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Thanks Ash123... I appreciate that. The problem I also have is the courts are more or less granting her move to be with her new BF... Im scared to death of what would happen to my son. My legal...

Thanks so much everyone. This has helped.

I'm after opinions from everyone... what's yours?

I see that point and asked her the same... she keeps saying she is but hasn't LOL... so I know where you are coming from... seems all deceit and lies to me...

I see your point RJS... as always there are two sides to a coin in everything... its a double edged sword so to speak...

I slept with her because I obviously still love her... and believed her.

She isn't drunk all the time when this happens. Far from it. So she either has feelings for me and says she is confused...

I think that a lot RJS... but where would that get me? That would surely just push her further over the edge with her drinking? They tend to use stuff like that as an excuse to do so. Plus Ive hurt...

You know Ive tried speaking to her mom but her mom just "brushes it to one side". I'm pretty much alone on this. She swears she isn't lying or being manipulative. But she is. I know it despite her...

Thanks. I'm pretty sure she's playing me to a degree. That's why I've cut her off for good. She can't have two and I won't allow it. Besides, she needs to get help for her depression and drinking....

Oh forgot to mention Ive not been that manly by allowing this to happen I know... I had a choice... but emotionally I was sucked in and logic, and admit it we all been there at some point, went out...

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Last week I told her its over. To leave me alone and only contact me about our son. She can't have her cake and eat it, though she says it isn't like that and...

Thanks. She will hopefully now leave me alone and I will have the strength I had before to move on and concentrate on my son. But its hard when she rings up sobbing and threatening to jump out...

Oh forgot... no she isn't always drunk when the sleeping together happened... But she spurts out most things when she is a bit drunk... don't they say a drunken man/woman speaks the truth?

Thanks for the insight everyone.

Okay I must admit I myself have feelings for her. We've been off and on for 7 years. I left her alone when she said she had this new guy and she would ring me and...

Okay here's the deal. My ex and I had a relationship for 4 and a half years. We parted because she was very insecure with drinking issues. A former girlfriend of mine contacted her and made out I was...