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Hi everyone,

It has been some time since I have been here last.

I have to say between you guys and the close friends that I have, I managed to get along a lot further and faster than I had...

I wasn't and am not looking for a response.

I think that it was my way of saying that I'm done with you.

I have no intentions of talking to her again unless she makes contact. Even then, I...

Well,

For those who know what was happening, I saw her at the party and said hi. That was all. After the party, I went onto Facebook, changed the relationship status (I'm surprised that she...

Well,

I have reread this post several times and come to one solid conclusion...

If you are trying to get someone back, don't bother. The result is usually the same as before and you will go...

It would probably be best for the both of you to get help.

No wonder he is mad. I would place bets that he is considering walking away from this. Maybe you should consider walking away from this...

I figure that the best approach is to keep it calm cool and collected.

Let everything that is going to happen happens in it's own time. Eventually, the truth of all matters gets out there. You...

Tal,

That's a fantastic way of putting it.

Detox takes time.

JB,

You make very valid points in your argument. I can see where you are going with all of this and I understand the point that you are trying to make.

This was just a matter of feeling like I...

Matt.

NO CONTACT.

It sounds like this relationship is over. It is probably harsh to hear but you already know what is going on and you have to accept it.

You need to delete all available...

Very funny Tal.

Maybe you shouldn't be exposing yourself in public that much then...

Honestly...

A girl that is herself. Not just when she is with her friends, but all of the time.

I believe that a girl that is not so good looking can be absolutely beautiful if she has a...

Hey,

I didn't say that to kill the thread...

Come on guys.

I'm now on day 9 and feeling pretty good about it. It is amazing how you go through so many different emotions not only during a...

Not really considering that I am in the law enforcement community...

But still funny.

JB,

A two year plan really wasn't an option, we met at the beginning of college and spent the next 4 years together while going to school. When we finished school, we stayed together but we wanted...

So I am finally through my first week of nc. Almost didn't make it yesterday though. I was out grabbing a bite to eat, got in my car and drove off. Went to go around the corner and just as I was...

Well, that's just it. I am starting to get out there and to meet new people. I didn't realize how hard it is, but I am giving it a go. It's just that I have been really good friends with these two...

Hey everyone,

I'm not going to get to in depth with my story. Basically, I was recently (3 weeks ago) dumped by my girlfriend of 8 years. She gave me the typical lines of she wasn't sure about...

Shake,

Really, you can't just sit there and watch TV, listen to music, and surf the internet. If you are having trouble find activities to do, go to your local community center. Look for volunteer...

Never mind that question, just got to your other posts.

Look at it this way. Focus on yourself! You need to take some time to learn how to be single again.

I know where you are coming from....

Miller,

How long were you two together for?

Kia,

I think that what you are asking is a difficult question for most people to answer.

Relationships that involve one or both people that are "needy" or "clingy" are not good ones to be in....

Shakedown,

Let me start by saying that I know exactly how you are feeling right now. I am just coming out of one that was just shy of 8 years, and I know how much it hurts.

Even though you feel...

Okay,

Lets get to the main points here.

1st - This post is from someone in Ontario Canada, therefore the laws are those based in the Canadian Criminal Code.

As per Canadian law,
Section...

Thanks guys.

Knowing that really helps.

Quick question. Does nc get harder before it gets easier?

Communication.

You need to talk to him and make sure that you are clear on how he feels and that he is clear on how you feel. As long as the two of you keep the communication going, there...

SoSo,

I think that you need to learn a very important lesson from all of this. It really is how much you tell your best friend about a new girl. I don't think that it would be appropriate to...

Well, survived another day w/nc.

Just got some interesting news that will affect my nc though.

Next weekend is a long weekend here and my best friend and his wife are holding a party that we...

I think that you must really step back and reassess where you think that this might lead to. From what I am reading, she really enjoys and respects your friendship.

Is it that love her or are in...

Thank you friend.

I know it's a long road, but I am still young and in good shape so until it hit some mountains, it should be a good hike of life. I'll just have to remember to stop every now and...

jolienoire,

You have given great advice and insight to how we have or are feeling after the breakup. I with flip back to this often as I continue my healing and take these word to heart. As much...

Friend.

Thank you.

I have read this several time over and can't seem to get enough of it. During such a difficult time in my life, this really spurs on hope for my future and what to expect of...

Hi everyone,

I'm a newbie to the forum so I hope that everyone can understand that I am in a new world of learning curves right now.

I would like to start by saying that I have read a lot of...