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She got into a car accident tonight, totaled her car, and possibly hurt her neck.

I know it's ridiculous for me to blame myself for this, but she wouldn't have been where she was if not for me...

About to go tell her... wish me luck.

Edit: That went about as well as one could hope. I feel like an , but I think it was for the best.

Thanks for the advice, you two.

She stayed over the past two nights and spending that much more time together has really confirmed my feelings.

I think I didn't want to discard the idea of...

Two weeks ago, I met a girl whom I had known online for several years; we had never gotten around to spending time together before although we live about twenty minutes away from each other. We had a...

You won't be doing yourself any good by letting him continue to string you along like this. Don't cling to false hope, and instead cut off all contact with him and begin to move on.

Don't.

I understand you're apprehensive because of the behavior of your ex... but this girl isn't your ex. Now, if she starts demanding lavish gifts after you disclose your income precisely, show her the...

Tell her?

I understand refraining as a guideline of being polite (or, in some cases, out of embarrassment), but if she asks, what possible problem is there from telling her?

Aside from the fact that you're involved with a married man... if he wants to discuss it, suggest a netbook. Laptops aren't as expensive as they once were, and you can get a small, portable one with...

Yeah - why would you be engaged for three years? Get hitched already.

The purpose of No Contact is to get over your ex and move on with your life. It isn't to get back together with them. It sounds like he's employing it better than you are.

To placate you.

I second amicon's sentiment. You sound like a great person and are approaching him in absolutely the right way. Agreed that you should go with the flow.

So, they don't think your friends of any age are acceptable to hang out with? Not sure what they expect you to do. Once you're 18, spend time with anyone you see fit.

Have you told your parents that all of your friends your own age do is get drunk? That should be enough to convince them.

While there's some sound reasons for associating with people your own age...

Like everyone said, don't give up on a job search. Don't afraid to be underemployed - working at McDonald's is worlds better than being unemployed. A steady income will provide self-sufficiency and...

It just seems like you got too attached without having the courage to directly tell her you were interested in her. Very dramatic overreaction of not being able to hang out with a friend all the...

You don't know if a girl's the girl of your dreams if you aren't seeing her. She's not single, so stop pining after her.

It'd be best to go no contact. You won't move on if you don't, and if you don't move on, the possibility of meeting someone which you intelligently are breaking up for in the first place will be all...

Thanks for this. Four months since it ended and I'm still trying to find things to do

Absolutely I am glad I'm not part of that mess anymore. I'm so much better off - financially, academically, emotionally, socially. I'm glad I've been able to make her part of my past. Thanks for...

Heard something recently that prompted me to post an update. My ex was kicked out of school for failing all of her courses after having been on academic probation for failing all but one the...

Sounds pretty formal. I think it depends entirely on what he's like and how he talks. You could just ask him.

She probably said she forgave you simply because she's desperate and doesn't want to lose her boyfriend. She WON'T be forgetting it, but you need to forget him and move on.

I'm guessing you can get by without the extra income?

Is he uncomfortable with you making more, or does he just feel useless from not having a license and is trying to make up for it as much as...

Sounds like she just needed a shoulder to cry on.

Why would you want to be with someone that would leave their boyfriend for you? What happens when she gets tired of you?

He's desperate, and it's not your responsibility to get him to move on. Don't pick up when he calls, read his emails, etc. You can help him by helping yourself and initiating no contact.

Kind of an important question, in my opinion - how is he doing in college? Working a minimum wage job and devoting most time to recreation in college seems pretty normal and acceptable so long as...

I don't think it's fair that you're being asked to leave YOUR kids with your in-laws and your husband's ex-wife. That's bull.

I don't see why she has to be at family functions. Why continue the...

While the healthiness of making someone you're with your whole world can be questioned, it's obvious he hasn't returned the feelings of devotion. Suspicion and distrust can eat away at your sanity,...

Wow, that's REALLY stretching. The only way you can get through problems is by talking about it. Make it clear to him that he needs to grow up and stop the silent treatment.

Definitely not a unique situation. It's not going to be possible to be friends when you're still hoping to be with her. She's seeing someone else now, so why still cling to something that's not...

Not contacting you for three days when in a relationship does not make a difference between cultures - that is rude. If he is busy, that is one thing, but sending a text message just takes a few...

Been in a situation where we only had sex once every 2 or 3 months, it's a painful situation to be in. Like everyone else said, talk to him about it and try to get to the bottom of it.

Just wanted to comment that it's good of you to talk it out! Coming from a guy with a sometimes bad memory, I'm jealous that his actions didn't immediately prompt the silent treatment. Try not to...

Wow, I'm surprised so many people have problems with this. So, she isn't conventional... she wants a relationship based on equality and not submission. How is that bad? It's okay to have certain...

All of her actions so far show that she doesn't want it to be. I say stop rationalizing with excuses to still meet her and cut off all ties.

You haven't even met the girl. She didn't think you were worth waiting for. Why still meet her?

Coming from another 22-year old computer geek that doesn't drink or smoke and recently got out of a three year relationship where he made his ex his entire life: NC is the way to go. While it's...

Just check her profile?

In case you're curious how your boyfriend might feel after all of this, I invite you to read about what happened to me several months ago, when a girl I was with for three years decided on a break to...

Currently, he's only putting himself at risk by breaking the law. Once you move in together, he'll be putting you at risk.

I agree with mudweiser - you have different morals. I'm extremely...

All I needed to see. Leave him immediately.

Good way to have her stop giving you signs is by going NC.

You keep talking about how you think she's leaving you to see someone else. Why would you want someone back after that?

You know four...

Yeah, the rhyming seems structured in a bad way. Just my opinion - good of you to write it though! I'm sure she'll like it.

On social networking sites, when someone uploads a photo, you can tag people in it. In doing so, when you're on their profile and you go to view their pictures, anything they are tagged in will show...

Walk. You're screwing over your friend and nothing good will come from it.

It doesn't mean you didn't love him, it means that you're progressing in healing. The fact that you were upset to see him and missed him does show that you cared about him.

Good job refraining...

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