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Heyyy! Yes, it has been a long time. I can't believe you remember me. I look back on some of my old posts from 4 plus years ago and I was so immature and desperate. I have grown so much and I can...

Awww! Thank you! I just don't have many friends in this city and it's hard to make some. I hear the same thing... "join an organization"... "try to find like-minded people"... I don't think folks...

Well thank you for at least responding. I think it's pretty rude that over 100 people have viewed this post and only one person took the time to respond. So I deeply value taking the time to do so....

Oh wow... no one wants to answer? OR HELP!

Where do I begin? I think I was a victim of a "fake/flakey" friend. I am so confused by everything that happened. I am going to give the shortest version possible.

When I was working at a...

How is that tip-toeing around? I thought I was to the point!

My boyfriend and I are in a SERIOUS and committed relationship. We love each other very much and no one forces the other to do anything they don't want to. No means NO for both of us. I am not a...

I know I should be the last person probably commenting on anyone's relationship, but let me tell you... MOVE ON! Some people just play those games. Who cares where this guy went? There are...

My man and I talked and I just think it was a communication issue. All is well and we will only get stronger. I know we will. I think control is the wrong work... he cares about me (as I do him). I...

Sorry, I must have confused you for another poster. Omit that statement. Someone asked me what my parents thought about this.

I am happy... are YOU in a relationship? You seem to have interesting advice... If so, are YOU happy!

Brokenhearted72, I do need to look inside myself for the answer... you sound A LOT like someone I know... (small world and I have a hunch who).

Wondergirl... my parents like my boyfriend! They...

No! He has never hit me or anything like that!! If anything, I am the one that sometimes nudges him when I am frustrated ( I SHOULDN'T AND HE DOES NOT FIGHT BACK). I am here because I just wanted...

No,brokenhearted. Not the situation at all. He isn't a jerk. I certainly DO NOT need everything to go my way. I just want to be appreciated. Look, I am not perfect. I am sure that there are...

I have! MANY TIMES! We have broken up at least 6 times. However, what usually happens is by the time I get home we make up and I drive back to his place. Sometimes I just say I will see him in...

This is all interesting guys... people love this guy ( yes he is a braggart at times ( typical jock type of guy). However, I treat him like a KING. I clean his house, cook, do the grocery shopping,...

On the contrary, women FLOCK to my boyfriend. We/he gets a lot of attention when we go out. In fact, we got many things for free because he is so charming and sweet to people. Most of the female...

Yes, you are probably right. :( Why all the control then! He is a VERY handsome guy

Thanks Spitvenom. I am confused because I am in the process of job hunting and I say to him sometimes that I am eager to meet knew people and make some friends. He seems encouraging and supportive....

I never said I am looking for someone to "buy me stuff'"... that was an unnecessary comment. Gosh, I guess people never read anymore.

Ok. Well thank you for your input. I do look forward to seeing some fresh opinions (if any).

Oh and your stock in the dating/relationship game is over once the face goes. The chances of finding a guy are dramatically decreased.

NEVER. Not sure what your genes are, but I don't have that in my DNA. Do you moisturize your face? That should NOT be happening at 30. Maybe the fact that I don't have a job makes a difference? I...

I keep my face together as much as possible. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and only skin deep ( blah, blah, blah). I understand that. I am not a reflection of him. I am being myself. I...

Been there and done that... talk about a mistake. I just try to forget the whole thing ever happened. Having the rebound guy after healing from such a HORRIBLE relationship was not a good idea. I...

?? No!. I am not into that stuff at all. I like natural looking women (a nose job is fine especially if you have a big one). Botox is straight poison ( the jury is still out on it). I am good. ...

Ha! Well no, but he cares more about my face then my body. Strange... the body can go, but once the face goes it's over. You can always get the body into shape and tone. You (proverbial You) only...

Damn this net book. I am typing in the dark and the key board is so weird on these things. Sorry for the typos.

Also, I don't cry often. He thinks its weird seeing how I am suppose to be an emotional creature. Lately, I have been crying more than usual ( like 3 times this week) highly usually since I allow...

True.. and yes, he does care how he looks. He asks me and I will voice my opinion and say that doesn't look right or whatever issue needs to be address. Usually he takes my advice and will keep it...

NO... he has friends and he goes out with his guy friends (usually invites me along) or has them over (when I am there). He does not use that line to get me back if we argue. The only thing I...

Also, he swears up and down at how gorgeous he things I am ( I like that!) It makes me feel good... :/ Is that sad?

Because he is very sweet and caring when he wants to be. He has dropped everything and rushed me to my sick grandmothers aid 3 hours away many times. I didn't have to pay for a thing. He took me...

Hello Everyone!

It has been a very long time since I have posted on this site!

You can check back on this particular relationship from previous posts. Anyway, I have been in this relationship...

Thanks guy.. he is just such a sweet talker and so sexy. Sigh

Well, I would think it was a bit odd and that he was using the wine and dine method to solidify his love and affection for her. I would tell her that he claims he is not a controlling person but his...

Well thank you. Was there anything else that seems questionable? I am young and trying to learn about love and relationships. I do admit it is always easier for me to point out the flaws in...

Let me be more clear... he has been seeking counseling for weeks about other issues but the last two weeks ( if not more) he has been discussing his trust issues.

He sought counseling and continuously seeking help for that issue. He admitted that he was going crazy over the issue of what I was doing, who I was with, why I didn't answer the phone and tried to...

I just question his need to try and get me into shape, not my happiness.

Awwww thank you Unluckyducky! That is very sweet and kind of you to say. Most of the time I am genuinely happy with him. I cannot say I have ever laid awake at night crying or trying to figure out...

Just the other day he stated that he gave me too much control over things and I made a comment that defied his statement. He was very quick to apologize and realize that what not FAIR OR RIGHT for...

I agree! How would you feel if your husband was creeping around on you? Hey, if you don't care then keep doing your "thang", but something tells me that is not the case. Deep inside you know this...

triogucci,

Currently I could stand to loose the 20 lbs. Seriously. If I lose more then GREAT.

This is the same guy as before however there is no more threats of bashing a guys head in or...

Spotted... yes, unluckyducky... this is the same guy as before (sigh). We worked out the issues we were having before and started fresh. There is no more asking me if I have been a good girl while...

Maybe that is true, but you can't say having extra cash around (even if you were financially sound personally) is nice. As the rapper Lil Kim said' "Why spend mine when I can spend yours?"

But...

Yes, I have. My guy told me that he was kidding and it was not meat to be hurtful.

Oh man... what a tough question. One could argue that her self confidence is seriously questionable. She is one of those girls that looks better in her pictures then she does in person. She uses...

ALSO, I am still curious to know if this man was not financially sound, would you still be so fond of him seeing that he is married. Single and financially sound is one thing, but married and living...

But why would my friend try to agree and state that that I should think of it as him motivating me and that he loves me and would never say it to be mean to me?
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Is there some truth to what he is...