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Thanks for the reply, I have read the stickies and I understand that I've made mistakes. I realize I can't keep living in the past and I can only move forward knowing what I've experienced and learn...

Well there was a reason I didn't want to merge these threads.. my ex reads them. I didn't even want to post here in the first place I just didn't know what else to do.

Yeah I guess I just have always talked to all of my exes. I don't hangout with any of them, but to be honest this girl was different for some reason.. just the way I felt about her and everything....

You know this may sound odd, but the first girl I really was in love with broke up with me and strung me along for a couple years.. torturing me. I never knew about NC and just kept trying to make it...

Well what I did was I wrote in an online journal to myself prior to a weekend a month ago.. like on a Wednesday. She had a bunch of stuff on her FB and in her away messages about going away to a...

Yes, that is what I have been doing. I workout every day now and it has helped tremedously.. I have had a couple dates but know in the back of my mind because I still think about her all the time I'm...

I read this entire thread, good to see that time and NC has really seemed to help.

Oh.. well maybe reading my posts it seemed confusing. TODAY has been exactly a month since we last spoke.. I have been on straight NC for exactly a month today. I honestly can't say I feel a whole...

This is the 2nd time I'll be going through this, the first time I did NC it literally took me 2 years to fully implement it with the girl I first fell in love with.. I'm finding it difficult this...

Yeah and that is my fear, I believe I'm at the point with her that she will most likely ignore me if I do that. She has a new guy in her life and I've most likely been written off in her mind.. I...

Well I sent her an e-mail the morning after stating that I felt horrible about what I said and I'd never contact her again.. if I try to apologize now I'll be breaking NC and most likely I'll just...

To make a longer story short, I dated this girl for roughly 3 months. She was 20.. I'm 24. She to me is still growing up and learning a lot.. she decided to break up with me mostly because of not...

Thanks for the reply, I'm not going to get into the firs girl as that is the past and I have most definitely learned from that experience. If you read my above post you will know where I'm at right...

I think this comment was right on the money, I read it and started to believe I made the wrong choice due to my situation. I've been talking with her a bit the past couple days, she had blocked me on...

Well for some time now I've thought about that whole drama subject, you would not imagine some of the story's I have regarding women and all the crazy stuff I've had happen when it comes to...

We actually have not argued that much, maybe I made that part sound worse then it was. We have hardly argued really. I really don't think I've been playing games with her, I told her I wanted to work...

Well.. last night I got a message from her, she more or less said that she loved me and that she didn't want to risk ruining something with the person that could possibly be 'the one' I told her I...

Well my thought was giving her a month of knowing I'm not there.. also her knowing I don't 'need' her and I'm not desperate. I actually took this suggestion from a pdf book I found online called 'the...

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So I'll do some explaining so this all makes sense and I get the best responses out of this topic. I happen...