kind of a blessing. Strive for mutual understand between yourself and her parents. Open communication. Everything...

Be very careful here. There's a reason things didn't quite work out in the past. Unless that reason's been resolved, you're headed for more misery.

And you should know, you can't do all the...

I appreciate the advice, but this "friend" is more like family to me. I can't explain why she's been acting this way, I figured she'd know better. Maybe she thinks I'm stronger/farther along than I...

Try to focus on the prospect of someone new.

So this same person, sends me a txt this morning. We went through some details about her upcoming wedding (in a few weeks), then (yet again) she mentions in passing some details about my ex. Very...

Thanks yet again for the encouragement. I know it probably doesn't seem like it, but I really am working on this. And I know I'll "get there", it's just that sometimes it's hard to remember how.

I can't believe I'm writing this on my cell but w/e. I swear I've been doing at least a little better than I was a couple days ago, yet it's not good enough. My best friend's girlfriend has a friend...

Not just some, but many people can keep infidelity a secret for a lifetime. Just look at how some people can stand and lie to your face even when they've been caught red handed. After having been...

So I'm not sure who wrote my last post. Whoever he is I'm probably unrecognizable to him now. Needless to say I'm not doing so well.

I feel so worthless.. inadequate.. I don't know what I'm...

So, it's finals week in this stupid accelerated semester. The past couple days, I've been too busy with school and work to find the space to work out.

Realization: No workout = Miserable...

Seriously, much thanks to everyone here. This place has been the biggest crutch I could ever ask for. It's ridiculous how therapeutic it has been to come here and seek advice and then turn around...

asking - Thanks a lot.

I've got great friends, and my family is amazingly supportive, only, I often put on a brave face for my family, and I'm pretty sure my friends are pretty sick of hearing me...

Okay, first, I'll tell you that if you bring it up and blatantly/openly make it an issue with her, you'll be fighting a VERY uphill battle. People here are going to tell you that you're being...

Can someone please remind me why I'm staying off her Facebook and out of her e-mail? I feel pretty good today, but I really, really, really want to know how everything is working out for her. It's...

Save yourself the trouble and start working towards moving on. By this I mean start working your mentality away from "second chances" or "winning her back" and bring it closer to "finding yourself...

Try not to get hung up on the why of it. I've only recently come to learn that sometimes the whys, and all the reasons/explanations/excuses for why she's dumping you have very little to do with how...

I'd say back off a bit. Let her go through w/e it is and if she wants to talk, let her be the one to bring it up.

Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. You might have to let this...

Was the "kid" yours?

There isn't really much to think about.



You said it yourself. There really isn't any reason to try to figure out what she's up to or what she's thinking or why she's thinking it or any of the...

I had typed a bunch of crap here about my night and how I'm feeling right now. But none of it (writing it down) was making feel any better.

Cliffnotes: Had a nice night that turned sour. Had a...

Geez, you're on a roll tal. GREAT advice. I've been keeping busy with work and class, but there's plenty of room to play around in my head during both. I've started my third cycle of P90X, I've...

Thanks.. I'll try not to dwell on them. "Get up and get on with my day." I think I can do that, that's good advice.

Every now and then (like today), on my way to class, I pass by her car parked...