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Hi my best friend has been staying with me for the past week and whenever she wakes up she feels dizzy for about 10- 15 minutes and says she gets these weird muscle spasms downstairs like when your...

So the summer holiday has ended and the true realization of what I've lost has kicked in. Today in particular feels like the worst day since we broke up my chest feels heavy and I'm thinking about...

How honest should you be when entering a new relationship? My cheating past comes to haunt me once too often.. do potential partners need to know that I've strayed in the past? I feel myself obliged...

I've cheated on everyone whom I've had a relationship with. Maybe its down to my age (20) and the immaturity amongst me and my peers but what I've noticed is you're either the cheater or the...

Agreeing 100% with ylaira here. Your only 23 would you really like to meet your life partner right now? There's loads of time for that, this time is your time. Use it to become a well rounded...

I had stuck at no contact for 42 days but broke it the other week by answering her call by mistake! Since then she's tried to get in touch but I've stayed strong. At the function I just flat out...

Your nothing but her punch bag. You're accepting her behavior because you still care and of course you want to be back with her BUT all she is doing is using you to make herself feel better. She...

Cancel both the cellphone contract and gym membership, you don't need to speak to her about that really do you? Your only option is to give her what she wants, cut all contact RIGHT NOW the sooner...

The truth comes out in the end, it always does.. don't think you situation is any different. Like the others have already said choose and then come clean! You created this mess for yourself now do...

Let me be completely honest with you.. she either wants to be with you or she doesn't, it really is that simple. Be a man and show her your not her play thing. Give her all the space and time that...

Its pretty amazing how a person, just one person out of the 6+ billion others out there becomes so important to us. We pin our hopes and dreams on being with that person and when their no longer...

I don't see what you'd gain from this? Like starbuck said the picture being used might not even be the real him.

Would you be offended if you were asked to get an STD test? I've never asked a girl to do one before but recently its an issue which has been on the front of my mind when I've been pursuing females....

Yes sadly I have no choice but to go. I guess ill just have to grin and bare it!

Tell me about it. I hope I don't act like a complete fool when I see her.. I think I'll just completely ignore her I can't make things worse that way can I?

I think ill always be weak for her, I've never been like this in my entire life.

Im using a Fujitsu Siemens Amilo Li 1818. It takes about an hour and a half to charge fully and the battery life will last about 20 minutes. Is there anything I can do to make it last longer?

UPDATE

After a heavy night out, I'm half asleep, I answer my phone without checking who it is.
I can't lie hearing her voice after so long had that soothing effect on me but the conversation was...

Firstly a 19 year old who would fool around with a 15 year old is one dodgy character!
You had a one night stand with some extended pointless communication afterward, which would have confused...

That actually made my day.

If I were you id get on with my own life and let him go through his phase. When he becomes rational again then perhaps give him the time of day, but right now leave him...

You mean he's threatening you? If so it doesn't sound like you made a mistake at all. Hes a baby and his ego cannot handle the fact that he's been dumped. You say your friends with his family so why...

This girl of yours sounds humorous to say the least! She wants to get out there and live her life and she hopes that one day her feelings for you will return? Are you honestly taking her seriously?...

I feel for you buddy, I found myself in a similar situation a few months ago. Its hard to get your head around and I know that empty feeling all to well. You must take a step back and think about...

No one here can tell you whether what you have is true love. Why bother trying to label what you have with this girl anyway? Just enjoy it for what it is, whatever that might be.

You could try and make us understand your personality until you're blue in the face, but it makes no difference what so ever. She's your downfall and the chances are she's moved on. At this point it...

Every break up I have ever been through I have handled it in a mature often detached way, just shrugged it off as it just obviously wasn't meant to be, but my last ex? Now that's a different story....

You bumped into her and read too much into her reaction to seeing you. You tried for a year to get her back, you did your best but to no avail. You resigned and moved away in order to sort yourself...

If she initiates contact don't ignore her, but don't make yourself so easily available to her keep the communication down to a minimum, don't get carried away, your hurting like hell right now so...

I don't doubt that you guys truly care for each other, but a healthy relationship?





You made the ultimate mistake, you revolved your life around this girl is that healthy? Your girlfriends...

My ex has this crazy notion that me and her should end up with each other as life partners when the time to settle down comes around. I see it like this, if someone doesn't want to ride their life...

Just be glad that you found out what he's like early! Don't waste anymore time on this jerk

I firmly believe that if two lovers were to ever reconcile successfully serious changes and personal improvement from both parties is needed, so I do agree with you to a point. But please bear in...

Failed relationships are nothing but learning processes, this is what you've learnt about yourself from this one. Im sure you'll do the clever thing and make sure your next relationship benefits from...

Yes.. but it only caused drama. The no contact rule was something that I found impossible to stick by and at times she struggled with it too, but it really is the only way to come out of this in one...

Its very easy to lose yourself in a relationship from what you've said it sounds as though he made you the center of his world, which isn't healthy. You both suffered, he withdrew and you got the...

Its hard to come to terms with the idea of a lover no longer having the desire to stick things out by your side, believe me it's a notion that my brain cannot even process. You got involved with this...

No. He's getting just what he wants, your company & sex with very little effort from him being needed.

He knows you have a soft spot for him and he's using this to his advantage. I doubt he cares...

You can't make her want you it doesn't work like that I'm afraid. All you can do is be yourself. I would suggest that you just play things by ear, don't expect too much and don't completely put...

Have you told her that you know she is going behind your back with him?

Come on you either trust her or you don't, it's that simple. She can have male friends in fact you should encourage her to. You both need to mix well with other people, this in turn will help you...

Thanks for this perspective. I agree that I have been unfair in the way that I have judged her when it has not been my place to at all. She is a very out there character, its shameful to admit but I...

Im a very laid back character but when it comes to lovers/ potential partners/ girls whom I'm very physically attracted to, I know I can be pretty intense from the get go which I don't understand.. I...

I truly think its possible to love more than one person at any given time. My advice to you would be that your ex is an ex for a reason, but your feelings don't just change over night. The fact that...

Hearing you loud and clear.

I came out of a long term relationship 4 months ago. I no longer think about my ex 27/4 nor do I have the desire to see or speak to her. I didn't think I was capable of getting over her, but over the...

I really feel on edge today.. maybe breaking NC wasn't a smart move?
This situation is really frustrating. I wish she'd just talk to me properly.

Then you must give her the time she needs to work this one out without you pulling her in your direction.



This why she has not had sex with you and this is the reason why she is being...

You 100% did the right thing.

Congratulations on your progress.



Im exactly the same. Its like time stops for a couple of seconds and then I'm resusatated.

You can't put anything off for this girl... the chances are that...

You said yourself that it wasn't the greatest of relationships, so perhaps you've built your ex up as a person who he isn't and probably never was. Your current relationship could be lacking in some...