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You guys are right. Thanks for all of the advice. I've been feeling a lot better the past couple of days that we've been spending time apart. I was pretty down before, but I think now I'm able to get...

I did get the feeling it was a friends with benefits thing, and I didn't like it. We kept talking about how we are 'friends', and now we haven't been spending much time together, but we have been...

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We had been hanging out 2-4 times a week, but now she says we should only hang out like once a week and she thinks things are getting too intense between us and she...

I have to agree. The best thing to do right now is to wait it out until she contacts you. It's probably not a good idea to go out of your way to contact her if you're still thinking about her like...

Ok, I missed most of what you said after I signed off earlier, but from what I've read, this girl sounds like bad news. I know girls like this, and I'm dealing with a pretty harsh break up right now,...

That sounds like she wants your friendship. If this must continue, it seems like you're going to have to deal with being her friend. If you care about her and want her to be happy you should respect...

I get what your saying. Well if you think things are going to work now because the situation is different, then show her that. Show her that things are going to work out and be better. Take things...

I meant relationship in general, like your connection with her.
If she doesn't want to date then you have to accept that. You can't force or control any part of her life.
It's just a lot of...

Maybe some time apart could have helped deal with the break up emotionally. What would be different if you guys got back together?
What was the problem before? If you miss her and you two think...

She's confused about something in her life. You can't expect her to be able to maintain a healthy relationship if she is unable to get a grip of reality and take control of her own life. As long as...

If she is being honest when she says she's not going for other guys, then what would it hurt to back off for a bit?
I know it's hard, and I have experience with girls like that, but I've learned...

Why do you think you shouldn't have feelings for him?
Don't let the stress of societal pressure tell you what is right or wrong about your love life.
Anyway. If you want to stay friends and stay in...

If he's not putting any effort or passion into your relationship don't you think its dull or maybe not worth it?
There doesn't seem to be any communication or connection going on here so it sounds...

Put yourself out there. It definitely seems like you guys have something and it's going at a healthy pace, but don't be afraid to take some risks! She might be waiting for you to make the first move,...

She might, but it is in your best interest not to invade in their relationship. Unless she and her boyfriend break up, you have no way of knowing if she cares about you over her boyfriend.
She might...

If you really want to be with her, the best you can do in this situation is let her deal with her personal problems on her own.
By stay away, and giving her space, I mean just chill out on the...

I guess it depends, because I have seen some dogs that like to lick themselves, paws, legs, etc. If your dog has long or loose hair then he might have swallowed some of his hair if it was licking its...

If he doesn't talk to people a lot, and he doesn't talk to you a lot, trying to change that would be like trying to change his personality. Unless he experiences some kind of personality disorder...

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What does it mean when a girl tells you she needs some space?
My girl has been dealing with some family issues and was upset last night, telling me 'she can't do this' (Date)....

Whoa that's a handful.
Anyway, I speak from experience because I had a girlfriend just last year that had a really controlling mother and caused us to break it off. It was on and off, just like your...

Hmm... Do you have any idea why they are aiming a camera into your yard? Have you tried talking to your neighbors about it? The whole thing seems like an invasion of privacy and might hold water in...

You should not feel weird about how you feel about your ex getting married. Its obvious that you really cared for him once and some of those feelings are just resurfacing now that you know your ex...

The colder a substance gets, the less the molecules move until they reach absolute zero, which causes the complete halt in motion of molecules. The more molecules move, the more energy is being...

I think if he is really expressing his feelings like this, he must really believe that this is true, and it might seem weird but from experience, it could be that he keeps saying it and expressing...

It depends on how much effort you want to put into this. If you don't have acces to machines you can;
Jog daily, it helps to burn fat that's built up around your muscles and can tone out your abs...

I occasionally get migraines as well. One thing I've found out is that natural sleep helps prevent them. Try going to bed earlier and waking up earlier, sometime pulling all nighters and forcing an...

It sounds like he is maybe stressed out or experiencing post traumatic effects from his past during intercourse. I read up the other day about something called sexual performance anxiety. Apparently,...

Well, it kind of depends where you live and who you are around on a daily basis. Some people just have weaker immune systems than others. If you live in a place that has a colder climate try dressing...

Thanks for all the advice. It's just a little messed up, but this is the second time we've been together and broken it off like this, I don't know I guess its just not meant to be.

Thanksfor the tip, I don't know, she's kind of dramatic and we've had a complicated relationship for the longest time. I'm crazy about her and I talked to her ex this morning because he's a good...

From the sounds of it, it definitely seems like she is using you. While there may be some truth in what she's says about 'needing' you and wanting not to 'lose' you, it's most likely not in the way...

Ok, I've been 'dating' this girl for about a week and a half but I've known her for over 3 years now. Things were going great until last night when she told me that she doesn't think she can be with...