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    Not much you can do unless you have a court order...

    Not much you can do unless you have a court order stating otherwise...
    Is there anything in your order that states he must keep you up to date on the daily activities and/or well being of your son?
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    What exactly is he lying about? He gave you an...

    What exactly is he lying about? He gave you an explanation about the numbers, if you don't believe him... well, there's not much he can do about that to convince you, is there? You could call these...
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    Are you currently handling your case through your...

    Are you currently handling your case through your private attorney or through a state agency in FL?
    I noticed you said letters have been sent back and forth between FL and IL... what does the state...
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    Uh, yeah, I'm going to have to second that first...

    Uh, yeah, I'm going to have to second that first opinion you just got there...

    It doesn't seem like your boyfriend being gay should be on the top of the list of reasons not to be with him...
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    If your doctor has not said flat out, "Do not...

    If your doctor has not said flat out, "Do not have sex.." then go for it... You are a healthy woman obviously, you're pregnant without bleeding... you're good to go!

    You can have sex completely...
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    It's totally normal.. part of the healing...

    It's totally normal.. part of the healing process... keep doing what you're doing with your mouthwash and keeping food out of the area of the piercing.. it'll get better and less white!
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    For my then bf's 18th birthday, my friend and I...

    For my then bf's 18th birthday, my friend and I blew up balloons enough to cover his room.. inside a few we left little hints written as poems to lead him to the next color of balloon to pop, another...
  8. T*** W***** Communications Phoenix June 25,...

    T*** W*****
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    Same sex marriage is a very controversial topic, and the more it appears in the news the more heated the topic becomes. It is imperative for...
  9. I don't think anyone is here to offend... just to...

    I don't think anyone is here to offend... just to dispense advice the best they can based on their own experiences, and the very short history they're given to work from...

    I think from where you...
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    ... I'm with linnealand about the leggings... I...

    ... I'm with linnealand about the leggings... I do love my tattered jeans though as well...

    I just loooove love love the top, it's gorgeous! I'm 27 and would be proud to own it myself!

    Do you...
  11. See... what we'd tell you? Now aren't you glad...

    See... what we'd tell you? Now aren't you glad you didn't go off stalking the boy and making him think you can't live without him! Way to hang in there...
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    Is your doctor not answering these questions for...

    Is your doctor not answering these questions for you? They should be, especially if you are concerned about them...

    If you are having a healthy and normal pregnancy, then there's nothing wrong...
  13. "but how long does a guy stay in his "man cave"...

    "but how long does a guy stay in his "man cave" for??"

    ... I doubt there's a certain length of time for this man behavior; but I do think it depends on what he is going through... I know you've...
  14. Is there a bulletin board at your school? Post...

    Is there a bulletin board at your school? Post fliers there, there may be plenty of parents with younger kids looking for school age babysitters...
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    Are we talking about some sort of relationship...

    Are we talking about some sort of relationship where one parent split, and has since not contacted the child? Or is this something different? I'm going to assume it's the first one since you posted...
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    While I don't think there's one general answer to...

    While I don't think there's one general answer to this question... I think there's usually a general formula that is followed... you meet someone and have nothing but that physical attraction to work...
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    Does she have reflux problems?

    Does she have reflux problems?
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    "We had a few trust issues because we both lied...

    "We had a few trust issues because we both lied to each other once throughout the relationship...3 days into the break up she has already kissed another guy but swears she is not looking for another...
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    JB... I love that saying,. "buses come to those...

    JB... I love that saying,. "buses come to those who wait"!! Ha!

    What great advice too... I 100% agree... how else you going to know for sure?

    And another thought... what would you do...
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    I can only imagine how disappointed his absence...

    I can only imagine how disappointed his absence makes you feel; but it sounds like you are already doing as much as you can to fill the void left behind...

    I think you'll find that the contact...
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    "i caught him cheating on me..." ... This is...

    "i caught him cheating on me..."

    ... This is what got the ball rolling for him to have the problems he's having now--which is why he should be doing all he can to get back in and STAY in your good...
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    I don't know your history with this.. or your...

    I don't know your history with this.. or your current family situation.. but I think I've heard it mentioned on here before that you are 13, am I right?
    If so... are you (or do you want to be)...
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    You can either avoid his calls, forcing him to...

    You can either avoid his calls, forcing him to take his time and space... OR... you can tell him flat out, "Look, you want time away from me, space from a relationship with me yet you won't stop...
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    I agree with all above posters... you seem more...

    I agree with all above posters... you seem more fixated on WHY he's breaking up with you... mentioning all the people that were badmouthing you to him... but in the end it's HIS decision only...
    ...
  25. Question: Mother in law

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    So there's noted tension between you and your...

    So there's noted tension between you and your future MIL, huh? Try a very "attract more bees with honey than vinegar approach" with your MIL... "I'd really like for all us adults to be able to enjoy...
  26. Question: Mother in law

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    Well, you can try leaving your son with the...

    Well, you can try leaving your son with the sitter like you already have planned... and then gently remind everyone--fiancee & mother in law--that this is a ceremony.. lasting only ONE day... and...
  27. I haven't read your other posts on the subject......

    I haven't read your other posts on the subject... so I don't know what exactly your guy is going through; but if you stay with another person long enough, you'll notice that not only will you need...
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    Have to respectfully disagree Fr_Chuck... I had...

    Have to respectfully disagree Fr_Chuck... I had the same thing happen to me out of the clear blue by members of my own race--they, however, were teenagers who thought it would be funny... well, they...
  29. Question: Mother in law

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    Hire an outside babysitter who has no desire to...

    Hire an outside babysitter who has no desire to attend your wedding to babysit your son...
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    Exactly WHY is it that you'd like to marry him?

    Exactly WHY is it that you'd like to marry him?
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    Sounds like you both have a lot to wrap your...

    Sounds like you both have a lot to wrap your heads around here... you had a stroke with lasting effects, and her starting menopause--which serves to make the sanest of women question their existence...
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    Without knowing the particular laws of Texas, I'm...

    Without knowing the particular laws of Texas, I'm going to assume yes... or everyone who defaulted on a credit card would be moving to Texas...
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    "Ok so currently we know we love eachother and we...

    "Ok so currently we know we love eachother and we both come to the conclusion that we need to do our own life thing due to how long and how young we met. we have not really had life experience. I...
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    I've heard this happens a lot with Firefox... you...

    I've heard this happens a lot with Firefox... you might want to install some anti virus software...
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    Block his emails... Call block his phone...

    Block his emails...
    Call block his phone number...
    If he shows up on your doorstep, warn him if he doesn't leave, you'll call the cops...
    If he sends a letter, mark it 'refused' and stick it...
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    How long did it take you to do that.. because it...

    How long did it take you to do that.. because it took me a good five minutes just to try and read it and now my eyes hurt...
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    It's not right for his ex to be able to defraud...

    It's not right for his ex to be able to defraud the gov'ment for daycare expenses, and at the same time be able to recoup that same amount from your hubby, only then to pocket it... just as it's not...
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    Like froggy pointed out... if the government pays...

    Like froggy pointed out... if the government pays for her state assisted daycare for the kid, then the government will get reimbursed first, not hubby...

    I also with smokedetector who says call...
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    "i never got a reply because i dont think she...

    "i never got a reply because i dont think she ever forgave me for the "wh0re" thing, which i will remind u i never said. she called herself that"

    ... I disagree... I think she didn't reply because...
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    If your ex doesn't want your money, could you...

    If your ex doesn't want your money, could you possibly make an offer of what you would like your monthly child support to her to be--if she agrees, then you could draw up paperwork saying you are...
  41. "is it or is it not standard for a re-marrying...

    "is it or is it not standard for a re-marrying couple to include their children/step-children-to-be in the wedding?"

    ... I don't think there is such a thing as 'standard' when it comes to blended...
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    I'm not even sure if this varies just state to...

    I'm not even sure if this varies just state to state or probation officer to probation officer... a friend of mine here was trying to track down her ex husband for child support purposes and had...
  43. From your post, you sound like a very genuine and...

    From your post, you sound like a very genuine and understanding friend--willing to give your girl the space she needs without whining to her about your own feelings...

    I have no further advice...
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    Do you know the jail they paroled from... or...

    Do you know the jail they paroled from... or maybe the city/state they are in?

    If so.. you could make a couple of calls to the prison asking which probation officer this person would be assigned...
  45. While I didn't go so far as thinking I should get...

    While I didn't go so far as thinking I should get knocked up to get some bad attention versus no attention at all while growing up... I did have similar feelings with the way my mom & extended family...
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    So... are you questioning what you should write?

    So... are you questioning what you should write?
  47. I would say that anything's possible... but it's...

    I would say that anything's possible... but it's impossible for me to know that possibility without more information... could we get that if possible?
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    "should i share this with her? or our friends?" ...

    "should i share this with her? or our friends?"

    ... I know you might think showing this to her and your friends might salvage what reputation as a man you have left with them; but, really, all I...
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    "i had nothing else to loose so i went ahead..."...

    "i had nothing else to loose so i went ahead..."

    ... That's good.. you liked him, he seemed to like you... so you made an effort to try and contact him.. you made yourself available to him, you...
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    ... do you hear chains rattling? ... are your...

    ... do you hear chains rattling?
    ... are your white sheets missing?
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