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I don't know what it is. I think I don't look up to my girlfriend in the same way. I don't quite trust her either. This is maybe just a reaction from last time though.

I'm trying to stick at it...

I'm just worried that all my problems are caused by myself. The pattern seems to be that I meet someone then I pick away at little things until I ruin it.

For example I get on brilliantly with my...

Hi everyone. Been a while - I'm still seeing the girl I've been with for more than a year so that's good but I'm still really unsure about things. She keeps asking me "will i do this? Will i put this...

Thanks. I know I'm in a lot better state than I was a year ago. I don't feel as needy or alone as before and I feel like I am in a much better place as far as relationships with friends. I think...

I think that's good advice. Today I was walking along the street and my ex was walking straight towards me. I got really upset with myself because lots of feelings came rushing back which has made me...

Why is it that it's almost a year now and I still think about my ex and it still bugs me about what she did. Why does it bug me that her boyfriends sister is friends with my sister in law?

It's a...

I was doing fine and then she messaged me out of the blue as per my previous posts. I think that was the idea - worm her way back into my thoughts because maybe she's not completely happy.

I am...

Damn her, she's got into my head again. I miss her.

I just replied with a "yeah that's good. hope you are well" sort of reply. Not impolite, but just dismissive so nothing could come of it.

I just don't get her thinking. After nearly 6 months of...

So I'm getting on fine with my new girlfriend and everything is peachy. Then on Wednesday I got an email from my ex.

It didn't say anything, it just had a link to a news story she knew I'd be...

I know, I'm trying. She is fun and definitely what I need just now. Just not sure if she's long term potential...

Been busy at work, buying an apartment and seeing my new girlfriend. Enjoying myself mostly and trying to forget about my ex which I've done mostly but it still hurts.

She's probably much happier...

I'm still not over her. It still hurts and it still gets to me that my sister in law still sees her regularly.

I just feel cheated and I feel like I'm cheating on my new girlfriend because I know...

I wish I could meet someone who would just blow her away. My new girlfriend isn't quite that person, but she might become that person in time I hope. If not I'll move on to someone else.

It just...

I've decided just to block it out. She can do what she wants. I don't want her to get hurt, but in some ways it would serve her right. I'm nothing to her now even though she claims she wants to be...

Just heard something that freaked me out a little. My ex is buying a cottage in the country with her new guy.

This is freaky because she seems to have followed out my exact plans for us at the...

Love is just made up. You just find someone that doesn't annoy you and stick with them

I'm much better than I was - even seeing someone else who I really like, but I can't help feeling it's not the same as much as I like her.

I need to give myself time to fall in love with my new...

I still miss my ex

You guys are great. You helped me at my lowest.

I do want to have fun. I kind of feel like I want to date many people now, but it makes me feel guilty that I might not give someone a fair chance....

Thanks, although I still miss my ex and don't get her in saying she wants to be friends but after I told her it might take time for me to regain the trust she kind of backed down. My dad told me to...

My holiday has done wonders for me. I told one of my dates the truth and she still wants to be friends which is nice, so we still chat and text. The other girl I am seeing and it is going quite well....

I'm not two timing. I'm not lowering myself to my ex's level. I have morals.

My friend thinks my ex story is disgusting - he's not religious but has respect for people and thinks for her to move...

Had another date and she's lovely. But I also like another girl I've met. Confusion. I think girl number 1 is probably more suitable though. Girl number 2 is a complete freak but AMAZING fun. Never...

So I like my new date, but my ex is still on my mind most of the time. Help

Met up with my date again last night. She's really nice and I don't have to worry about her being too young because she isn't. Hopefully things will go well.

Shame she was everything I wanted and still is.

I was just too caught up in thinking "she's my first girlfriend so I wonder what the next will be like" and I realised she was perfect for me too...

Maybe you are right. I just thought that with the amount of time she spent at that bar we couldn't see each other enough to grow together.

I still miss her every day.

I'm not really comparing as such.

I knew when my ex got the bar job, we'd drift apart and she'd get attached to the barman she spent most time with. It happened. I just don't believe in love...

Exactly my intentions. I still miss my ex, and it's still an effort to not look at her Facebook etc, but I'm enjoying texting this new girl. She's really nice. Maybe not quite what I want long term...

It was fun, but I didn't feel an immediate connection like I've had before. She's a little bit younger than me so maybe we're not quite on the same page, but I'm not going to rush anything.

I'm...

I just came back from a date. It went well and she's really nice. I just don't feel on the same wavelength though. I do want to give it a chance though and get to know her. She's really likeable.

I just hope I meet someone and actually think she is better. I don't think I will. I might have the same feelings, but it's hard for me to judge only having had 1 girlfriend.

We both were...

I am getting better and happier all the time. I just can't see anyone else giving me what she did. Like I say, we matched so well. I'll meet someone at some point I guess

I am doing lots of new things and I don't think of her 24/7. I just miss her from time to time

The fact that she could have been with me but not wanting me makes me feel sick. I know this is true because she told my sister in law she was "falling for me but blocking me out" because she didn't...

I have been going on dates and meeting new girls with no success as yet. I just got used and tricked and it's difficult to understand. I'm only thinking about it today because of the dance last...

It still gets to me how it happened. One minute she was speaking about the future with me, the next she's in love with someone else and has "given up" on me. I'm really confused about where my life...

I was at a wedding dance at the weekend and it brought back lots of memories from the last dance we were at. I was really upset because they were such happy memories and I was all alone at this...

You're right. I'm trying to do that as much as I can.

I really need to wise up. Went out drinking last night and had to leave work at lunchtime because I was too ill to work. I've been going out drinking a lot and keeping myself ultra busy so I don't...

I don't know why, but I've really missed my ex the last couple of days. It's weird because I've not been thinking about her recently.

Yeah, noted! She did ask, but I just told her too much. It's because I'm quite an open person - I don't hide anything. And it still stirs up fellings I guess.

One of my friends was telling me to...

I got chatting to a girl on msn from the dating website and I think I scared her off straight away by talking about my previous dates.

I'm too honest for my own good sometimes.

Sigh. Bit bored of it all now.

1st date didn't go great...

Nice girl, but no spark at all.

Overthinking again, that's why :-)

I have a potential 2 dates this week. I hope I get on as well with them as I did with last weeks date. This time I won't mess up though! My brother came out with...

Yeah, I overthink EVERYTHING and I'm really hard on myself.

I do have a good life - a group of good friends and good hobbies. I'm actually really busy, but it's the quiet moments when I get down....

She doesn't want to see me at all unfortunately. I'm a psycho in her eyes.

I broke up with my first girlfriend a couple of times because I started overthinking negatively and did the same this...

One good thing is that I'm not thinking about my ex. Just about the new girl.

I ruin everything by overanalysing though. Ruined my first relationship this way, and ruined this one before it had...