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Wow, your situation is like identical to what had happened to me 2 months ago. Only difference was she did it over a text message and she never told me her real motive. I found that out when she had...

-re: Seriously. Am I going crazy?

I've never been in a situation like this, but I think my advice is still applicable to you. Your relationship started with a lie and usually that will result to...

The fact that you feel the need to hide this from your significant other, shows just how guilty you feel about all this. You are not focused on your current boyfriend for companionship and using...

You've loved X for 3 years then you abandoned him because you wanted change (I sure hope there was a lot of communication during this time). Now you see that he's happy again and you can't stand it....

And if you are going to set yourself up for failure anyway, don't drag your current boyfriend down with you. He does not deserve this- no one deserves this. If you don't have the power to endure...

Hey KC, so I was talking to my friend today and he wanted to set me up with his ex(kinda weird). I know my situation is different from yours but, the point I'm trying to convey is still applicable....

Hey sorry guys, I guess I forgot to update as to what had happened. I actually took care of the bank and phone accounts 3 weeks ago. I sent her this email:

Hey X,

I called Telus again and...

You tried to test him by going on a break? Love is not a game. You take responsibility for your actions and feelings. What ever happened to communication? Like Tal said, you owe him an explanation...

First off, can you explain what your doing? Are you trying to rekindle the flame? Why did you break up in the first place? Sounds to me like she's also confused and is dragging you along for a ride.

I'm just venting right now. I'm going to post a conversation that took place with my friend. Hopefully in a couple months, I'll look back on this and laugh.

Yeah '1', it just sucks because I was...

You said it yourself, you are not ready to jump into another relationship and you got that right. It's unhealthy for you, unfair to the rebound, and disrespectful to the ex. Like Altenweg and...

1. There is no such thing as meant to be, the one, true love, or soul mates. There is only the love that you work hard for with your significant other. That in itself, is real love.

2. Love does...

Hey that would be pretty cool. If what I said could help just one couple save their relationship, it would have been all worth it. How do I initiate this process?

YOU have NOTHING to gain from contact. That's pretty obvious from what you have typed out so far. Now that you know this, I really hope you will stick with no contact. Best of luck buddy, we're here...

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1. There is no such thing as meant to be, the one, true love, or soul mates. There is only the love that you work hard for with your significant other. That in itself, is real love.

2. Love does...

Make sure you cut off all ties between you two and don't stay friends. You'll be able to heal a lot quicker this way. Keep conversations professional since NC is almost impossible with work. I'm...

Perhaps you should try not to be so selfish. It's never been fair to Victor because you are obviously not over your ex. It's also unfair to James if you popped back into his life especially now that...

I guess it comes down to whether you love cigarettes more or love your girlfriend more. Is this really that hard of a choice? Think of all the money you'll save.^^

How long do you honestly believe your marriage will last if you marry into a lie? You need to talk to your fiancé NOW. Without communication, your relationship will surely crumble. Thereafter, you...

Dude, she's with another guy right now. It's time to let go not for her, but for yourself. You sound like a stand up guy and you honestly don't deserve this kind of BS. Unless you intend to stay in...

Leave now because he's going to do it again if you forgive him, unless you like this pain... If you can't stop loving him even after this, then do your best to accept it. Only then will you be able...

Emotional infidelity on his part and lack of trust on yours. Unfortunately, your instincts were accurate. If this is still not enough for you to leave him, then let him know you read the emails. Be...

You live with the actions you make, and you accept the consequences. Nobody forced you to cheat, this was your decision no matter how you look at it. A relationship built on lies and deceit will...

Deb you sound like your doing a lot better. We're all here for you!

Don't we all wish there was a quick fix for this? The answer your looking for, is time. It's not definitive, as it does vary from person to person. Your doing great what your doing now, you just need...

You live and learn from the decisions you make. He did not ask for his dreams to be shattered and his heart to be trampled, you put him through that. Don't play games with his heart thinking he...

So I was calling my cell phone company to cancel our couples plan and they told me I owe them over $300 for the month of Nov to mid Dec. I was like , that's triple the amount I usually pay each month...

So what does that mean? Should I contact her asap and talk about how to deal with our bank and phone accounts but avoid telling her how I feel? I feel like the bonds are not cut yet. I kind of forgot...

So we still have a joint bank account right now and we are still on a couples mobile plan that I'm paying for. After the text breakup, she said she would contact me the next week to deal with this....

I don't know. She spent the night with some guy she had known for 3 weeks on what should have been our 3rd year anniversary just 12 hours after she officially broke up with me over a text message. If...

So my ex, who initiated a break 21 days ago then broke it off 2 weeks afterwards, became really religious all of a sudden. She goes to church all the time, quotes all these bible verses, and always...

The past is just that, the past. Not much you can do but accept it. You can let it linger in your head or you can accept reality. Just remember that your boyfriend is with you now because he loves...

Have you communicated your feelings with him? Make sure he knows how you feel and don't hide it from him. If his flirting makes you uncomfortable, he needs to know.

If you were with someone else right now you loved, would you really still care who your boyfriend was with? Probably not because your void would have been filled by someone else. You chose not to...

Did you communicate with him? Did you tell him the things that were bothering you in this relationship? Did you just dump him all of a sudden then tell him why without giving him a single chance?...

But I am a nice guy, I'm not just acting friendly lol. I actually didn't think too much of the text, just kind of surprised me as she sent it at 2:13 am. I did, however, have dreams of getting back...

So my ex who broke up with me 13 days ago just sent me a text: "Merry Christmas!!"
I wasn't going to send her a text because everyone here told me not to, but I felt rude to not respond to that so I...

Dear X,
I hope you had a great time at the midnight mass, and that everything is going well for you. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas. :)

-thatguy2

Honestly, even if she didn't respond in a way that shows she cares or didn't respond at all, I think I would be OK with it. She spent the night with that guy on our 3rd year anniversary and that gave...

But she's always been so good to me, it was a mutual thing which is what made this break up such a shock. It came out of no where. I understand she needs time to think and do her own thing, but if I...

So it's been 21 days since she initiated a break and 11 days since she officially broke up with me. She texted me and said she would contact me last week to straighten out the bank account and phone...

No they are not dating, they are "just really good friends". They talk on the phone and spend time with each other all the time. She even spent the night at his place 12 hours after the breakup on...

Ya I didn't think it would be as bad today but it didn't get any better. I spent the morning working then the rest of the day with my friends. All I could think about was what the ex and this new...

Hey this sounds similar to my situation except mine was 3 years and like just happened yesterday. Check out my questions if you want similar advice. I totally know how you feel man. It's a bit...

Ya I thought she wanted to be alone too to think and do her own thing, but apparently she wants to be alone with this guy and spend time with him instead. She was so busy these past months to spend...

Ya so this new guy that started work a month ago kept on flirting and asking out my ex even when he knew we were going out. She told me about it and how irritating he was, and I really felt like a...

Ya so this new guy that started work a month ago kept on flirting and asking out my ex even when he knew we were going out. She told me about it and how irritating he was, and I really felt like a...

I'm always going to love her, but I'm doing everything I can to not be IN love with her anymore. I have been going out, working out everyday, going out to events (even if we were both invited, man...

So, today is suppose to be the 3rd year anniversary. She texted me last night saying:

Hey! Sorry I got your message last night but I didn't have time to reply you! Anyway, I don't think we need...