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    That's so sad to hear. I take it you have split...

    That's so sad to hear. I take it you have split up from your partner?

    There are many reasons like low self esteem, insecure, thrill of the chase, boredom, sex life at home is bad, relationship is...
  2. Set a limit on your computer usage say a couple...

    Set a limit on your computer usage say a couple hours a day. Then join up to a sports team, that tackles two problems at once. Not only will you get fitter, you will be out there meeting new friends....
  3. Im only friends with 2 ex's and both those...

    Im only friends with 2 ex's and both those friendships arose after a few years of not speaking and they're only casual friends.
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    I was wondering why after 9 years would someone...

    I was wondering why after 9 years would someone just leave like that for what seems to me none issues or issues that couldn't be worked out.
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    Does she have someone else?

    Does she have someone else?
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    So another update this whole thing is driving me...

    So another update this whole thing is driving me crazy!!

    I had 2 weeks of relative silence just two notes through the post. But this past week has been a nightmare, its starting up again. I've...
  7. I have only dated someone I didn't find very...

    I have only dated someone I didn't find very attractive once and to be honest it was the best relationship I've ever had.

    My situation was similar to yours we had the best time together and we...
  8. You could take a chaperone on your dates, For...

    You could take a chaperone on your dates, For your interests as I'm from brum too, I'll come along and supervise and all it will cost is my drinks all night lol.

    Just play it cool and as its been...
  9. How old is she? She around the same age?

    How old is she? She around the same age?
  10. Great topic. I am on the other side of this where...

    Great topic. I am on the other side of this where my ex won't leave me alone.

    I categorically told her I never want to speak to her again and after a few months of her stalking me I finally said...
  11. So you didn't open the bags? So you are not...

    So you didn't open the bags? So you are not definite it was your stuff? To me I would think it was odd but my first thought wouldn't be was it an ex returning gifts. I would question if you are truly...
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    I don't think people take it as serious when it's...

    I don't think people take it as serious when it's a female stalking a male, especially as she is small and quite attractive and I'm quite big and train and box etc. Someone even said to me I wouldn't...
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    It's still going on. I deleted my Facebook,...

    It's still going on.

    I deleted my Facebook, changed my mobile phone number and set all her emails to spam and I only check that email once a week to keep it active so she can't steal the account...
  14. You could ask her of course she will deny...

    You could ask her of course she will deny everything and then you either end it with her or stay with her But you will always be wondering if what she told you was the truth. For me that would be...
  15. Make up a fake email and name etc reply to the...

    Make up a fake email and name etc reply to the add, offer a lot of money and see if she comes to meet you? Can't catch her more red handed then that
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    Exactly, why buy the cow when the milk is free

    Exactly, why buy the cow when the milk is free
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    I have done the whole dating a married person...

    I have done the whole dating a married person thing and it NEVER ends well. At the minute you are falling for his words if he truly wanted to be with he would be, he's making excuses as to why he...
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    Sounds like classic anxiety and stress symptoms...

    Sounds like classic anxiety and stress symptoms trust me I'm a sufferer and they're pretty common symptoms
  19. I guess if it took a lot of work to date you they...

    I guess if it took a lot of work to date you they may work harder at the relationship due to the amount of time and effort they put in just to get started. The old saying treat them mean keep them...
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    Do not reply to that text you will only regret...

    Do not reply to that text you will only regret it. You've had your closure she moved on, maybe its not working with her new bloke and she's testing the waters to see if she could come back or she is...
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    I have. She said she understand she's to blame...

    I have. She said she understand she's to blame and is sorry and she understands everything but asked if I would not change my number and reply to her so she knows I am safe and well (am going through...
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    I think that is why she does it, so she can still...

    I think that is why she does it, so she can still have some sort of control over me however small. If I get a text asking if I'll meet her and don't reply I receive about 5/6 texts an hour saying all...
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    I don't know if, it would push her over the edge...

    I don't know if, it would push her over the edge or even make her worse

    Do you think she will eventually just stop?
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    We had an affair for about 5/6 months she left...

    We had an affair for about 5/6 months she left her husband (she says for me) but I had found out there were other men she was having affairs with at the same time, so I ended it.
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    Ex is stalking me

    I had finished a relationship a few weeks ago and my ex took it pretty bad and threatened to kill herself (she has a history of depression).

    I ignored her texts and calls, there were up to 20 a...
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    I actually contacted my ex out of the blue last...

    I actually contacted my ex out of the blue last week, I had not seen or heard from her since we split up 3 years ago but she added a mutual fried on Facebook and I decided to see how she was doing.
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    To be honest the girl was upfront with you about...

    To be honest the girl was upfront with you about only wanting to be friends and by the sounds of it she never lead you on. As for taking advantage of you I guess friends will always be a little...
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    You can't help if you like someone else. It...

    You can't help if you like someone else. It depends if you indulge yourself though by sending extra emails and texts or find excuses to spend extra time with and neglect your partner, then that could...
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    Not true all the time. My I accused my ex of...

    Not true all the time. My I accused my ex of cheating (which she was) and I had not cheated on her!

    He sounds like a controlling, manipulative and insecure guy. The less you have to do with this...
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    How long since you guys split? I've been treated...

    How long since you guys split? I've been treated so bad but still I replied to a few texts from my ex today. So I know how you're feeling its hard but you got to realise in the end it is best for you
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    I must be a real glutton for punishment because I...

    I must be a real glutton for punishment because I fell for all her words again, she left her bloke took off her rings came round mine yesterday and said we were meant to be together we spent all day...
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    kctiger always telling it how it is lol cheers....

    kctiger always telling it how it is lol cheers. Yeah good riddence to bad rubbish just doesn't feel that way yet, I'm liking the toilet idea haha
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    So I left her told her its completely over and...

    So I left her told her its completely over and she's already seeing someone else less then a week of complete no contact lol how stupid I feel now. I guess the adage once a cheat always a cheat. I...
  34. I remember being that age and lying about losing...

    I remember being that age and lying about losing my virginity and bragging to my mates just to fit in. A few years down the line turns out nearly all of us lied about it. As you get older you realise...
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    Thanks guys. Cheers talaniman, sound advice as...

    Thanks guys. Cheers talaniman, sound advice as always.

    To her it sounds as though now I can have her I don't want her. To me its I wanted you so much and couldn't have you what changed? I don't...
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    Limbo

    Limbo
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    No one can help you here I'm afraid, there are...

    No one can help you here I'm afraid, there are many reasons she may have gone off sex, stress, overworked, feeling under appreciated,she may not find you attractive anymore or feels unattractive...
  38. This all boils down to: Can you handle a girl...

    This all boils down to: Can you handle a girl like her? Plenty of people get jealous and insecure sometimes but the thing with having your relationship progress so quickly you haven't allowed a lot...
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    Update on my 'relationship'

    I know its been a while but an here's an update.

    This was my original post

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/involved-married-woman-290917.html#post1422305


    Sorry for the long...
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    You are being used. Hes having his cake and...

    You are being used. Hes having his cake and eating it. Why don't you smarten up and move on on your own terms, rather then waiting for him to finish it? I know its hard, I've been in that position...
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    A fancy letter won't impress her. But a letter...

    A fancy letter won't impress her. But a letter written by you, from your heart? Well that might just work ;)

    Good luck
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    I do not see the big deal with someone...

    I do not see the big deal with someone masturbating, its perfectly healthy. Just tell him he woke you up and you would prefer if he went to the bathroom in future. Maybe if you both talked more you...
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    End it, ending my relationship with a married...

    End it, ending my relationship with a married woman was best thing I did. No more sneaking about, no more waiting for a few hours a week for just a chance to see them. No more feeling like you're...
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    So you dumped him, slagged him off didn't speak...

    So you dumped him, slagged him off didn't speak to him for 3 months, changed your number and you expect him to come running back? Wow. I wish the best for him and hope he's moved on and hope you...
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    I know it is, I'm going through the same thing...

    I know it is, I'm going through the same thing I'm getting texts off her telling me she loves me and misses me and begging me please to change my mind its so hard but you got to stay strong knowing...
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    I just finished with a married woman and I know...

    I just finished with a married woman and I know its hard but in the end it is for the best. You have to think about your own happiness first and foremost. It will be hard but just keep reminding...
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    In that case no harm in asking. If she says yes...

    In that case no harm in asking. If she says yes then bonus if not you can stay mates and continue as you are. I waqs in a similar situation when younger and it she told my mate she weren't interested...
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    If it were me I'd give her some space in them 3...

    If it were me I'd give her some space in them 3 weeks she's away, give her a chance to miss you and feel what it would be like if you weren't together. Then she can be better prepared to make her...
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    Ask her for yourself, she may have just felt...

    Ask her for yourself, she may have just felt awkward speaking to your friend about it. But if you do ask her how she feels be prepared for her to say the same to you as she did your friend. It may...
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    Why would you want to stick around? She's a...

    Why would you want to stick around? She's a serial liar and cheat. Just get rid and move on find someone who is honest and who deserves your time.
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