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Nice to know we have made it over to new continents!
Thanks, going to try citizens advice next week

Thank you tickle

Bit I still would like to believe that there are other scottish or english (with scottish knowledge) on this site. This is the www, not world wide usa and canada.

I do...

Thanks amicon, I was thinking to maybe get in touch with CA, maybe I'll try see them too this week

I know this isn't what you have asked about, but the b/f doesn't sound like good news... has he caused all the debt?

Further information... the house was valued at £165K 18 months ago, so the mortgage is 95% of that.

Thanks guys, I'm going to see an advisor about what happens with the finances (also a question running on here somewhere). And I'm kind of sitting tight until I know where I stand, then I will be...

Me and my partner and currently deciding to split up. Here's the facts:

We are Scottish and live in Scotland (Scot Law)
Been together 10 years
Lived together 9 years
Not married
Bought our...

Alt... thank you

I would like to say thanks to everyone throughout this thread, its been a long one but I now know what needs to be done, I have made my mind up to get rid and move on.

I have...

amicon, I appreciate your honesty

Justy, I completely agree, I feel the same, but I also think as well in certain ways I have grown up, and he's just not grown up with me.

Although we have...

Ooh harsh, lol. But thanks.

I do wish though that I could explain him, he is a nice guy and when he said the relationship was... he didn't mean it in a way to hurt me

Again my head is...

Well, how things change!!

I think my life is about to change big time!

I was told by so many just to give him the ultimatum, as I had nothing to lose, I would then find out exactly where I...

NAIL ON HEAD!

I completely agree with this, you talk so much sense.

My next question is how do I make him realise this problem and do something about it, when he's happy cruising along. I...

My partner is so bloody strange... lol

He's not very emotionally in touch as you may have gathered. He only ever really starts to talk about his feelings and REAL opinions after a few drinks. So...

Thanks for all your answers guys theyr all appreciated. There are two things I would like to point out though.

Tal, in Scotland we are legally bound, just as marriage, after two years of...

Tell me if this sounds normal to you?

My mum and dad said to me they found it completely bizarre that we have separate bank accunts, my money is mine and his is his, we each put some into a...

That's the bit that really gets me, if he had just said I don't want to marry, because of money or family, or any other reason I could maybe understand. But a comment like 'not marriage material'! ...

Thank you for posting on my similar situation, I've read your story, I think your really brave and I really respect you. I wish I had the same willpower. But I don't know if I could pick myself up...

The pain your describing, I had for a yr before I did anything about it, it was chlamydia and now I am infertile... get checked out!

So how did the test go?

Is there any guys out there, who can give me an idea of what he might be thinking?

Sophie/sophia fab name, has served me very very well, greek and means wisdom!

Hi guys, I've been with my partner for 9 years now, we have a house together and lots of commitments together.

I am desperate to get married, but we lately tried to speak about it and he...

He is the quiet and subtle type, but has mentioned (which is hinting) that we should get married soon because we should be married before we have kids.
I know him better than me and I know that...

Just terrified because of the change and losing the allowance to be selfish

Surely other women find it scary?

I think I still would feel the same in twenty years time though, the thought that...

I 25yrs old, finishing university and have a place in a company, where there is a lot of prospect.

I have been with my partner for 8 years.

I have been told that its expected I have fertility...

HSG or a laparoscopy

Anyone know the benefits or negatives of each procedure, etc?? How painful or uncomfortable it is?

Thanks

I have survey sketches from a building, facts are:

Very deep strip foundation into black silty topsoil and boulder clay, there has been leaking pipework which has caused movement and cracks,...

Hot food, try a curry or mexican,

Although twinkiedooter makes a good point

Anyone else??

So my problem is that my family and my partners family will be difficult to seat together, and within my partners family, his mother and father HATE each other.

I know my side of the family will...

Have a look online at IVM, seemingly better, cheaper and more successful than IVF, sounds a lot easier too.

Good luck

We have been been having unprotected sex for 7 years now, and have never got pregnant.

I am in no rush to have kids, but my GP sent me to get further tests done. Since then its suspected that it...