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I haven't called or sent any texts , she initiates them. Te reason I am not willing to let go is, I think there might still be a chance for us to get back together.

The reason why I am confused...

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So after the movie, the next day she called me and we met again,for her birthday, I took her out to a restaurant and a secluded place with a nice view. Things were going okay. She still...

CAT1864, you are probably right. You cannot have some stay in a relationship when they don't want to.:). I have decided to go NC.

I was not really even trying to listen, I just wanted to get my...

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She called two night ago wanting to talk, I called her back, talked about random things. I asked her what her decision was since there were 5 days still left in the whole 40 days thing....

Since I have been feeling down the last couple of days, I will add some more information.

So when we talked the last time before the 40 days started, I asked her if she didn't want to get back...

I don't think there is anything for me to back out from, we are already not talking, I guess if I can get it through my head that she is gone, then I might be in a better position.



I think...

Sounds childish, 40 days is the agreement with her mom, that she will "talk" to other guys within the same religious denomination and if it doesn't work out there, then her mom will be okay with her...

Come to think of it, there was always this argument about me not loving her enough, not cuddling,hugging while sleeping.She had been asking me to move back for a very long time, but the job situation...

Hi All,

History repeats itself.A little bit of history about me, I was in a 8-9 year relationship that didn't survive the test of time and we broke up about 4 years ago, I did the whole NC thing...

Agreed,I don't feel the need or the urge to contact her anymore, I think it was just the initial shock that was getting to me.

Not sure what I am trying to achieve,I don't have her phone number not sure if the old one I did have, works anymore, haven't tried calling her in over two years, congratulating her on Facebook would...

So after an 8 year relationship maybe more,I just found out that my ex got married, we broke up 2 years ago and I have been doing NC. I found out on Facebook we have mutual friends and one of them...

She probably did fall out of love, but there are still emotions involved, If I was you I would do NC, so both of you can move on.You harping on if she is jealous,or she is still love shows that you...

It doesn't matter.She told you its over so its over,Move on with your dignity.Do your really want to be in a relationship with someone who does not want you around.

UPDATE,

I think almost 2 years now or something maybe more lost track of time.Just found out she got married, still bothers me a little bit, not sure why,Am I ever going to be over this check,...

LOL No.

Sup hung, I am doing all right man,about to get engaged..

UPDATE!

I think its almost a year and half now since the break up, things are back to normal, functioning like a normal human being now.Dated other people, didn't work out. When I first started...

Great Zeenie!

Good to hear from you toronto.Hope everything is all right with you

Update,

Have been thinking about her a lot lately, Probably cause I have a lot of free time on my hands.I thought she would be out of my system already.Arghhhh!
Back to working out and...

WOW I just finished reading the whole thread.There are a couple of thing that you need to do to move on,

Quit puttung her up on a pedestal. She was a human being who had flaws even though you...

So I finally called her back. Talked for a few minutes ,the conversation was short, I told her I had to go somewhere and got off the phone.Asked her how her move to india was going.and she was like...

You will fell better for a little while and then you will feel like shi-.Its kind of like drugs.You feel good for a little while and then you want more.Keep on doing NC, that includes no phone...

You will eventually, it takes time, be patient with yourself.

In by the way if you post your question here you will probably get a lot more advice then on this thread.

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Leave him alone.There is no need to apologize right now.You also need to relaize that this relationship is over, and you really need to move on.Find something to do, workout jog, walk anything.In...

How long were you two togather for?

So its been I guess 9 months or 10 of NC, my ex calls me today and says she has some of my graduation stuff and my clothes at her parents house, and she wants to know what to do with it.For the last...

Yes regime changes has done wonders for the U.S.Maybe a little history lesson is in order

Yes he killed thousand of unborn childern, but what he did wasn't illegal.Just like torture .Get it

Unabomber attacks

From 1978 to 1995, neo-luddite radical and former mathematics professor Theodore "Ted" Kaczynski - known by the codename "UNABOM" until his identification and arrest by the FBI -...

Because terrorist organizations have opperatives that are old and caucasian.

No I am talking about the bush stimulus checks,

If this was true, the stimulus checks should have revived the economy,but it didn't, it was too little too late then and it will be very late and too little now

The trouble with the world is not that people know too little, but that they know so many things that aren't true."--attributed to Mark Twain

The word deregulation has been used as shorthand to...

Even though I agree that the fault doenot lie with obama as of now, but if the economy is still in a recession in 3 to 4 years then that's adifferent story. As for the Australian economy you can't ...

CBS "Evening News" took an in-depth look at Rep. John Murtha's (D-PA) connections to the Commonwealth Research Institute, which has a non-profit charity label despite no one knowing what charity work...

The prisoners at gitmo were not all fighting in iraq most of them were fighting in afganistan or caught in pakistan. Why would we hand them to iraq?

You want to look at rush's statement in context but not at sotomayor's.Nice.

I am not here to entertain you, if you think my replies and constant referring to rush is getting boring then quit reading my replies.As for kieth I think he is in the same boat as rush.

The...

As I said you will defend rush all day long.

When I get a case about discrimination, I have to think about people in my own family who suffered discrimination because of their ethnic background or because of religion or because of gender. And I...

Read her full statement , a white man WHO HAS NOT LIVED THAT LIFE.But you are two busy listening too rush

Name one I will name 10

I mean, let’s face it, we didn’t have slavery in this country for over 100 years because it was a bad thing. Quite the opposite: slavery built the South. I’m not saying we...

One minute they are telling us the virtues of torture, the next, they are outraged over perceived racism, this from the same crowd that wants to gun down Mexicans as they cross the border and profile...

Your argument implies that that all of the 40 million murders should be blamed on roe vs vade, would there be no illegal abortion if women did not have the right to choose.Would there not be...

The concept of destiny is one asscoiated with God.If God wanted the baby to be somone's child then he can stop him from becoming medical waste.Let God worry about the child's destiny, you can just...

Every year some 45 million pregnancies, out of a total of 175 million, end in abortion. Nearly half of those abortions (20 million) are medically unsafe, resulting in the deaths of nearly 80,000...

Sotomayor was nominated to the U.S. District Court for the Southern District of New York by President George H. W. Bush in 1991 and confirmed in 1992.