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Sorry the filter on here made it sound different. I meant they were making fun of me for being a softy.

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I've put it a lot of time because I really feel a connection with this girl. Me and her have a lot in common. Even after getting crap from my guyfriends for being a "" with her...

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I've been talking to this chick for about 2 months. She lives a couple hours away from me. We talk almost every night and last weekend I went to see her around her town, and things...

I got past my fear today and asked her to go out on a date with me this week. She said yes, I'm going to try and take it slow and see how it progresses.

I know, but I really don't want to jump the gun and make her get cold feet.

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Met a girl who is friends with one of my good buddies a couple weekends ago. We became Facebook friends and then started to talk a lot. She got my number and she will randomly text...

I know big mistake by accepting the call. I'm not really upset at all today, I feel just like I did after a month of NC. I've come to realize that its not worth putting up with the constant yoyo, she...

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Backstory, my ex broke up with me about 3 or so months ago because basically I was becoming distant. There was truth to this but I was just really overwhelmed with other things in...

Its been 3 months since a pretty rough breakup. I'm tired of hoping she might want me back. I feel like I've been out of the game so long that I don't know how to approach women. Anyone got any tips,...

Yea I ignored it.

Lol she just drunk dialed me

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We dated 2 years. Its been about 3 months since she broke up with me. She drunk dialed me once and also called me on my birthday. I found out through a comment on FB that she...

Guys, I'm really melting right now. I was doing so good, but the fact that she hasn't called since 2.5 weeks I guess is really killing me. I had a dream last night with her in it. That's how bad my...

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Yea its just so annoying when women play these games with Men. Like if she really didn't give a crap about me she shouldn't have called me 2 weeks ago, and wouldn't have said that she wants to hang...

Well like I said its been 4 weeks since I haven't contacted her. I was the one who pushed her away. If I ever decided to try and get back with her, how would I approach that? Right now my mind is...

Well its been almost 4 weeks of me not contacting her. Last time she called me was 2 weeks ago. I was just wondering what this all could mean. Is it possible she's done trying to play this yoyo type...

Sorry if I wasn't clear. I'm not trying to play games with her. After 6 weeks of actively pursuing her to no avail, I feel like I should just try and move on. If she comes around, I'll deal with it...

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After almost 2 years my girlfriend wanted a break 8 weeks ago after I started to hang out with my friends more and more and started to neglect her a bit. We are both 21 years old....

So what do I do if she calls me. Ignore every time? Or answer and act all busy.

Honestly I feel so much better after doing this. I feel like I have a new lease on life.

Update, We spoke tonight and I finally said what I should have all along. I said "I'm sorry I can't wait anymore, I'm moving on." She immediately responded in a very weird upset tone, "I hope you...

I would like to know your thoughts on this. I honestly feel like if the dumpee acts the right way they in the long run have more power. The dumper will always expect the person to be waiting around...

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So today's the last day of classes, I called her yesterday and we agreed to meet in the afternoon. So I called her today at 2, no response. Called her at 5 and she...

I talked with a good female friend today. She convinced me to talk to her and basically lay it on the line. Tell her that I'm tired of being tugged along. If she wants to be together we are. If not,...

I go home in a week, we live 4 hours apart. I have a pretty nice internship in NYC. All of these things will hopefully help me get past all this.

Yup thanks for the advice, I'm done. I'm tired of playing these games. Time to move on.

Ok so we ate dinner last now, we are on speaking terms again, and we were having fun. Any suggestions on how to keep it rolling good? I don't want to screw this up.

Thanks for the advice, I'm not an angry guy ever unless I get blacked out. Either way there's a problem somewhere. It might be a drinking problem. As I stated before I've stopped drinking like that....

Not really sure how you say I haven't changed. I've lost weight since the relationship and become even more active than ever. People have really started to comment on how good I've been looking. I've...

Thanks for the responses thus far, keep them coming, it would help.

Well we go to a really small school, and everyday up to the breakup she was always sleeping at my place, and I pretty much knew what she was doing at all times. If they had hung out before our break,...

I understand that she has to forgive me for this to work. Its just really hard when there are girls telling her to punish me in the background. A lot of these girls are her sorority sisters who don't...

I would just like to point out that in the past 2 weeks the mind games have seemed to stop. Now she won't ever ignore me, and even contacts me. She also hasn't ditched out when I asked to hang out...

So we hung out the next two days after the breakup and she told me she loved me still but wanted me to learn what I had did to her. We said we didn't want to hook up with other people. Anyway, the...

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Hey everyone, this might be long, but its also very complicated, and it is one of the most important things that has happened in my life thus far.

I've been in 4 previous...