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I know exactly what you are going through. My Ex was like that, in fact everuything you mentioned he was like that. What I did was stop doing what he wanted me to do until he did the things that I...

Yes, always good to have evidence, before you go confronting, and assuming the worst. You will REALLY loose him like that, for he will think that you don't trust him.

Thanks so much Smoothy, you're awesome. I learned so much from your posts. Any more suggestions from you all will be great.

Well wasn't really spying, I wouldn't call it that, I was telling the person to basically make sure that there is evidence before you jump to conclusions and confront him. Sorry if it came off like...

Check the computer to see if he is seeing someone online, check his emails and IMs.

Thanks for that I will talk to him when he gets here. I don't know, he seems so shy about talking about it. When I first met him, he was telling me that he did try it before, and then later on he...

Why did you all get married without sorting all of that out first? That will cause a big stain to your marriage life. I suggest that you all go through counseling so that you all can effectively work...

I don't mean to sound dumb but how do I go about that? He is not the most open person in the world when it comes to sex. But he will be coming to see me sometime in December, I guess that is better...

All right, thanks Smoothy for your insite. I am starting to think it might be cultural. Or his upbringing. Maybe he wants to do it, but maybe be wondering if he really should let loose. Interesting,...

Size really doesn't matter, all that matter is that he know what's he's doing and you know what you are doing, so that the both of you can get ultimate satisfaction each time. And there are many...

That was to your last post not this one. I am American, and he is African, could that be also cultural?

Smoothy, what do you mean?

Oh and another thing. We been together for a year, we are distance at the moment. We see each other maybe once or twice every other month or as much as we can with work and school. I am 21 and he is...

Hey, Asking, I think that is what it is. He tells me that only porn stars or prostitutes do that. And I was asking him why he thought that. But here the kicker, he watches porn that involves a lot of...

Hey sorry about my typos. Lol. What I meant to say was, One time when we were in the shower and he didn't let me go down. His words to me were... "if you keep trying, I will let you do it one day."...

My fiancé is not that open about sex. Don't get me wrong our sex life is great. I just am missing some things that we won't do or even talk about. I guess in a way he is a little bit of a prude when...