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This goes out to everyone who put forth much effort to help/advise, etc to me. I appreciate you patients and going above and beyond the call of duty. I have gone overboard with my negative comments....

I had my first apt and I'm scheduled for another. I plan to find out what my problem is and hopefully fix it.

Not sure what is going on hear. But, someone is playing a joke on me and everyone is like falling for it hook line and sinker. Anyway whatever nothing I can do about it so I'm not even going to try....

My issues will be identified with a counsler. Tomorrow I plan to find one.
No more put downs here. I just need to fix me right now and that is what I plan to do...

OK, will do. Loud and clear. Thanks

I would like to know what your opinion is regarding me mailing back her cards and pictures. I think this will help me if I send them back. I don't want them anymore.
Also, seriously would you share...

She thinks the world revolves around her. She has her ups and downs. She likes to test me just like what others have told me here. If she is in control or in other words if she is drinking too much...

I see more now what she has done to me, what I have allowed her to do to me and what I have done to myself. I plan to go to counsling this week. Hopefully I can get through this so that I can cont...

Skell, I'm trying to get on the right track. Yes, I should have done a lot of things months ago. I can't go back. I'm working on my problem now.
To date I have not called her. What is strange thow...

S cianci, here is what happened. First off I have taken on a different attitude. A more healthy one. I ended up being very busy Sunday and Monday. I did not take calls from her nor did I listen to...

Dude don't tell me what to do. You are not the boss of me so go away and help someone else. Unless you have something to say about the post. Give your opinion and help if you can. But, don't tell me...

Thanks, I agree with you very good point. I will give her the space. I will make plans and not wait for her. I will go on with my life and not think about it no more. If she does call me Sunday I...

I'm having a bad day. I'm not seeing my girlfriend. I don't have plans this weekend. Except I had to work today till 230pm. I have to work tomorrow Sunday from 6a-12noon. Right now life is hard...

#1 I agree. And I don't understand why she kind of cut me off when I was just about done anyway talking about what happened at work. I felt terrible when she said, OK! OK! I did not know what to...

I had a great evening last Tuesday. We talked and talked. We had great conversation and we both felt connected. Great evening. Once the evening was over she invited me over for dinner at her place...

Strange but one day I was listening to the radio and limpbizkit was playing a song called 'my way'. After listing to the song I feel it was similar to my current relationship. I played it over and...

Yes I have felt this way in the past and I feel this way now. I want to be alone but I still go to activities with friends. There is no pressure to go out and have fun. I just don't hang out late. I...

Yes, was something that happened in the past and I was looking for postitive feedback on how to handle in the future...


Um wrong. j9 either comment the question or please stay off my posts....

OK, if you don't care than why are you posting this question?

Seems to me if she was thinking of asking you over for dinner. She would simple say, would you like to come over for dinner? And he would answer depending on what his plans are. Yes I can do that or...

When a girl conntinues to test me over and over...

She: what are your plans for this evening?
Him: I plan to go to the store and pu one item.
She: OK, I will talk to you later.
Him: OK, talk to you later.
Later...
She: did you go to the store?...

Your mother has issues. She should be supporting you and if she thinks it's a mistake with this guy she should love your own decisions and allow you to make mistakes and learn from them. Just like...

Forget it don't go. Why bother and put yourself thur more crap than you need. Let it go and find something else to do so when he asks you if you are coming you say no I have other plans have fun...

You don't need whycat. You did it yourself. You talked to her told her the right things because you are moving on! She fell off the face of the earth. Do not be just friends... ever!

You said the right thing. No big deal but it is to you. You don't want her in your life because she does not want you. So, move on forget her. You can and will do better. She does not excist. Do not...

I'm going back to what if... I have so many friends that have experienced all kinds of issues and I plan to cont with there stories with their approval of course. My own problems I can deal with but...

22! My opinion but I think you are too young to get married. But, I'm not in your shoes so good luck and have a great marriage. Best wishes to you both.

Thanks. You got it. My posts are directed to help others who can't imagine what goes on in relationships. Some people here just read them but may not be able to share their experiences. Most of my...

Anyone...

Read my posts...

I see a few things here that may or may no be what you are going through but I see it as:

1. Dating, quality not quantity. Choose your dates carefully. Maybe putting too much in the relationship...

Seems like the right thing to do. I mean wow I have gone through so much crap that I don't even know who I am. Well, I do but not sure how much damage has been done. I do feel a heavy load off my...

Thanks for the comments and I do appriciate that we stayed with the subject.

Everyone here has the same opinion. Not a good idea to date at work. I have always thought hey why not... but, I would agree. If the job is going great why would you do something that could really...

Now that I'm single I have opportunities. I'm thinking of starting at work. There is a beautiful women here and I would like to ask her out. I believe I should introduce myself and ask if she would...

Ps&s good point. He should really respect your feelings. Definitely talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If he has the attitude you are acting silly... then, he may not respect how you feel. If he...

If you don't like something your boyfriend is doing then you should talk to him about it. You will get a good feeling about how he feels and how he acts. Does he respect how you feel? Does he assure...

That is exactly what I'm doing. I'm helping myself. Coming here and discussing relationship issues. She can't drive me insane. I will not allow it. Besides I thought we where not going to talk about...

Hey wildcat21 my post and I'm asking a question. Don't give me crap about another issue. Get off my post or answer the question. Geez

Wrong answer. Try again. I'm not worried about it.

OK good answer. But you maybe missing the point. If I walk in the bar and my girlfriend says to put all on her tab she started and of course I will be paying. I think you should pull the girlfriend...

Jnet, geez you have kids and he says after the fact he is not interested... wow, that is terrible. I'm sorry to hear this. You sound like a good person and maybe you picked the wrong guy. Sounds like...

We all make mistakes and I have made many. From what you're saying the husband is cheating. You are or he (your ex) is interested in you. This can become a very very big problem if you cont this...

OK new subject. Lets say you are meeting your girlfriend at the bar to visit friends. She shows up about an hour earlier than you do. She has a few drinks before you get there. You show up, order a...

Thanks to all here for the comments. I appreciate them all...

Not sure about breaking up. But, just wanted to know am I reading too much into what I wrote here. Thanks

Sure, when I first started here I wrote about other people and other peoples gf's. But, lately I'm talking about my current girlfriend.

I always tell her wait a minute I don't like what you're saying and stop reading my mind. And she usually get upset and leaves the room when I stick up for myself. She says because I want to fight...

Thursday morning my girlfriend tells me she forgot to tell me about her company picnic this Friday. For employees only. Basically gets to go to a park for the whole afternoon. No work just hang...