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You're right. I definitely went about it in the wrong way! Just wanted experience first, but realized I rather be with someone who likes me more than in a sexual way.

smoothy,

What do you mean? What is the problem? I wrote that I realized what I did before was the wrong thing for me. It was just a destructive way of getting attention cause I wasn't very happy...

I think I didn't make myself clear. Before, I wasn't even interesting in dating. I just wanted sex, no strings attached. Then I realized that wasn't what I wanted at all, it was just destructive...

Didn't feel comfortable having such a detailed and lengthy post, so I edited it. And no offense, but I'm just tired of people saying that I need counseling because I don't feel like I need anymore...

I must say I agree with Clough. Get involved in some club or group on your own and meet new girls there.

Even though it's great to have close friends, it's not good to hang out with the same...

I'm sure most of all have heard the expression "An apple a day keeps the doctor away"

But "An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away." True or false?

When I was a freshman in high school I had a lot of friends who were dating seniors. I don't think a 3 year gap in high school is that big. Definitely not.

Hello excon

You know, this post has nothing to do with my other post. Even if I was raped I still see myself as a virgin because I haven't had sex on my own terms. Does that makes sense?

And...

Because we live in different cities, really far away from each other.

Thanks for your replies. Much appreciated!

You can be more confident by focusing on your good parts, making an effort to improve what you want to improve about yourselves and accept the things you can't change.

As for your boyfriend...

ylaira, you must be thinking of someone else because that wasn't me. I don't live with my family and I don't have a boyfriend.

OK. Lol

Recently I saw a movie where a guy said he tell all women he has sex with to go for a run afterwards, because that prevents them from getting pregnant.

What do you think, is that right or wrong?

What do you mean?

As I wrote, I've never had a boyfriend. And I haven't done anything sexually yet, never gone beyond kissing.

That's what I wrote. For some reason he hasn't replied.

I met a guy online a couple of months ago. I'm 22, he's a bit older. A few days ago he said he liked me a lot, I said I felt the same about him. Then he says he wants us to start as friends (when we...

I'm 22 and a virgin, have thought about sex since I was 13 or something but not felt ready yet. For some reason I'm really picky and have always found something wrong about the guys that have showed...

If you like someone (and this person feels the same about you), is it best to start as friends and really get to know each other or jump right into dating?

I assumed she was over 18, that's why I wrote that she can decide what she feels is right and what makes her happy rather than following her family's opinions. But as you say, if she's under 18, then...

Don't care about what your family thinks. What's important in this matter is what you think about him and whether he makes you happy and vice versa.

A guy I've been exchanging e-mails and messages with for several months (only online) wrote 'enough about me. Let's talk about you'.

What's a good reply to that?

By the way, good comparison. I do exactly the same thing - always save the dessert until the end, so I have something to look forward to :)

I was wondering how to use it during sex, so thanks. I completely understand what you mean now. This really helps!

Clough, Thanks! That really helps!

Hahaha! :)

A few years back I noticed that when I come to a new place I can feel if I'm going to return, if I'm going to live there, or if I will never visit the place again.

For example, after visiting one...

What do you think is the trendiest thing to wear this summer?

I've had an acting dream since I was a kid. So far I have barely no acting experience, but acting is my dream and I just can't let it go. If I don't at least give it my best shot I know I'm going to...

You are funny!

Yes. That is easy to joke about :)

By the way, could you explain that last thing you wrote? I don't really understand.

That's true! Completely agree. I often write or speak first and think later. Now when I've thought this through, 2 hours a day would definitely be too much. I wouldn't mind less frequent viewing...

As long as it's nothing gay or involving any bondage, then I'm OK with it. And I don't think it would matter whether I was there or not.

If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't mind if he watched porn, is this unnormal?

I mean as long as it's not too much, too much = several hours a day.

I'm 21.

It's hard to tell. He has written that I can trust him a lot of times, but I don't trust him more cause he writes it.

I don't trust people easily, and it's not easy for me to trust people I meet...

A few years ago I discovered that when I lie on my back on the floor, hold my legs straight and move them up and down I eventually get an orgasm. Normally I only need to move my legs up and down...

If a guy I met online writes "You can ask me anything. I'm like an open book", is that a good or a bad thing?