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Thanks so much for your input. Its great that the guy I am with wants me to speak up and wants my opinion, but its hard to give it. I guess I just need to speaak up more. I guess I need more...

I was married for 26 years and abused phtsically and emotionally. I have been dating a great guy. He says I need to voice my opinion more, tell him what I want and be more assertive. I know he is...

Yes the other guy was 49 now 50 never married. This man is 49 never married but lived with someone for years. So I am just enjoying myself and being patient. But was just wondering if guys and gals...

No he is not the same guy. He is a super guy-no baggage finally. Has never been married himself. So I a trying to go slow and enjoy it. But was just curious. No rush for me-can't be. Just being hones...

I have been seeing this man for 2 months now. Great guy-we have a lot in common, get along well.we do a lot for one another,same morals and values See each other 1 time per week, he calls me 2-3...

Neither shifts have had layoffs. I work in healthcare CT Scan Tech. So does that help.

Would anyone out there go from weekends to during the week. I currently work Fri-Sun6pm-8am weekends only. I can go to Mon-Thurs 10pm-8am. Its 4 days unstaed of 3 and its all week with no time during...

Thanks for that. Yes he does have other interests as I do all during the week-my time off. He also likes to be by himself and I do at times, but not all the time. I guess I assume that 2 people will...

Fr Chuck, He says he is not into dating anyone else and he told that's the truth-one person at a time he has said-not several and I am the same way. Well his plans were a ballgame, race on TV and...

Thanks for the info. I try not to want to spend time with the person, but I guess I assumed in order to get to know each other seeing each other once per week was no biggie. We talk a lot on the...

Ok guys I am back. I met a man online May 11. We emailed every day and talked each day for hours. We finally met May 19. We both liked each other. He then asked me over for a ballgame, stayed with...

Just wanted to say little by little I am moving on. Haven't much thought of him since he ask me not to contact him. Now I am getting my life together. Not going to look for anyone as of now. Have to...

Thank you everyone. I have been seeing my counselor, going out with friends more and just doing some things I want to so. I so wanted to remain his friend, but I feel I no longer can. Most of you...

I know it was short, but I have to say I sure fell for him. My heart just fell for him. He was the type of a man you truly want, but he didn't want me. Had all the qualities I wanted in a man. But...

Thanks never thought that. I was just being the friend I usually am to all my friends. I try to be a friend and nice to everyone, including him. I am doing better at moving on, but isn't it true that...

Well guys, I am back. I haven't talked to him in over 2 weeks. It has been hard as I do care and love him. But I guess you can still care and love a friend. Like I said I told him I cared and loved...

Thanks I am doing better. I know I have to stop talking to him. In fact I called him today to tell him why I would not be talking to him(calling him) I told him my feelings and how I am trying to get...

Well guys I am back again. I have not called him. I heard from him today. I was happy but sad. I was cool and calm when talking to him and we talked like friends. I wanted to tell how I feel and how...

Its been 3 months since we stopped dating. I was confused(he said I was everything he wanted in a woman, but it wasn't there)We dated 5 months and I fell in love with him, because I thought we were...

Thanks again. I will not call and see what happens with him. I guess I will know wher I stand with him. If he misses me and wants me great, if not, oh well. I do care and love him and I wish him the...

You are right we are not a couple. Once but not now. I have tried to be a frin, but its hard. Its breaking my haert and I cry too much over it. You're right, I guess I figure by being friends he will...

Thanks to everyone here and hope everyone has a great year.

What do you mean don't understand? Hes just wanting to be friends. He didn't say anything about getting back with me. So I am just trying to be cautious with him as I don't know what to expect. I am...

I have been reading on self improvement(my self esteem and confidence) I have been working on it more and more. I have affirmations on self love and attracting love. I have been positive. I...

But they say affirmations for love attract what we want. Isn't that what they are all about? I have just about given up on everything else, so I thought this would help.

I use to love myself more than I do. But I have a problem with being alone and no one understands. It hurts so much. I am crying right now. So what I am saying is can I affirm a mans name that I...

All right everyone. I got through the holidays, but I still want him and think of him everyday. I still cry over him. And then out of the blue he called this past Tuesday(1-6) We talked for an hour....

Okay. I mean when your'e using them to attract love can you use the man's name you are wanting in your life? Sorry didn't phrase it correctly.

I have read about using affirmations and that you do get what you want. I have read on ways to apply them and use them. You can't use personal names-is that correct? There seem to be differents ways...

No he is not over her and it will take him some time. Like I said to him there is someone out there for each of us. And I have got to believe there is. He sure is everything in a man I want, but he's...

Well I hope everyone here had a great New Year. I wanted to tell everyone what happened New Years Eve around 5pm. I emailed all my friends to say Happy New Year and this man Martin was included in...

You are right. I should not have any contact, but I feel like when he calls me its great. He only calls once in awhile and I know that's bad. I just have a hard time with getting over this guy. When...

Thanks everyone. I made it through the holidays, but they were lonely. I still think of him everyday and night, even cry at times. I just have a hard time forgetting him. He was the right guy, and...

You are right. I need to forget about him, even as a friend. As his idea of a friend is very little friendship. And I need to heal. How? I am still trying to figure that out too. Thanks for all your...

I know time heals and I am trying to forget him, but its very difficult when this man just was what I wanted and still want. Hes everything I want in a partner. Hes exactly me. I felt in my heart he...

You say that he was honest and didn't lead me on. Said that he wanted a relationship, wanted to get married. Well he did give me mixed signals for 5 months, by telling me I was the woman he always...

Hi Lanigirl. I have had a hard time dealing with it. He just stopped seeing and calling me. Starte dating someone else, and didn't tell me till I ask. That hurt a lot. And said I was everything he...

I still cry everyday. He called on my birthday but didn't want to go out with me. That hurt as we celebrated his day and I thought as a friend he would do that. He said he only wants to call me as a...

And you are all right. He doesn't want what I want, so why would he want to be friends with me. I have so many friends, saying this and saying that(I am too nice-be nasty, I need to get him back and...

Then I guess you don't have to have feelings at all. I dated this man for 5 months(we had everything in common,cpmpatible,we were what each was looking for in a partner)but then he says he just...

I know I invested time, but I really liked him, more than I thought. And I haven't called him as I was hoping he would call me. He said he wanted friendship, so I am to assume he is not being...

Thanks Michele. I have to say he was a real gentleman. There was never no benefits with him. Not that intimate. And that was fine with me, as it was refreshing to find a man that wanted to get to...

So a guy must have feelings for you. If your everything a guy wants, but he doesn't have that spark, it won't work. I agree with the emotional needs of both. But what of feelings, do they come in...

I do know you can have a full life being single, but I certainly would like to share my life with someone. I also try very hard not to get my hopes up. And I try to be a positive person everyday at...

I know there is someone for everyone. It just seemed like it was meant to be. When he told me often that I was the woman he was looking for, I had hopes that this guy really wanted something with me....

To the previous posts. I wasn't looking for a man when he just appeared. And I have been through more than most and feel better about myself more than I have in along time. I know all of you say we...

Just wondering what keeps a man attracted to a woman? Is it kindness,personality,looks,what is it? What turns a man off from a woman?? (theres being a great cook,easygoing,etc)what keeps that man to...

My husband abandoned me in the middle of nowhere(after talking me into selling and moving) took money and everything else. Found out that he had planned it to be with another. Never found him,so got...

I started volunteer work with children and the elderly. My friends just don't seem to understand what I am going through, so I just don't talk about it anymore. I just smile, try to be happy and love...

I hate not to be his friend. As I have always been a great friend. Some friends come and go, but I am the type you can rely on for friendship(thats how I was raised) I don't want him to think I don't...