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He said he wanted to kiss me, to me that means something else. He seems to have forgotten that he is engaged.

He hasn't said he wants a relationship with me, he is just talking about our...

Thank you for your quick replys. Im trying not to let this bother me but it is. I just feel like I'm stuck in a rut with this situation. I still have feelings for him and it is bothering me that he...

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The ex has got back in touch with me, this is the second time he has been in contact with me. The first time was a couple of months ago apologising for his bad behaviour.. he...

Nazia its Allahs will that you two are not together. Do a dua for the Al rahman Al rahmeen to help you find you marriage partner. You won't die without him, life goes on.

My advice is get rid of the loser and cut contact with him. Sorry to be harsh but he is messing with your head.

My advice is don't do anything. She is off limits.

I also know how you feel. I think its normal to feel this way once you have been betrayed by a love one.

My ex did the same, left me and now he is with another women. Oh well. Like I said on my...

You have had many down falls, you are bound to feel down. Break ups are hard, failing is also hard to deal with. Its only normal that you feel this way. Give yourself a break, you have been through...

The main purpose of NC is to protect yourself, by removing the object (the ex) out of your life. Its to help you heal. And also give yourself a break to see how you feel.

I think a lot of people...

There is no time limit to getting over someone. I'm the same as you are now and its been 7months. I know exactly how you feel and its horrible. But we have to keep our heads up and keep moving on.

I defiantly don't think he will come back if your drinking and losing control. I'm sorry for your loss, I really am but you need to be strong for yourself and your children. The more quicker you...

Well I think you should tell your parents. Also there are millions of people who have thought they had found the "one" and it hasn't been true. 3 months is not a long time. Personally I think you...

Walaikum salam.

Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH), said: "Those who draw pictures will be punished on the Day of Resurrection; and it will be said to...

I agree with the above. I think one of the main points of moving on is acceptances. You sound like your still in denial over the break up. I think you need to realise that not everyone always feels...

Maybe you should try and sort out the mess. Such as what religion your children will be etc. if you would conver etc. then maybe once this is done the parents might understand more. If all this...

Please just ignore this immature behaviour. I am a people watcher. I analyse people and their actions and behviour. Sometimes I have to force myself to stop staring! Because other wise I would get...

I personally don't think this is such a bad situation. Does anyone actully realise that she agreed to go to your room, and when she didn't you phoned her to see where she was. BECAUSE SHE AGREED?? ...

Okay people its been a while since I last asked for your advice. I would like to say thanks to everyone for helping me in my time of need! Hopefully this will be my last question on this topic.
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Does it matter how he feels? Sounds to me like you are forgetting an important factor which is that you are married and you have a child.

You need to think about this logically, use your brain...

Yes its your brother-in-law

Relationship break ups are hard, it's a time when you lose yourself, your emotions are like a roller coaster and something has changed in your life.

The only advice that I can give is that you...

Cut contact with the girl, this means no phone calls, no I love yous and no quick hello's. I guarantee you will start to feel better once you cut the contact

Death is not a soulition to your troubles. Yes your heart hurts and your in pain but eventully it will get better. Look on this forum and you will see many people in similar situations and they do...

Salam! I have found this information for you

Tahajjud may be performed in the early part of the night, the middle part of the night, or the latter part of the night, but after the obligatory...

Sounds to me like she is using your love for her sexual benefits. I think you need to think long and hard and see if this is what you really want.

I think the more in contact you are with your ex the more you will feel for her. I think you need to find another support post as the one you got now is not helping you with our emotional feelings.

kctigers right. Cutting the contact will help you heal and you won't be giving yourself false hope because of her actions.

I don't think she acted immature, she is doing exactly what you want. She's giving you space because you cannot be friends with her yet. She is doing you a favour by cutting the contact.

I don't...

Maybe explore other religions. This might help you find your path.

I would be careful, definitely keep him at a distance you don't want to ruin your progress.

Glad your doing OK, I'm fine :).
Sometimes we need to do things even if it hurts us, for the best. I Hate the ups and downs of a break up. It's a pain. But the main thing is that You have...

Abit of topic I know, how you feeling today lovestoned?

It sounds to me like he is using you to some extent. No one should have to ask a partner for love, it should just come nautrally.

You need to ask yourself if this is what you want in a...

I think revenge on an ex is no good, I think KC is right. The best revenge is happiness with oneself and moving on to a bigger and brighter future.

I was responding to lovestoned :)

That rejection will fade, just because on man doesn't want you doesn't mean they all dont- as your new friend has proven, you are still wanted. I had to spread the rep piran is right.

Sounds like...

I think it's a good thing that you have lost hope to get back with your ex, as this means you can fully move on.

The memories are still fresh in your mind, the break up has effected you...

I think this is a case of wanting something that you cannot have. I also think its time to focus on your child and what is best for the both of you.

Your ex has given you his answer he does not...

Your still healing, maybe its just taking longer than you thought. Maybe speaking to him 3months ago was your final closure andt this is why you are still hurting because it was the time to finally...

I agree with tal, the whole sex bribe thing is weired. The relationship sounds bad, is it on, is it off? My advice is leave this girl alone and find someone who is equal to you in a relationship.

I think you should walk away from this. It is a mess. I think you should realise that true love does not consist of break ups, sleeping with other etc.

Sometimes people just realise that NC is for the best. At one point she was more that a friend to you, she needs to move on from that. Maybe she is doing NC for you to move on.

Sometimes those...

Its bugging you so much because he lied to you. Honesty is important in a relationship, and its shook you up because you have discovered that he didn't tell the truth

It means she is saying hi. Stop thinking that everything has a hidden meaning behind it. She could just be wondering how you are. From the sounds of your relationship it was on, off, on off, surely...

Must say I agree with KCtiger let the past be the past

I bet it hard him being in the same school as you. Its good that you don't talk to him anymore as this would only hurt you more. Don't worry one day you will be completely healed and all these...

Ignore her if she does contact you, it will only prolong your healing.

You have some options on how you act when you see her.

1# Act normal, and make conversation (warning this may hurt to...

I always think you should respect your parents words, however you need to think about yourself aswel. Has your boyfriend met your parents? If not introduce him to them.

Have you spoken to his...

Its good that your keeping busy, the more stuff to do the better.

Remember there are downs before ups, and things can only get better.Everything happens for a reason.

If you feel bad come on...

Well I think if you cut contact you will slowly heal and you will realise that you deserve better than being the back up girl.

Use NC time wisely and look at the realationship, use this time to...