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That is all in the past... let it go. Seriously.

He has the desire to visit with her NOW. My advice would be the same... encourage it. If she was getting ill she obviously had strong feelings...

My parents divorced when I was 3. If my dad ever came back around asking for visitation and my mother tried to stop it or deny him, I probably would have resented her for the rest of my life. If he...

It can take many years to break the thought pattern.

It just sounds strange to hear someone say they would prefer a guy who is going to use them and abuse them over a guy who is going to treat...

As for the new gentleman, if he is offering security, stability, and protection, where the others have failed, why would you not like him?

Bad boys bring excitement.

You said he only did this when he was drinking. If he drinks often, then of course you have reason to be concerned. But if he doesn't engage in this type of behavior when he is sober, maybe the...

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Thank you ALL so much for your help. I will pass these posts onto her and I will certainly encourage her the best that I can. She has already begun a rigorous exercise program, so it looks like she...

Yes, she did say the cut off age for the Army was 42. I suppose that is the reason for her urgency. She is quite intelligent. She was mostly concerned about whether she could keep up with all the...

Sometimes people tell little white lies to make things run more smoothly. They think the truth will complicate the matter, so they devise little white lies to speed things along. Sometimes there...

My best friend is 37 years old. She found a job with the Army as an Administrative Specialist. Her only concern is whether she can manage basic training. What are others thoughts on her age and...

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